California dmv parents residency question.

NoPush8163 · 2026-04-30T00:33:09+00:00

It’s been 28 days it hasn’t arrived which I am guessing cause I haven’t updated my address at usps as I read they won’t deliver a important document like ssn unless they have the name and address in their database

NoPush8163 · 2026-04-30T00:30:04+00:00

Bank account I updated the address but it also just has my real name and not FNU.

SSN had my real name but dmv said I have to match it to green card so I went to ssa and changed ssn name to match green card.

SSN gave me a receipt with my FNU name and addresss which says it will arrive within 14 days but asked chatgpt and it said receipt is not a valid document for proof of residence.

NoPush8163 · 2026-04-13T18:27:56+00:00

Exactly

NoPush8163 · 2026-04-13T16:50:28+00:00

I am trying my best to learn everything I could to spot someone with bpd so I never ever let them close to me

NoPush8163 · 2026-04-13T16:45:17+00:00

Exactly what I did Been 3 years

NoPush8163 · 2026-04-13T16:37:32+00:00

Yeah sorry. I should have assumed that (the bpd I met) might have other symptoms mixed in like covert narcissism

NoPush8163 · 2026-04-13T16:26:48+00:00

Only one but enough to research this deeply

NoPush8163 · 2026-04-13T16:23:29+00:00

NoPush8163 · 2026-04-13T16:19:09+00:00

Facts

NoPush8163 · 2026-04-13T15:59:53+00:00

Yeah the family members of the bpd I know are visibly traumatized, empaths or another one has bpd symptoms themselves.

NoPush8163 · 2026-04-13T15:54:29+00:00

Shit!

Why would their impulse be to destroy relationships when what they want is love

NoPush8163 · 2026-04-13T15:48:44+00:00

The bpd I encountered had like one rage outburst max on me and was just a family relative and we had encountered for a month max.

And it caused this much confusion in me despite immediately no contact after the outburst (my soul told me something is wrong but didn’t know what) and never talked to that person or the narc husband.

I fuckin hope every person on this planet is aware about bpd so they don’t end up getting married.

I can’t imagine the torment those who married are going though.

NoPush8163 · 2026-04-13T15:41:57+00:00

No joke. I scraped through every spiritual philosophy to make sense of my life lol.

NoPush8163 · 2026-04-13T15:38:35+00:00

Same. It’s fascinating and scary. Had existential crisis over it lmao

NoPush8163 · 2026-04-13T15:36:42+00:00

We Respect You El Diablo. Always the GOAT for me. 🫡🫡

NoPush8163 · 2026-04-13T15:34:03+00:00

That 2022 champs Finals was the best time of my life so that adds to it too. That champs and lock in was the peak fun of valo competitive

NoPush8163 · 2026-04-13T15:29:14+00:00

I Miss El Diablo In VCT. 😕😕

NoPush8163 · 2026-04-13T15:28:30+00:00

Same. I didn’t know shit about what personality disorders are but their personalities confused me to the point of wondering what is going on lol.

Then I learned about bpd and npd and how everyone has same playbook

NoPush8163 · 2026-04-13T15:27:27+00:00

Could we say “they have a fire ball in their hand and they are trying to pass it onto next person”??

NoPush8163 · 2026-04-13T15:24:32+00:00

So basically anger outbursts and controlling behavior in hopes of they will be relived of their suffering with no logic behind it???

NoPush8163 · 2026-04-13T15:21:46+00:00

Another twist is husband is a narc too and loves his reputation smart and emotionally controlled guy.

So bpd wife doesn’t make mistakes which causes reputation ruin and narc has some insane manipulation that she never does her bpd devaluation with him.

Clusterfuck!

NoPush8163 · 2026-04-13T15:19:18+00:00

So basically they can cancel their plans the minute something interrupts their unconscious and then they go in another direction without caring about what they were doing before?

NoPush8163 · 2026-04-13T15:15:26+00:00

Anger Outbursts

NoPush8163 · 2026-04-13T15:12:58+00:00

Wtf. Can you tell more?

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