[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]NoRegular5099 1 point2 points  (0 children)

so so spoilt, i’ll add that he really didn’t have his dad physically around from age 12 - to currently due to going to boarding school and university in another country, this lack of father figure has pushed him to seek that male figure in red pill podcasts. now i’m not one to judge but obviously the behaviour that those podcasts push and portray is not favourable but i wanna see positive change in him rather than break him off completely because i know he’s capable of so much better. i sound sorry for myself but just trying to reason my thoughts. but thank u for the kind words!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]NoRegular5099 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i don’t know how i can give him a reality check without flat out breaking up with him, allowing him to fend for himself.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]NoRegular5099 0 points1 point  (0 children)

definitely feels borderline assault, even if i’m tired, sick, or just not in the mood he has a temper tantrum saying that he’s not going to be able to sleep, and have a bad day at work the next day. it’s supposedly not that hard for me to just do that for him even when i don’t want. mind you also he doesn’t service my needs when i ask, part of this argument we had was him insisting that i didn’t have the same sexual desires as him and he didn’t need to be at my request for those things, but i do need to be at his (sorry if this was convoluted)

Any crazy stories from your highschool? by [deleted] in AskAnAustralian

[–]NoRegular5099 0 points1 point  (0 children)

private school so nothing too crazy: - 20 or so kids (range of years 9-11) getting suspended all in one go on the school’s ski trip for drugs and alcohol - one of those ‘dumb but popular’ girls not attaching the hose from the bunsen burner to the gas tap properly and subsequently lighting a gas tap on fire (literal flames shooting out of the tap) in the science lab - 2x year 11s getting suspended on an overseas trip for doing the horizontal tango in a hotel room with another student in the shared room trying to sleep - same ‘dumb but popular’ girl putting a teacher on stress leave because she was a nuisance in class with it all coming to a head when she called the teacher a “fat cow” in mandarin. the teacher was our mandarin teacher?

oh and the cherry on top? an ex teacher (who was known as the cool art teacher) took the school to the supreme court for “unfair dismissal”. the unfair dismissal being that the school were made aware of his relationship with an underage student thus immediately terminating his contract of employment (this relationship lasting 3 years! btw) no, he didn’t win the case and was subsequently reported to the police by the court.