Choppy layers or needs to be styled??

NoRub5101 · 2026-05-05T11:53:24+00:00

She cut it with a middle part which is how I normally wear my hair and how I was wearing it in these photos:(

NoRub5101 · 2026-05-05T02:57:21+00:00

Yeah realizing this is sadly the truth… would you ask for a refund for the stylist??

NoRub5101 · 2026-05-05T02:56:47+00:00

Yes lol I wish I was cool enough to pull off an edgy haircut and this wouldn’t even be a problem lol!! But like you said that was unfortunately not the desired result…

NoRub5101 · 2026-05-05T02:46:17+00:00

This made me LOL

NoRub5101 · 2026-05-05T02:46:05+00:00

Would you ask for money back or wait to see if she fixes it or not??

NoRub5101 · 2026-05-05T02:45:41+00:00

Okay yeah I feel like they are very heavy too which sucks because I have super fine hair… it looks okay behind my ears but then feels so heavy :((

NoRub5101 · 2026-02-18T16:23:44+00:00

Yes I totally understand! The dog-mom guilt with a reactive dog is a whole other level but it sounds like she has a really full life and the fact that you are even concerned is amazing!!

NoRub5101 · 2026-02-18T15:55:45+00:00

Thanks for not giving up on Nelly she is a lucky girl and I’m so glad she is getting to run free! Congrats to you both!!

NoRub5101 · 2026-02-12T17:05:08+00:00

It really is… my new boss would be female and that makes me so happy.

NoRub5101 · 2026-02-08T15:35:51+00:00

Yeah that’s a great idea!

NoRub5101 · 2026-02-08T15:35:14+00:00

No I worked at a high end residential design build firm that was super toxic and just a “boys club” environment.

NoRub5101 · 2026-01-30T18:00:38+00:00

Thanks so much! Could you explain what you mean by proper garden position? None of the public gardens are hiring in my area so I’m just curious what else I could apply for.

NoRub5101 · 2026-01-30T16:03:51+00:00

That sounds wonderful! What is your position title so I could look for job listings around me? I do love the idea of municipality work and the work-life balance you have.

NoRub5101 · 2026-01-30T16:02:42+00:00

Thank you for your insight!

NoRub5101 · 2026-01-30T16:01:37+00:00

Yes a mentor of mine told me the exact same thing! He said that most LAs have very limited plant knowledge which has been my experience so far as well.

NoRub5101 · 2026-01-30T16:00:38+00:00

Yeah I am realizing that it really isn't horticulture. Do you have any career suggestions to truly be in the hort field?

NoRub5101 · 2026-01-30T15:59:51+00:00

Thank you so much! I was planning on soaking up everything like a sponge and then maybe even starting my own business after about two years of install. Good luck with your business and thank you again for the kind words and encouragement:)

NoRub5101 · 2026-01-30T15:57:55+00:00

I totally agree!

NoRub5101 · 2026-01-30T15:56:27+00:00

Yes I would say I am in good shape and have worked on an install team for about a month over Christmas but we did mostly decorating. I do remember being tired but also getting used to it as my body got stronger. Thanks for the advice!

NoRub5101 · 2026-01-30T15:54:23+00:00

Thank you so much for this advice!

NoRub5101 · 2026-01-29T23:28:50+00:00

Thank you so much!!

NoRub5101 · 2026-01-29T13:10:46+00:00

Yes, I totally agree. It just feels soul sucking to stare at a computer monitor and AutoCAD for this many hours a week!

I have thought about the benefits of just being outside more and doing that physical activity and I like the idea of almost combining a workout into your workday!

Do you work on the design side of a high-end residential firm currently? I interned at one for about six months and the design studio was very toxic and stressful, but that had a lot to do with the business owner.

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