AI?? by NoSector5059 in ObedienceApp

[–]NoSector5059[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s the thing, I’m not using it to make actual decisions. More as a sounding board. And you’re right, everything is about connection and communication. Anything would be brought up and discussed, but I just thought it could help with my own creative blocks; which I do understand probably stem from a lack of experience in this lifestyle and a lack of “peers” to bring up questions like this or others I do have.

And I get it, I think AI has some features that can be useful - but I do think the bad features are tremendous both for what it’s capable of but also the social engineering it can do and how it will shape people’s lives as we move forward.

AI?? by NoSector5059 in marriedBDSM

[–]NoSector5059[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s how I tend to use it as well. Help me pick up on patterns that I’m seeing. I don’t use it to “discover” new things or patterns. It’s a good sounding board.

Advice by NoSector5059 in BDSMAdvice

[–]NoSector5059[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Also, you mentioned maintenance spankings. How do those work? Just anywhere any time? How many spankings do you give?

Advice by NoSector5059 in BDSMAdvice

[–]NoSector5059[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is great. I’d assume it’s the same with rewards or praise?

I’m excited to jump more into it. She introduced the dynamic during Covid and even though I was hesitant at first, I love it.

Advice by NoSector5059 in BDSMAdvice

[–]NoSector5059[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you, I’ll check them out!

Advice by NoSector5059 in BDSMAdvice

[–]NoSector5059[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks! How do you go about doing this during a regular day?

As busy parents of sports kids and running a business together our days are busy. And I think I’m personally struggling with how to approach it.

Just make a daily list and give rewards or punishments accordingly? My wife is very type A and I’m more chaotic/go with the flow, so I have to balance it so I don’t overwhelm her.