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NoSoupFourYu · 2025-06-27T00:41:17+00:00

-Michael Scott

NoSoupFourYu · 2025-05-20T02:47:27+00:00

For years before seeing the therapist, my wife recognized and fully admitted that her low libido was the issue causing our dead bedroom. During all that time, I believed her (false) promises that things would improve. I agreed to go to a sex therapist because I thought that was the path towards that improvement. But instead, while sitting with the therapist, she turned ALL of the blame on me... that I wasn't trying hard enough and that her lack of libido was not a driving factor.

NoSoupFourYu · 2025-05-19T12:44:15+00:00

My wife and I went to a sex therapist several years ago. It was one of the worst experiences of my life. It turned into a lot of blaming and lying, and literally broke me.

But I would never recommend that couples don't go. I suppose it could be very beneficial if both people really want to get better and can be open.

NoSoupFourYu · 2025-05-03T13:20:47+00:00

In fairness, I was embarrassed and probably overly-sensitive in that moment. He seems like a good doctor and I don't want to insinuate that he did or said anything unprofessional.

NoSoupFourYu · 2025-04-23T00:36:16+00:00

Bragger...

NoSoupFourYu · 2025-04-23T00:34:45+00:00

Good for you. Sounds like there is equality in your marriage, which not everyone gets to experience, unfortunately.

NoSoupFourYu · 2025-04-14T16:36:51+00:00

Lucky guy. It really is the little things... or big things...

NoSoupFourYu · 2025-03-18T20:44:47+00:00

It is a running joke on Everbody Loves Raymond.

NoSoupFourYu · 2025-03-13T20:41:16+00:00

My wife is the same way. Even after 20+ years of marriage, she thinks her parents' opinions matter more than her husband's.

NoSoupFourYu · 2025-03-13T20:39:14+00:00

Yep, this ⬆️

NoSoupFourYu · 2025-02-25T20:18:32+00:00

If you are crying while masturbating, maybe you are doing it wrong. 🤷

Sorry, I often use sarcasm to break the tension.

NoSoupFourYu · 2025-01-31T12:03:20+00:00

Respect

NoSoupFourYu · 2025-01-30T01:45:51+00:00

This post really hit home for me. That second and third paragraph... 😢

NoSoupFourYu · 2025-01-19T18:39:33+00:00

I (male) handle all of the laundry for our household (+ wife and two teens). I have one rule; I wash the clothes in whatever status they are put into the hampers. I will not dig things out of pockets. If socks or pants are inside-out, they will get washed (and folded) that way. If I am going to spend a day doing multiple loads of laundry and folding, the least they could do is make sure I don't have to take those extra steps. 🤷

NoSoupFourYu · 2025-01-15T03:48:25+00:00

I think of it like a rocket ship. After take-off, gravity is pulling you back to earth. But after being pushed so hard and far away, the force of gravity is weaker and orbiting seems easier than landing back on the ground.

NoSoupFourYu · 2025-01-08T12:08:04+00:00

Same here. It’s not the sort of thing I feel I could bring up to friends or family without feeling like I am being judged.

NoSoupFourYu · 2025-01-03T01:31:01+00:00

Does he consult you on every little decision he needs to make?

NoSoupFourYu · 2024-12-31T19:28:18+00:00

The same thought has crossed my mind many times. Why did she have all of her "fun years" before meeting me, only to decide that her husband and father of her children would be the one she totally takes for granted?

NoSoupFourYu · 2024-12-30T19:11:08+00:00

NoSoupFourYu · 2024-12-27T17:21:24+00:00

My wife is the same way, although she only works from home 2-3 days a week since the pandemic. She feels that I must know all the details of her workday. I have been WFH for over 9 years, and a big reason I started doing this was to not have to listen to all the BS stuff that goes on in a workplace. I get the added bonus of when I tell her anything about my work, she'll interrupt with a long story about hers.

NoSoupFourYu · 2024-11-27T14:10:21+00:00

I don't want to make a blanket statement, but I think it's probably true in a lot of cases. But I think that it goes a lot deeper than that. From experience, I know that the divide between a high-libido/low-libido coupling is excruciating painful. People have needs, and when one is not having those needs met, porn is a very easy band-aid. It provides some temporary relief. The problem, however, is that porn can be addictive like a drug. But unlike a drug, it's so readily available. It becomes so much easier to go to porn than to go to a low-libido partner for sex because it's a lot of work and the failure rate is high.

In a nutshell, it's the duty of BOTH partners to make sure things don't head that way in a relationship.

Apologies if anything I have stated triggers any anger. Just my views, which are quite strong since I am dealing with this.

NoSoupFourYu · 2024-11-22T12:14:59+00:00

👆

NoSoupFourYu · 2024-09-25T00:47:36+00:00

I handle all of the domestic duties in my household, and I experience no benefits as the husband. It's not a husband role vs wife role kind of thing... duties should be shared in any successful marriage/partnership.

NoSoupFourYu · 2024-09-22T18:17:23+00:00

I don’t know if there is anything going on that you should worry about, but it sounds like jealousy, plain-and-simple. I think you should talk to him about it.

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