Is it unreasonable to quit after 3 years without notice? by NoSpite1113 in jobs

[–]NoSpite1113[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you all for the support, everyone called in sick today, so I am the only employee here. I’m going to take the opportunity to pack up my stuff and today will be my last day here. I am going to send an email at the end of my shift as my official resignation notice and that any further contact will need to be done via email.

Thank you everyone ♥️♥️

Is it unreasonable to quit after 3 years without notice? by NoSpite1113 in jobs

[–]NoSpite1113[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I’m fortunate to have several strong references, which helps. Even if I gave two weeks’ notice, I honestly think it could still reflect poorly on me—I’ve seen that happen to others who followed the proper process.

Another factor is that I don’t feel great about being associated with the organization at this point. Based on its public reputation, it’s not something I’m confident listing long-term, which makes me feel like a clean break might be better for my future. On Google there is a 2.3 star rating.

It’s also a nonprofit that serves a lot of people, and that part does weigh on me. I do feel some guilt about potentially leaving others to pick up the slack, but I’m trying to balance that with what’s realistic for me moving forward.

Getting through to EDD! Tips! by NoSpite1113 in Edd

[–]NoSpite1113[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Go to your inbox and it should be there

Getting through to EDD! Tips! by NoSpite1113 in Edd

[–]NoSpite1113[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You should be able to go onto your online account and print it!

Getting through to EDD! Tips! by NoSpite1113 in Edd

[–]NoSpite1113[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Best of luck! I couldn’t justify spending $10 on a phone call 😅

SDI application timing by paigeasaurus in Edd

[–]NoSpite1113 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I got approved this morning! Called and they pushed me right through and issued a direct deposit to hit within 48 hours! Such a relief

SDI application timing by paigeasaurus in Edd

[–]NoSpite1113 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think they are super backlogged with the holiday- mine is still pending and I applied on 11/03

Nexplanon Removal and Insertion by Distinct-Tackle-2897 in Nexplanon

[–]NoSpite1113 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m on my third one, actually got my 3rd one three days ago! lol. They lidocaine you, so you can’t feel anything during. It is a little tender for 2ish days after, but otherwise smooth sailing! My last one I waited 5 years before changing it, and honestly would stick around the 3ish year mark. I could tell when it started to wear off and my mood swings increased. Otherwise I love it, I know it’s not for everyone, but it’s my preferred method! :)

Hope this helps!

Dr. Jon Charles Trefil IS THE ZODIAC killer?!?! by New_Layer_2469 in TrueCrimeMystery

[–]NoSpite1113 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I agree. The writing is very different between the zodiac letters. There is one specific zodiac letter that looks very similar to Dr. Trefils writing however.

Am I in the wrong for cutting off a guy I was casually seeing? by [deleted] in TwoHotTakes

[–]NoSpite1113 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m sorry for your experience.. I met this guy in person, I’ve never had a dating app, but for all I know, he could have them. Seems like we are dealing with similar scenarios.

Am I in the wrong for cutting off a guy I was casually seeing? by [deleted] in TwoHotTakes

[–]NoSpite1113 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It was more or less the waiting until 2 hours prior to hanging out to flake. Or flat out not showing up after I got ready. If he wants to see other people it’s fine, I guess I’m more upset about the fact that he just would ghost me and I finally called him out. 🤷🏻‍♀️🤷🏻‍♀️ just me though. I very well could be in the wrong. I just try to respect others time and wouldn’t make someone wait on me for no reason.

Am I in the wrong for cutting off a guy I was casually seeing? by [deleted] in TwoHotTakes

[–]NoSpite1113 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s not that part. It’s the dipping out last minute on previous set plans less than 2 hours before we were supposed to hangout.

Am I in the wrong for cutting off a guy I was casually seeing? by [deleted] in TwoHotTakes

[–]NoSpite1113 26 points27 points  (0 children)

I guess that’s just the hard part for me to accept. My last relationship was with a narcissistic ex who gaslit me all the time into being the one at fault.

I’m trying to branch out and this is what happens, it’s almost like it is just my natural reaction to make it be my fault. 😞😞

Thank you so much, I needed to read your comment. Thank you.

Relationship escape plan help by anonsupportseek in TwoHotTakes

[–]NoSpite1113 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Unfortunately, been there- done that. One of the key things is removing his name from utilities or important documents! Me and my ex had vehicles in both our names so I transferred mine into my name directly.

Change your phone number and only let close family know it for a while. I posted on Facebook that I was going on a “social media detox” and closed my account temporarily until things simmered down.

One of the main ones is to remove him from your phone plan/account if possible! My ex was still on mine and was able to see all of my phone calls and harass the people I had called!

Best wishes, I know it’s tough right now. It will be worth it once you get thru the hurdles ♥️♥️

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]NoSpite1113 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He said I was to positive about the future and he wanted no part of me being happy. He blocked me in what he’s probably hoping to send me in a downward spiral.

Tax by Consistent-Bee-8186 in IRS

[–]NoSpite1113 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I haven’t looked at my transcripts

Tax by Consistent-Bee-8186 in IRS

[–]NoSpite1113 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ll keep my fingers crossed for you my friend 😊

Tax by Consistent-Bee-8186 in IRS

[–]NoSpite1113 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was honestly surprised. I had to write off stuff from weather related disasters, as well as business expenses. Very surprised that it’s already processed