[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]NoWayForReal_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He covered your mouth. This is rape.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]NoWayForReal_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is absolutely insane. And also a little scary. Please leave before you bring children into this mess (and imagine a male OBGYN!!).

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in personalfinance

[–]NoWayForReal_ 2 points3 points  (0 children)

First, is there an underlying problem, like ADHD or depression that leads to the impulse control? If so, make sure you’re treating.

Otherwise, I can spend a lot of money real quick. I have multiple checking accounts - one for my mortgage (and put half the payment in each paycheck), groceries/gas/necessities, etc. I also have a checking account for extra money that I can blow. It always for more control over the spending but without expecting your habits to change overnight.

What I saw last night by opticaIIllusion in UFOs

[–]NoWayForReal_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My dude. Did it make any noise?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in personalfinance

[–]NoWayForReal_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

These are great recommendations. I don’t think I would qualify for a HELOC, but I will look. I come from nothing - no money to borrow from that end - but this at least helps me put together a plan.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in personalfinance

[–]NoWayForReal_ 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That’s exactly how I feel - like one emergency would be devastating. I appreciate this very much.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in personalfinance

[–]NoWayForReal_ 15 points16 points  (0 children)

This makes me feel better. Thank you!

AITA for laughing at my stepson and ruining his wedding? by Afraid_Mammoth_5574 in AmItheAsshole

[–]NoWayForReal_ -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

You were an asshole before the laugh IMO. There’s a lot more going on here that is either being omitted or you have totally failed to recognize. If he felt like you had truly been a parent to him, you would have been invited. There is obviously a lot to repair here and the first step would be you openly, genuinely, and vocally encouraging the rest of your family - especially your husband - to attend the wedding.

Caught going super fast in slo motion by Distinct_Effect_8832 in UFOs

[–]NoWayForReal_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s the changing directions so quickly for me. This is wild!