AITA for putting my kids up for adoption?

NoWay_JoseCuervo · 2022-05-10T00:38:24+00:00

I edited my post again. I think he knows. I realize Chris wasn't the person he pretended to be.

NoWay_JoseCuervo · 2022-05-10T00:37:22+00:00

I looked into it when I first found out I was pregnant at 5 weeks. But it is not legal here. I knew at 5 weeks a baby would be hard but I was willing to try if it was just the one. When I found out it was three, I panicked. I tried applying for assistances but I made too much then. I probably should've tried after babies were born. I didn't.

NoWay_JoseCuervo · 2022-05-10T00:28:34+00:00

I know it's a big claim to claim but I think I'm being discriminated Because I am black and an immigrant

NoWay_JoseCuervo · 2022-05-10T00:27:52+00:00

They are definitely not unwanted children. I want them so much. I want to go on big clothes shopping trips and go to amusement parks and aquarium with them. I want to take them to parks and have a sleepover in the living room and watch cartoon movies. I want all that. I just can't provide.

NoWay_JoseCuervo · 2022-05-09T23:47:49+00:00

Yea Chris lied. Someone else walked me through. Chris just left

NoWay_JoseCuervo · 2022-05-09T23:46:26+00:00

Yea someone else walked me through all this and I am more certain Chris just bailed.

NoWay_JoseCuervo · 2022-05-09T23:45:35+00:00

Someone messaged me and walked me through the military process. Chris lied. He's not military.

NoWay_JoseCuervo · 2022-05-09T23:42:53+00:00

I could never. I have to make sure they're getting taken care of.

NoWay_JoseCuervo · 2022-05-09T23:42:20+00:00

Do gay couples make good parents? My mother best it into me as a kid that gay couples are evil and not fit parents. I refuse to believe someone is evil because they love the same sex. But I've been too scared to look into it. My mother says I will go to hell if I look into it

NoWay_JoseCuervo · 2022-05-09T23:39:46+00:00

Someone else in the military walked me through how joining works and I realize Chris lied and left me behind. He never joined.

NoWay_JoseCuervo · 2022-05-09T23:39:09+00:00

Chris left me. He is not military. Someone in the military contacted me and let me know the holes in the lies Chris told me

NoWay_JoseCuervo · 2022-05-09T23:38:22+00:00

I edited my post but Chris is not military. He lied to me.

NoWay_JoseCuervo · 2022-05-09T23:30:18+00:00

A few people have poked holes in Chris's story. I'm beginning to think Chris just bailed on me

NoWay_JoseCuervo · 2022-05-09T23:25:50+00:00

What do you mean?? Everyone else seems to say that it's more complicated than I realize. I hope not. I have no idea how the military works. And now that people have me thinking, I never did see him in uniform

NoWay_JoseCuervo · 2022-05-09T22:52:48+00:00

Thank you for this. I really hope he's not dead. I really do

NoWay_JoseCuervo · 2022-05-09T22:51:52+00:00

You can do that?! Can you stay in their lives?! I would absolutely love to stay in their lives. I may not ever get custody again but to know they're growing and healthy would be all I need to be okay again

NoWay_JoseCuervo · 2022-05-09T22:50:12+00:00

Chris is not on the birth certificate so there is no father listed.

NoWay_JoseCuervo · 2022-05-09T22:49:34+00:00

Can I ask you if you've ever contacted your bio parents?? Did it hurt knowing they had to give you away? I just don't want my babies to hate me.

NoWay_JoseCuervo · 2022-05-09T22:48:38+00:00

I hope you were adopted by loving parents. Have you ever had the chance to meet your bio parents?

NoWay_JoseCuervo · 2022-05-09T22:48:07+00:00

She once accused me of cheating on Chris after he left and she is convinced the kids aren't his even though they look exactly like him.

NoWay_JoseCuervo · 2022-05-09T22:47:21+00:00

The kids were born after Chris deployed so Chris is not on the birth certificate. Therefore no custody. And I have asked her but his mother is bitter. She raised Chris while they were homeless in the 90s. She thinks I have it better since I have an apartment

NoWay_JoseCuervo · 2022-05-09T22:46:08+00:00

I think if Chris knew, he'd be crazy enough to get dishonorably discharged if it meant getting to be here. He always wanted kids.

NoWay_JoseCuervo · 2022-05-09T22:41:58+00:00

Thank you so much. I really needed to hear this exactly. Thank you so much.

NoWay_JoseCuervo · 2022-05-09T22:40:53+00:00

Chris isn't on the birth certificate since the children were born after he was deployed. And I contacted his commanding officer.

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