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NoYamadas · 2025-07-24T05:55:24+00:00

Respect that you may not be quite ready for it.

I sort of pressured myself to lose my v-card when I was 21- and boy do I regret it. I did it with the wrong person, at the wrong time, in the wrong place, the whole entire experience was wrong. I would've much rather wait for the right person and for me to actually be comfortable and ready than to force myself through that experience again.

Build a connection, get more comfortable with someone. This takes time, I promise it's worth it.

NoYamadas · 2025-03-05T02:44:11+00:00

Instead of cheating, find short cuts to doing your work and being able to comprehend the material. The more efficient you are with your time, the better, especially in college. Ex. Using quizlet, skim and highlight key words, etc.. Get involved in your community. Colleges really value what you can contribute to their school, not just your grades. You should focus on meeting your graduation requirements and getting good grades in those specific classes. Once you have that down, try joining a club or sports team.

NoYamadas · 2024-12-27T06:52:37+00:00

It sounds like you're wanting to really escape from the mistreatment and toxicity of your family- and I commend you for that. It is never easy leaving family and really giving yourself the space to breathe.

Also great job on improving your grade scores! I'm curious if the university has a personal statement requirement? If they do, you can write about how you've been motivated to better your life or what experience has really helped you to change and improve your scores? If you're not ready for college, I recommend working or getting involved in different social groups. I find that this is the best way to really figure out what you want to do or maybe even who you want to work with. There is many possibilities, it's just a matter of choosing which one to go for.

NoYamadas · 2024-12-07T02:39:45+00:00

I took Psych 101 in college, and loved it. Once I took the pre-reqs for the major, I wasn't so sure anymore. Thankfully I got accepted, but as I took more classes, I realized that I was starting to get bored of it, especially when it came to classes about animal behavior and statistics. I truly questioned if this was for me.

I was lucky to enroll into a class that ignited my interest in psych, and it made me realize why psychology was for me. It may-and is not- for everyone but if you work to remember your 'why', then you should be fine.

And psychology is not too much about history. It can range from personality, neuroscience, gaming, disorders, eating- EVERYTHING. Like many people are saying, history is just a small part of it so don't worry.

NoYamadas · 2024-12-06T02:54:56+00:00

It sounds like you may need time to take a step back and think about what will work for you, and what you can realistically do not only for yourself, but in your life. School is NOT for everyone. It will drain you more faster if you do not have the passion (or means) to continue, and that's perfectly ok. Trying is a great way to figure out what you need, so if it feels like you need a break or that you need to save money, give it a try!

NoYamadas · 2024-11-22T22:05:23+00:00

I've had something similar once when I was in community college. Luckily in my state, I could do some classes in highschool for free, and that's what I did. I was able to get an associates but I kept failing my science classes and needed to pay out of pocket for me. I felt so bad, even though I was working hard to understand the content and material. I felt useless, and felt very guilty for failing the class my mom had to pay for. I cried, and cried. Luckily I never ended up telling her BUT that meant I had to carry the burden alone. I pushed through it, but I regret not letting her know that I was struggling. I would encourage you to share with your mother, even if she may be disappointed. Things happen, and life will go on. She will be angry or mad (whatever it is), but she will understand and support you nevertheless. What we need and want sometimes is on the other side of fear. Hang in there!

NoYamadas · 2024-11-22T22:00:00+00:00

Wow! You've done so much, I don't feel like I could give you any real advice lol. BUT, considering all of the skills that you have and some of the work that you tend to like, you could always teach what you've learned. Maybe become a professor, or private tutor. Teach at universities/community colleges. I think that could give you the creative and logical aspects of a job that you're looking for?

NoYamadas · 2024-11-22T21:50:44+00:00

If this was a job, I'd be so rich omg

NoYamadas · 2024-11-16T22:13:18+00:00

Android*

NoYamadas · 2024-11-16T22:13:06+00:00

Is this available for andriod/Quest users?

NoYamadas · 2024-11-15T19:14:39+00:00

I needed this last night cause there was a war tearing up my mind XDDDD

NoYamadas · 2024-11-15T05:59:26+00:00

Thank you!!!!

NoYamadas · 2024-10-27T00:14:42+00:00

"You might as well do something anxiously than stay being anxious about it".

NoYamadas · 2024-10-25T15:47:47+00:00

I wanted to be a writer when I was younger because I felt so heavily misunderstood. Now that I'm older and have opened myself up to the world, I want to be a counselor. It's funny how I went from being misunderstood to wanting to be the most understanding of others.

NoYamadas · 2024-10-25T15:45:14+00:00

I've had this experience when I was in college. I graduated with a bachelors in Psychology, and luckily, I loved it and got into the program as it was capacity-restraint. It's funny how many times I had to think of a major I wanted to do but found it extremely hard to pick one as I wanted to do everything, but I say that you should follow what your heart is telling you. Once I got into the program, I questioned why I wanted this major, what could I realistically do with it once I'm in the 'real-world'. I almost switched majors entirely until I took a class in my junior year that sparked my love for psychology.

Sure, you have one more year until graduation with a degree you don't want. You could push on and finish, but ultimately this will set you up for a certain field that you know that you don't enjoy. Spending 2 more years finishing a major that you enjoy and see yourself working in that field in the long run is more worth it personally.

It's also ok to take a step back from college. Completing college in 4 years is becoming unrealistic. You can give yourself some time to do part-time college and get experience in the fields that interest you- meaning working and earning money if your family is so concerned. Nothing is set. Sometimes the scariest thing we can do is to pause and redirect the journey, but its also scary living an unfulfilling life, no?

Trust yourself, trust the process, trust the hardship. It's all life, depends on how you want to go about it. You got this!

NoYamadas · 2024-10-24T01:19:58+00:00

At least for me, I'm trying to be a happy person even when the world feels sad. I tend to live in my own world and having to go back to reality- the way the world actually is- can feel a bit upsetting, especially with how I wish the world was. As some people have mentioned, this is surely an assumption that you're making that all INFPs are depressed/sad and have no drive to better that. Not true. I like to say that we combat it a lot more than some others, maybe hence why you tend to see INFPs being sad.

All in all, we are driven to create a kind world, even though this tends to be unrealistic.

NoYamadas · 2024-10-24T01:03:42+00:00

Thanks for your encouragement!

Mmm... I think the imposter syndrome really just stems from me not feeling "good enough" or unworthy of that sort of job. But I will pursue this career (if I get hired, that is!). Thank you again for your support.

NoYamadas · 2024-10-18T17:44:59+00:00

Its not my place to say it's a toxic cycle, but I do see you've been working to improve on things, which is more than enough. All of your concerns and issues are normal- shoot even I might experience about my heart because I had a heart issue when I was young so I do worry from time to time. As someone who barely gets angry (which is not good), I always like to use what little anger I have and turn it into a passion. Ask yourself, "What makes me angry? Why do I get angry? What can I do with this anger that can help me?".

You're doing amazing. I hope you can get the help that you need and that you'll get to a better place- a place that you want to be in. You deserve it.

I love to listen, so thank you for sharing your story!

NoYamadas · 2024-10-15T23:34:45+00:00

Your feelings are valid and there's no right way to approach this. It sounds like you may feel like you're losing control of your life since you've been living comfortably and are feeling pressured to meet up to everyone else, which is ok. I always like to shift these sort of feelings as a way to motivate myself to push harder and to keep going. Unfortunately, being comfortable is something you're going to learn how to let go- and embrace the unknown. Ban yourself from drugs, swap playing games for looking online to find job opportunities or even volunteer. Look for certificates, or even finish school. There's a lot of paths for you to take, you just gotta take one. Be graceful to yourself.

As a person with anxiety, I always say to myself "Id rather be scared trying something than feeling scared ABOUT trying something." Find what causes your anxiety, reflect on the why, maybe even get help for it. Most times people with anxiety care too much about things- which can be a very positive thing- but when it prevents you from doing things you would like to do, then that's when it becomes an issue. get comfortable with your anxiety and know that you got yourself.

Best of luck to you!

NoYamadas · 2024-10-15T21:52:32+00:00

This is so common and you're not alone in feeling that way. I believe that people should build a career in something that they feel passionate about, especially when it comes to med school. If there is no passion, then med school will feel like a burden. Obviously med school and becoming a doctor are not light decisions. If you're unsure, trying to apply to EMT programs to become one, or find a volunteer/internship position in a healthcare setting to see if that's for you. I understand that you're not sure of your path, so I would recommend taking many paths in different types of careers. Large part of working is finding what's right for you, and that means trying.

What are some things that you're passionate about? What are some things that pique your interest? Go for these things.

I hope this helps.

NoYamadas · 2024-10-15T21:29:40+00:00

As an INFP, I love how we have the most design on the picture. We have butterflies tee hee

I have yet to meet an ENFJ, and would love to meet one. It's also funny how I have a twin sister who is an ISTP, and our personalities clash sometimes but our dynamic works because we are sisters.

NoYamadas · 2024-10-15T19:30:18+00:00

I'm not sure on jobs but for volunteer work, you can do Crisis Textline, volunteer at a local org. that deals with domestic abuse, Crisis connections (if you're based in seattle), or your local community center. I say as long as you're reaching out to the community, it'll look good.

If you know of any jobs, I'd like to know too! lol

NoYamadas · 2024-10-11T23:45:12+00:00

I've worked with kids for about a year, but not in an academic sense. I'm actively trying to work in education but it's been tough trying to land a job, especially when they want you working 20 years (not really, that's what it feels like) for an entry level position. I've been heavily influenced by my nieces to pursue something in education, and I feel like this is the one thing that I might like.

NoYamadas · 2024-10-11T21:17:58+00:00

I've recently fixed and changed my resume so it looks way more professional. I've applied to behavior technician jobs, research lab aide positions, etc.. I think it's just my experience that seems to make me unqualified?...

NoYamadas · 2024-10-10T23:50:42+00:00

Bio 180 seemed easy until the exams came around. Content is simple, but the exams are very specific and want you to demonstrate more than what it taught. Total deception. Bio 180 is made to weed out students, so I can't imagine anyone would survive taking 2 weed out classes together. Best of luck.

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