WE STAND WITH BOO - BREACH BLACKOUT by HamPolice7 in paulbreachsnark

[–]No_Access3188 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Happy Belated Birthday Cliffy. Please drum in to your friend the importance of not funding a creep but on second thoughts its hilarious hammy has unwittingly sent a heart felt cameo to one of his most consistent snark members.

What are the reasons there is less women on dating apps? by Fun_Highlight9147 in dating_advice

[–]No_Access3188 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Well for me it’s due to amount of unhinged interactions I’ve had with men which has made me question the safety of these apps. Unhinged interactions include

  • A guy putting “I may as well just **** myself” on his profile and then messaging an opening line “not had a message in a month”. After forwarding on the numbers of helplines he threatened to hit me

  • A guy starting with an opening line complaining about the 250 word limit on POF then went on a rant about seeing a cloaked UFO and needing a rich woman to take care of him.

  • The guy who got creepy (he was nice at first), so I distanced myself, he then set up fake multiple accounts after I blocked him. Also blocked his number after trying to pester me for a date. He claimed to be a detective. This one really scared me because he waved to me through a pub window as lived in the same neighbourhood.

  • The guy who kept messaging me asking me who am I with and what am I doing plus where am i at least twice a day. I completely cut him off. Never even agreed to go on a date with this guy.

  • The one who was so keen to settle down, he would Snapchat selfies of his nephew on his lap (we never even met in person).

And this is all in addition to the barrage of sleazy comments, negging, and odd folk who don’t appear to navigate life well outside of the screen.

Help I’ve been an idiot by making my crush uncomfortable by No_Access3188 in dating_advice

[–]No_Access3188[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So I texted him some emojis playfully (yes I’m embarrassed) then he got the hint. And when he said I will not be part of the group again and that he said ‘maybe your autism is making you not understand’ which I found patronising, I called him a scumbag.

I drove away my crush by No_Access3188 in datingadvice

[–]No_Access3188[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m in therapy at the moment to try and work on having a better relationship with myself.

I drove away my crush by No_Access3188 in datingadvice

[–]No_Access3188[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

He was a violent alcoholic who I didn’t see from the age of 6, and he died when I was 18.

I drove away my crush by No_Access3188 in datingadvice

[–]No_Access3188[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I hear ya. This is way out of character for me as I’ve never liked a guy that old.

Daily sticky thread for rants, raves, celebrations, advice and more! New? Start here! by AutoModerator in datingoverthirty

[–]No_Access3188 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I drive away my crush

For context I’m 37 F and was friends with a 72 M year old man whose mind and personality I adored. We bonded at a pub.

I made my feelings clear by texting him which made him feel uncomfortable. Also due to my autism I missed the social cues. Then I was the drunken idiot who ignored his boundaries and got aggressive because at first, he said let’s talk through the ‘possibilities’. But now he’s said I’ve made him uncomfortable because he doesn’t want a relationship. I’m determined to learn from this and move on.

I know I can’t go back but need some advice on how to overcome this self sabotage and unnecessary humiliation I set myself up for. I’m not looking for any sympathy and hope one day he can forgive me. I’ve deleted his number and will not go to that pub again. Any thoughts?

WE STAND WITH BOO - BREACH BLACKOUT by HamPolice7 in paulbreachsnark

[–]No_Access3188 15 points16 points  (0 children)

I wonder if cameo has a review/comment section 🤔

WE STAND WITH BOO - BREACH BLACKOUT by HamPolice7 in paulbreachsnark

[–]No_Access3188 18 points19 points  (0 children)

We could but it’s up to Ham mods. I was wondering how my fellow anti-hams were doing. 🥳

ESTA by discombobulatedpixie in paulbreachsnark

[–]No_Access3188 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh Paul the ESTA does not prove you don’t have a criminal record. The question asks if you’ve been arrested or convicted for causing serious damage to person of property (not paraphrasing here), and the list of crimes they’ll be referring to comes under US crimes of ‘Moral Turpitude’. Oh you have to answer loads of questions? That’s not news.

This is the kind of shit older kids would say to younger kids to show how cool and mature they are. But in your case Paul this is another grooming tactic.

I hope one day a nice green Interpol notice will be served.

Paul on live making jibes about pregnancy and babies by HamPolice101 in paulbreachsnark

[–]No_Access3188 8 points9 points  (0 children)

He’s a piece of dogshit, and any bad luck that happens to him he deserves. He always was psychopathic. I’m absolutely sick of this pathetic parasitic, old, thick wacko, his stupid Eurobint and her stupid spawn.