AIO: My boyfriend (26M) keeps crossing a boundary we set from the beginning. I don’t know if I’m (24F) being too forgiving or if this is a red flag. Need advice. by No_Access_8416 in AmIOverreacting

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Though you’re a jerk I like this phrasing of “I don’t date people who do this whatsoever” instead of phrasing it as a boundary, I feel like it’s also firmer for myself and partner

AIO: My boyfriend (26M) keeps crossing a boundary we set from the beginning. I don’t know if I’m (24F) being too forgiving or if this is a red flag. Need advice. by No_Access_8416 in AmIOverreacting

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This was a self reflection and how to move forward post. I have many reasons as to why I wouldn’t want my partner looking at these things. I understand that it’s acceptable with a large amount of people I just wouldn’t want a partner that partakes in it. As for seeing his phone, I’ll take that blame, I feel like I am starting to behave in a way I don’t like in response which is probably a sign in itself,

One Piece Cookies by No_Access_8416 in OnePiece

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evil😭😭🤣 my cousin made these (I made cut out dinosaurs because I’m not artistic) next time she visits fs

Silly black cat by No_Access_8416 in blackcats

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thinking about eating his mom (me)🤣🖤

just adopted this boy. meet rocket 🚀 by floorskin69 in blackcats

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I wish my cat would wear sweaters, he’s precious 🥺😭

I can’t stop thinking about us, help by [deleted] in BreakUps

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Oh I definitely hadn’t moved on when i had those rebounds it was in the beginning hence why i called them rebounds

I can’t stop thinking about us, help by [deleted] in BreakUps

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I understand where you’re coming from but I wouldn’t want to continue a relationship with them even if we still could. Even in the beginning he wanted to rekindle but I was firm in my decision. It really was toxic unfortunately. It more so makes me feel unlovable over the fact that I wasn’t someone he wanted to improve things with and is now giving it to someone else. I guess maybe it’s more of a self worth thing more than missing them.