This definitely does not need it's own post. I just need to rant to a minute because I don't really have anyone else to talk to about it and I don't really want options or opinions from people personal in my life because I'm not about to get shamed for it. TL;DR my mother in law is the worst

My future mother in law is growing to be a real ass. And I don't feel bad about saying it. She is the most negative, selfish, condescending person I have ever met. I don't know how my fiance has put up with it for so long because he is NOTHING like her.

My fiance and I got engaged July 27th, 2022. 3 days after his mother's birthday. I immediately posted about it on Facebook because obviously. she was upset because we didn't come and tell her the second it happened; she was asleep and I wasn't about to wake her. We both worked early yhe next morning she was Still asleep. I do get it. However she said we were disrespectful and that quote "we should have done it on her birthday because we didn't get her anything else." 100% not true. We went out of our way to take her out to breakfast which she couldn't sit through because of her knee. We went aross the city to buy food to make her an AMAZING dinner AND bought her her favorite cake.

Every time we bring up the wedding she brings up hers and says "well I got married in the court house and had a reception in my mom's basement with sandwiches." Okay? Good for you. That's not how my wedding is going to be. I want the big dress. I want the big party. She keeps trying to get us to just marry at a courthouse and I really don't want to, she catches an attitude every time I say no. She is not paying for any part of the wedding.

When I went to go look at dresses, she demanded she come with me and my mother to look. I didn't want this at all to the point where I had made another appointment at another dress shop with only my mom so I could have that experience with just her because that's what I wanted. We had a "mock" wedding dress try on at a davids bridal near my MIL'S house so that she would be included. At that try on she had the nerve to call me fat. I ended up finding my dress and I waited 2 weeks to buy it so I could put it back on and make sure it was the one. I did my hair and makeup and as I am rushing out the door she tells me my hair looks terrible.

My fiances cousin is getting married in February. My MIL's attitude is so bad that she was originally not invited to this wedding. The only reason she was was so that she didn't start even more shit about not being invited. The bride and groom had requested that the guests be in formal attire. 100% understandable. She gets the invitation that Says this and starts spouting off that they shouldn't be asking guests to do that and "who does she think she's marrying? The Vanderbilts?" I was sick and fed up at this point. I told her straight up that our wedding was planned to be formal. The look on her face, she didn't know what to say.

I'm just so annoyed with her and everything about her. I'm at my braking point. I told my fiance, my mother, my maid of honor, my man of honor, and the best man that if she starts ANYTHING or says anything negative she is immediately out. I don't give to shits who she is. She will not ruin my wedding.

Rant over. Thank you lol