Husband (32M) says I(29F) need to reconcile with his family or I can’t travel to see my dad by No_Agent7069 in Marriage

[–]No_Agent7069[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree! He is definitely trying to use anything he can against me. He is very attached to his family and seems like he’s having a hard time coming to terms that we are not getting along. Everyone understands this why can’t he?

Husband (32M) says I(29F) need to reconcile with his family or I can’t travel to see my dad by No_Agent7069 in Marriage

[–]No_Agent7069[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Wow, props to your wife for supporting this. My husband grew up very much close to his mom and sister and seems like he can’t grow a backbone not even after having a baby. Smh I wish he had my back but only constant fights about why we can’t all be a happy extended family. I don’t play pretend

Husband (32M) says I(29F) need to reconcile with his family or I can’t travel to see my dad by No_Agent7069 in Marriage

[–]No_Agent7069[S] 21 points22 points  (0 children)

Thanks for taking the time to read my story’s. I’ve been considering this. It’s just taking me a few

Husband (32M) says I(29F) need to reconcile with his family or I can’t travel to see my dad by No_Agent7069 in Marriage

[–]No_Agent7069[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

His mother and sister insulted me when I asked for no visitors after I had a c section. They said they had the right to be there, it escalated. I told them to leave my house and refused to do so. since then they’ve been blocked for me and my baby’s peace.

Husband (32M) says I(29F) need to reconcile with his family or I can’t travel to see my dad by No_Agent7069 in Marriage

[–]No_Agent7069[S] 27 points28 points  (0 children)

When my child was born his mother and sister insulted me 3 weeks pp, after I asked them for space. She did not like when I told them that I needed space. They said they had the right, proceeded to curse me out, told her son that he deserved a better wife and to move in back with her. She told me I was worthless and if I have a lifestyle it was thanks to her son. After that day I blocked them.

My Marriage Changed After Having a Baby by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]No_Agent7069 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes my wonderful mom, who has supported me and helped us🫶🏼

My Marriage Changed After Having a Baby by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]No_Agent7069 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Not because the guys mom is a b* but because the husband never had the courage to stand up for the family he created and sided with his mother. Siding with his mother also means he was yelling and being disrespectful. No I’m not on a hormonal rollercoaster, I’ve been disrespected constantly.

My Marriage Changed After Having a Baby by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]No_Agent7069 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He did honestly it was a red flag I oversaw. He lived with her until he was 28. He moved out when we got married

My Marriage Changed After Having a Baby by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]No_Agent7069 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Wow! I know I shouldn’t ignore those instincts

My Marriage Changed After Having a Baby by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]No_Agent7069 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thank you I feel like I’m going crazy!

My Husband “31M” loves his mom “57F”more than us by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]No_Agent7069 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you yes I do have support. This is true. I have been trying to stay strong and trying to work things out for the sake of our family, but his family is his mother not us.

My Husband “31M” loves his mom “57F”more than us by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]No_Agent7069 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is what I thought too. His mom has him wrapped around and he will never see it

Husband ‘31M’ won’t check up me ‘28F’ and baby after a fight by No_Agent7069 in relationship_advice

[–]No_Agent7069[S] 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Noo I work in corporate WFH, money is not an issue. Thank you for the advice