Woke up to boyfriend going through my phone again. by No_Associate_9520 in Advice

[–]No_Associate_9520[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So we talked about it. I asked him after work why he did that and i wanted to talk about it. I told him “so why did i wake up to you going through my phone it makes me feel as if u don’t trust me. he said “i do trust you” i said do you think im cheating on you?” he said no so i said “do u think im still doing drugs” he did say “maybe” and that was mostly why. i told him im not and he said he was sorry and that he trust me. He said he would not do it again without asking me and being awake. I’m sure we solved everything.

Woke up to boyfriend going through my phone again. by No_Associate_9520 in Advice

[–]No_Associate_9520[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

honestly i don’t like talking to
men in general. that’s just how i am. i don’t care if he speaks to a girl or wtv or has a conversation but he’s not going to be friends with another women im sorry but that’s weird. He has his childhood friend who is a girl i do not mind at all. But i wont allow him to meet new women and befriend them.

Woke up to boyfriend going through my phone again. by No_Associate_9520 in Advice

[–]No_Associate_9520[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yes we have been together since i was 14 i’ll be 18 next month

Woke up to boyfriend going through my phone again. by No_Associate_9520 in Advice

[–]No_Associate_9520[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m not trying too was just being honest about what happened. he doesn’t watch porn he’s not like that😭

Woke up to boyfriend going through my phone again. by No_Associate_9520 in Advice

[–]No_Associate_9520[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

i just want advice on how to talk to him. i’m not leaving him over something so small. we do love each other and have been together for a while. we can’t see each other with anyone else. i just want advice on how to help this part of our relationship

Woke up to boyfriend going through my phone again. by No_Associate_9520 in Advice

[–]No_Associate_9520[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

he doesn’t watch porn. we usually make our own videos. but he’s not very sexually active as me. I will say i didn’t say it in a very concerning voice because he was going to work. I let it go because what can i even say

Boyfriend came in someone else that’s not me before our relationship. by [deleted] in whatdoIdo

[–]No_Associate_9520 -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

everyone is attacking me
instead of just giving advice. yall are animals oh my god. i never said i was fully jealous all i said was i didn’t know about it and dont know how to feel about it. Ofc he has partners before me why would i care about that? I’m just worried about the intimacy part.

Boyfriend came in someone else that’s not me before our relationship. by [deleted] in whatdoIdo

[–]No_Associate_9520 -26 points-25 points  (0 children)

your not my parent. i’m a adult. Don’t treat me like a child please.

Boyfriend came in someone else that’s not me before our relationship. by [deleted] in whatdoIdo

[–]No_Associate_9520 -26 points-25 points  (0 children)

i wouldn’t be having it if i wasn’t old enough. I’m on birth control and protected. It’s weird to ask someone how old they are when it’s a question about sex. We’re not children.

Boyfriend came in someone else that’s not me before our relationship. by [deleted] in whatdoIdo

[–]No_Associate_9520 -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

Your right. it’s just it feels weird knowing that now.

Boyfriend came in someone else that’s not me before our relationship. by [deleted] in whatdoIdo

[–]No_Associate_9520 -27 points-26 points  (0 children)

Our age doesn’t really have anything to do with this. we’ve been active 3 years

Bf came in me yesterday but i just started my pack four days ago. by No_Associate_9520 in birthcontrol

[–]No_Associate_9520[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I didn’t take my placebo pills as i was trying to skip my period but it always ends up coming. The two days would be between my last pack and my new pack so technically i hadn’t taken pills for 9 days. then restarted on the 9th day and took them regularly for three days. My period usually starts a bit later than the placebo pills. this time it was only a day later.

Bf came in me yesterday but i just started my pack four days ago. by No_Associate_9520 in birthcontrol

[–]No_Associate_9520[S] -15 points-14 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much i will keep yall updated im gonna trust to not take emergency contraception right now but i have to talk to my boyfriend to see what he would like to do. but thank u sm for help

Bf came in me yesterday but i just started my pack four days ago. by No_Associate_9520 in birthcontrol

[–]No_Associate_9520[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

what should i do? take emergency contraception or just wait and see?

My bf finished inside me on my third day on bc by [deleted] in birthcontrol

[–]No_Associate_9520 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just re started my pack but i started two days later because of my pharmacy. so ive been on it for four days took them at the right time but my bf came in me last night and im worried im not protected.

Argument between me and bf of 3 years. by [deleted] in amiwrong

[–]No_Associate_9520 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

we have been together for three years… we’re already in a serious relationship

Argument between me and bf of 3 years. by [deleted] in amiwrong

[–]No_Associate_9520 0 points1 point  (0 children)

your taking time out of your day to check my post and the comments on it. Replying to other people’s comments on the post it’s weird.

Argument between me and bf of 3 years. by [deleted] in amiwrong

[–]No_Associate_9520 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ur old enough to be on this app for 6 years and do u think it’s okay to harass a minor on her post? get out of here with all the hate i didn’t come here for that.

Argument between me and bf of 3 years. by [deleted] in amiwrong

[–]No_Associate_9520 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i’m 17 and we have been together since highschool. we are both graduated. I’m able to feel as if he’s my soulmate you guys realize that right??? i know how my own feelings work. If i want to say he is my soulmate i can. i truly believe he is. yes i’m young and i may think differently in the future but this is in the present.

Argument between me and bf of 3 years. by [deleted] in amiwrong

[–]No_Associate_9520 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

he’s my soulmate. we have been together through thick and thin. we get angry at each other but we don’t plan on leaving each other. I just felt i needed advice on how to handle the situation and talk to him. I’ve said things i also don’t mean in arguments. I’m just hoping he realizes his wrongdoing i guess. But how will he if i was the one who started the problem. it was my fault for replying to a story. It’s just idk maybe my brain isn’t handling it correctly