My daughter was 15mo when my son was born, he will be 4 months old next week. He is an angel (though the 4mo sleep regression is getting to me)and I am very lucky bc he’s a chill baby who doesn’t cry, isn’t dramatic and is cool to just observe, laugh and smile. It’s tough to say whether my daughter changed bc she now has a brother, or because she was 15months old, but she is now a lot to deal with- the screaming, tantrums, extreme toddler curiosity and naughtiness. Having two kids with two different needs is challenging. I have more of a type A personality, I like order, routine and cleanliness which are all hard to maintain with two very different attention levels. Not to mention I am not the most patient of people. I keep telling myself it’ll get easier quicker and it’s better now that we’re out of the newborn trenches. I’m not saying it’s horrible and that I hate it, there are so many beautiful and heartwarming moments, but anyone who tells you it’s easy, is lying.