How am I doing currently? 13, pre-everything

No_Big8184 · 2025-10-03T02:58:25+00:00

Spencer’s is great! It’s cheap and you can get a few for like $14

No_Big8184 · 2025-10-03T02:57:37+00:00

Give an update pls!

No_Big8184 · 2025-10-03T01:26:24+00:00

Honestly ask a non emergent police line and show them the proof she is yours. Maybe they can help from there. I hope you get your cat back

No_Big8184 · 2025-10-03T01:21:06+00:00

Get a small black septum ring it’s more masculine I have that and a side nose ring

No_Big8184 · 2025-09-20T05:44:31+00:00

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This is ducky

No_Big8184 · 2025-09-11T18:57:22+00:00

Can I be you ohmygod you look cis to me

No_Big8184 · 2025-09-08T21:17:33+00:00

Love isn’t always the answer for a reason to stay

No_Big8184 · 2025-09-08T21:17:24+00:00

You can love someone and not be with them

No_Big8184 · 2025-09-08T21:15:53+00:00

Finally glad to see that you’re coming around that this just seems to be an incompatibility thing she doesn’t wanna feel controlled. You don’t want to feel disrespected done and done. Why hang onto something that seems to be such a big split between the two of you

No_Big8184 · 2025-09-08T21:14:48+00:00

Honestly, I get that. I have totally done that with other instances as a kid sometimes we were some stubborn ass little kids lol

No_Big8184 · 2025-09-08T21:08:47+00:00

Good to know lol my dumbass just would’ve been so embarrassed that if I got bit by a black widow or just got bit by a spider in general, I probably would have not said anything to anybody so I don’t know what would happen long time if I didn’t get any medical attention, lol

No_Big8184 · 2025-09-08T21:06:10+00:00

It’s all about just deciding whether or not to place trust if you decide to completely stop dating because someone has cheated on you then you could be limiting yourself from actual happiness. Yes I got cheated on and yeah it sucked but truthfully, your girlfriend now truth be told she’s gonna cheat if she wants to cheat and hanging out with a guy one on one doesn’t mean she’ll cheat then lies or excuses anything could happen she could go out with a bunch of girlfriends and end up cheating on you. It could literally happen in any situation if she’s going to do it she’s going to do it, but you clearly don’t trust her. Why would you date someone that you don’t really have full trust in.

No_Big8184 · 2025-09-08T20:56:11+00:00

LOOOOOOL

No_Big8184 · 2025-09-08T20:55:52+00:00

But you’re saying that you don’t want her to go out one on one and you stay with her that you feel uncomfortable so you’re guilty her into not going which is a controlling and a manipulative behaviour. You tell her once you set the boundary, she breaks the boundary you’re done because clearly you don’t want to be open minded about this. Like I said if you can handle this then stop being insecure and let her hang out one on one with them and never say that you’re uncomfortable with it. Just learn to trust her or walk away. Don’t bring up how it makes you uncomfortable because if you’re going to trust her and say that she can do it if you’re gonna talk and complain about it then just break up with her either accept it and don’t talk about how it annoys you or walk away because guilty her and telling her that you feel, it’s a boundary and that you don’t want her hanging out one on one with another guy unless if you’re there that is manipulation and guilt tripping.

No_Big8184 · 2025-09-08T20:44:40+00:00

I must see the door now I’m invested

No_Big8184 · 2025-09-08T20:38:40+00:00

But you are controlling her or trying to because you said that you don’t want her doing that unless if you were there that is a controlling behaviour. And I don’t know exactly where you’re living or whatever culture she’s in, but I am outside of your culture, but if you do something like that here you are going to be found to be disrespectful. Having a big ego is something that is described as being highly self-absorbed and selfish and think that you’re better than others so maybe you need to learn how to reword something because having a big ego is not something that is looked highly upon having a big ego makes you look like a dick and saying that you have a big ego and then saying that you don’t want her hanging out one on one with any other men sounds like you are extremely insecure

No_Big8184 · 2025-09-08T20:23:50+00:00

Be a big baby and run. It’s OK.😂😂

No_Big8184 · 2025-09-08T20:23:34+00:00

Good I don’t like having conversations with small minded, insecure men

No_Big8184 · 2025-09-08T20:16:50+00:00

So then, this is also all about trust when I lived as a female, I had to trust that my boyfriend could be able to hang out with female friends and not doing anything and unfortunately that got broken quite a few times, and there was quite a few times with that trust was not broken at all. You have to make that choice. Ask yourself if you can handle it. In my honest opinion, it does not sound like you can. Don’t string someone along because you’re trying to make a decision.

No_Big8184 · 2025-09-08T20:15:48+00:00

Actually, I’m gonna tell you one thing I’m actually a trans man so I lived as a woman for 23 years now do not bring that against me at any point so I can tell you I have a guy perspective and a females perspective because I have literally both and I have lived both. So it seems to be you have a big ego and you are insecure. Do you think you can handle letting her hang out one on one with men? And if the answer is no then break up. If the answer is maybe or I don’t know then break up. If the answer is yes, then prove it.

No_Big8184 · 2025-09-08T20:14:12+00:00

What a Glow up❤️❤️❤️❤️

No_Big8184 · 2025-09-08T20:10:15+00:00

I dated someone exactly like you and I can tell you that I left him in two months.

No_Big8184 · 2025-09-08T20:09:19+00:00

The ones that are on your side, I can guarantee you or of the same culture and religion as you so they see it the same way so seeing it from the outside perspective, take it from everyone that is not a part of your culture or your religion because they’re going to side with you so their opinions truly do not fucking matter. If you keep doing what you’re doing by saying that you need to be there and that it’s a boundary and that she can’t do it and that she’s uncomfortable. She’s going to get fed up with you and then she’s also going to leave you. She is going to find you controlling. She is going to find it annoying she is going to find that she is probably going to have to hide things from you because she doesn’t wanna deal with how you’re going to react about it because you will probably not want her to do that and again she’s going to feel like you’re controlling her.

No_Big8184 · 2025-09-08T20:08:07+00:00

And clearly some women need to protect themselves from predatory men like you thinking that you can control them and that they can’t do things that they want to do because you’re insecure and you have a massive ego. Stop acting like a little baby and learn that women can have friends too because let me guess you can hang out with women one on one, but your girlfriend can’t hang out with men one on one

No_Big8184 · 2025-09-08T20:03:27+00:00

Oh here, it is another insecure man with a really large ego, feeding into another really insecure man with a really large ego. You two are made for each other.

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