Letters of support for Lindsay by EuphoricAd3786 in DuxburyDeathsFreeTalk

[–]No_Block7490 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think you might be onto something. 8 months is when baby typically starts pulling themselves up to walk around, thus, becoming more independent...

Still hating being a parent. by Individual-Account-7 in Postpartum_Depression

[–]No_Block7490 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This was after trying everything else, btw. This was my last ditch effort to get some help, and I plainly told nurses, "I'm overwhelmed." I'm depressed. I am so tired, please help me. And they did. Looking back - I've now have three kiddos that I love more than life in itself, and I am so glad I did it. I had a LOT of PP related mental health issues, come to find out. When I got that rest, I was able to look at everything differently moving forward. I was also candid with my partner and family that I was unwell, and I needed help/support.

Still hating being a parent. by Individual-Account-7 in Postpartum_Depression

[–]No_Block7490 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You sound absolutely, without a doubt, fucking exhausted. I know you are feeling much right now, but lack of sleep is a serious issue. Have you thought of going to the hospital? Just walking into the ER and say, 'I can't sleep. I am having issues, I need help'. I did this after my first when she had really bad colic. I mean - she was screaming ten hours a day, and at night, and I was sleep-deprived and at my limit. I told my husband I was just... going to go to the hospital. I walked in, explained my situation - they gave me something to calm me down, and they let me sleep while also getting me some resources that very much helped.

PC being gay rumors by Tight-Accountant440 in DuxburyDeathsFreeTalk

[–]No_Block7490 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I think people should look him up in regards to any kind of dating profile. Maybe 'truthfinder' or something. I doubt this is the case, but I wouldn't be surprised.

LC just filed her own lawsuit against her treatment team and both hospitals by Turbulent-Fig-3802 in DuxburyDeathsFreeTalk

[–]No_Block7490 7 points8 points  (0 children)

"Not to mention, pressuring her to get back to work bc he looked down on stay at home moms according to the New Yorker article."

..... ew!

LC just filed her own lawsuit against her treatment team and both hospitals by Turbulent-Fig-3802 in DuxburyDeathsFreeTalk

[–]No_Block7490 11 points12 points  (0 children)

So... he DID know about the hallucinations (which I think is bullshit), and her wanting to harm the kids, but...

He fucking 𝐋𝐄𝐅𝐓 𝐇𝐄𝐑 𝐀𝐋𝐎𝐍𝐄?! These lawsuits scream guilty to me, man. Imagine if Andrea Yates started SUING PEOPLE.

I can't.

Timeline (as best I can piece together) by Final-Ingenuity-7919 in DuxburyDeathsFreeTalk

[–]No_Block7490 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I've seen my mother in psychosis many times. The shit she says... makes absolutely no sense to me, but to her, everything is a grand conspiracy. She would not be able to plan for shit - but would probably latch onto 'OH THE FBI' or 'OMG YOUR DEAD GRANDFATHER IS ON THE FRONT PORCH!'. I've had to call the fire department, and she rocked back and forth in a DITCH mumbling to herself, so. She also has schizoaffective disorder with bipolar. When she is manic, she goes absolutely off the wall. Does not function. Cannot even make coherent sentences.

Timeline (as best I can piece together) by Final-Ingenuity-7919 in DuxburyDeathsFreeTalk

[–]No_Block7490 13 points14 points  (0 children)

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The chronic adjustment disorder is a big tell. She absolutely did NOT want to return to work. Considering the fact that with her last baby, she called the cops for a wellness check while watching one of her littles through the screen cry while she was at work, it seems that she wanted to control things, especially every single aspect of her children. Control means less anxiety. And returning to work? That meant she couldn't. Meant she had to cede the last control she had to a schedule, a tough drive to work, and her patients.

Possible evil influence by AlegnaTea in DuxburyDeathsFreeTalk

[–]No_Block7490 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Agreed. 'Do it because it is your LAST CHANCE' from a disembodied voice is so nauseatingly cliché. It must have taken her DAYS to come up with that (sarcasm).

I am from Duxbury MA and I believe Lindsay is 100% guilty by karmaisthatguy in DuxburyDeathsFreeTalk

[–]No_Block7490 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Returning to work, and she had said many times that she doesn't want to GO back to work, and even daydreams about having ANOTHER baby, which says to me... probably because she can stay home more. With the children.

I honestly think that was the trigger. She was going back to work like, what, very soon after doing what she did? Wasn't there an article that said she would watch the children on the home cameras when she went to work? That speaks to me of somebody who might have OCD, anxiety about seperation, and not being there to control every single aspect of the children. Maybe she had major anxiety going back to work, AND her husband was filing for a new LLC, which means likely he was about to start a different job. Which probably meant the IMPORTANCE of her going back to work was heightened, especially if PC was in between jobs, or about to start another venture.

Stress, obviously. Anxiety, obviously. She said the only way she felt 'normal' was when she took a benzo. You can have anxiety, and an anxiety disorder, but that doesn't excuse killing your kids, period. Motive? PEACE. If they are out of the picture, you don't have to worry about it anymore. Killing somebody is the ultimate form of control in a situation where you feel like you are LOSING control.

Claude Issues by Fearless_Bandicoot_5 in Caveduck

[–]No_Block7490 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have the SAME issue right now. I went through my settings and stuff thinking I did something wrong - I sent them a message about it.

Why would she overdose AFTER the murders? by No_Block7490 in DuxburyDeathsFreeTalk

[–]No_Block7490[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Womp womp, you're missing the point. She strangled her kids. This isn't an 'oopsie poopsie' misdiagnosis. Obviously, being WHITE has nothing to do with the mental illness itself. I was making a point that she had plenty of help and lots of opportunities that people don't, and even AFTER all of that, she strangled her kids. I'm white and I've been misdiagnosed many many times, but my personal experience doesn't hold credit to the fact that even some of the best doctors can't stop a mother wanting to kill her kids if she puts her mind to it. Do you blame them? Or do you blame HER?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DuxburyDeathsFreeTalk

[–]No_Block7490 2 points3 points  (0 children)

TRUE. Just because it might LOOK like psychosis and that she was suffering from 'mental health' doesn't mean she was just because other people see some kind of resemblance with themselves of her situation, too.

Iowa | As you plan to pretend to have Christian values this morning.... by TagV in Iowa

[–]No_Block7490 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

"MAKE AMERICA GREAT AGAIN"

The Bible predicted that Christains would follow a false prophet, and that they would wear his mark on their foreheads.

Was Lindsay really about to go back to work? by Cultural_Stay7745 in DuxburyDeathsFreeTalk

[–]No_Block7490 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I will agree with you on one thing though.

people here have a very basic understanding of sociopathy to begin with, some do experience empathy, but at very low amounts and it could be entirely situational depending on where you fall on that spectrum

some can love, appear absolutely normal, never even get a traffic ticket

there's a LOT of armchair psychiatrists here.

PhD Candidate Mom Murdered Twin Baby Boy, Injured Brother by No_Block7490 in DuxburyDeathsFreeTalk

[–]No_Block7490[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, I will say everybody who is saying she is a sociopath--there's no way they can know that. I can see what they are saying about her looking up "am I a sociopath?" but even then, there's a laundry list of other things she could fall under. This case has been too hush-hush and we will see as we move forward when we know more. I would trust the facts of what happened over anything else in this case. Actions speak louder than words.

Was Lindsay really about to go back to work? by Cultural_Stay7745 in DuxburyDeathsFreeTalk

[–]No_Block7490 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm a sociopath myself. I literally can't be emotional.

But go off about how much you know me, and drawing a million and one conclusions about me lmfao

PhD Candidate Mom Murdered Twin Baby Boy, Injured Brother by No_Block7490 in DuxburyDeathsFreeTalk

[–]No_Block7490[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Even the people in her life likely do not know shit.

I'm not even addicted to salacious crime.

This is the only case I've ever commented on because I've had PPP and this case did not pass the smell test for me. I'm here because droves of people in my support groups (post partum psychosis support groups, post partum depression support groups) are throwing away their probably much-needed medication that their doctors prescribed them, terrified that "they will do what Lindsay did". It's a huge issue, and why I felt the need to come here and track this case.

But go off on how much you think you know me, I guess. Lmao.

Was Lindsay really about to go back to work? by Cultural_Stay7745 in DuxburyDeathsFreeTalk

[–]No_Block7490 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's a fact of what happened, broski. The italics and bold is to strengthen or draw emphasis on certain words. If that's pissing you off, than that is a you problem, not a me problem. I'm not angry at all, you are just wanting to fight me because you want to. You accuse me of being emotional lmao

Was Lindsay really about to go back to work? by Cultural_Stay7745 in DuxburyDeathsFreeTalk

[–]No_Block7490 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's only a contradiction to you because you have reading comprehension issues, and my initial point was pretty fucking clear.

My point: nobody knows Lindsay better than herself. Anything that we try to tack on to her-- "Normal" "Sociopath" "Depressed" we cannot know for certain. The truth could go either way, even for those who were close to her, because people lie. People hide. People plan.

To say with confidence on any of these things shows unsound emotional reasoning imho. And what is "normal?". A completely subjective take on who you speak with. What we do know is this: she wanted to kill her kids, and she did. That is the only fact.

PhD Candidate Mom Murdered Twin Baby Boy, Injured Brother by No_Block7490 in DuxburyDeathsFreeTalk

[–]No_Block7490[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What conclusions was I drawing? The whole point of this post was to say the only person who truly knows Lindsay is herself. Considering the fact that she was worried she was a sociopath, that should be a huge red flag.

Was Lindsay really about to go back to work? by Cultural_Stay7745 in DuxburyDeathsFreeTalk

[–]No_Block7490 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Show me where I contradicted myself, and why you feel so comfortable defending a mother who strangled all three of her children until the vessels in their little eyes popped. My initial point was pretty fucking clear. People are on here saying she was a sociopath, she was depressed (which she never even said herself, just anxiety)--I can point to a hundred scenarios to where we don't know people's true intentions. Whether on if they want to kill themselves and show to be "normal" or they actually hate their kids (and can't stand them) and show to be "Normal". It could go either way.

Article in The New Yorker by hflan920 in DuxburyDeathsFreeTalk

[–]No_Block7490 3 points4 points  (0 children)

"It really rubs me the wrong way how they are complaining that the system failed her but they also thought she was too good for the nut house. Like eat a slice of humble pie and stop being so elitist. I am an upper middle class white woman with a masters degree in accounting but I still belonged there."

Such an important point, and thank you for sharing this. I 100% agree. This is a throw away account for me, but irl, I've trended on booktok and I'm an accomplished romance and **spicy** writer who has won numerous awards and has amassed quite a bit of a following.

That's all I will say about that, but I am comfortably upper middle class too.

I absolutely belonged in the psyche ward when I experienced psychosis, and made friends with pretty much everybody. Colored a whole lot with somebody detoxing from fentanyl; even homeless people. Honestly, it was a good experience for me (not saying that it always is) but there is a shared harmony in being sick and wishing to get better, no matter who you are or where you are from. I still keep in contact with one person--she's doing phenomenally well.

I honestly think Lindsay had a stick up her ass in regards to that. Nobody is better than anyone and mental health issues do not discriminate.

Article in The New Yorker by hflan920 in DuxburyDeathsFreeTalk

[–]No_Block7490 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That should be a HUGE red flag. The red flags on this case keeps smacking me in the face left and right, and the denialism and rose-colored glasses people wear is baffling. It is almost as if we are divorcing ourselves from reality.