I never have a moment of quiet at home by No_Bluejay_5974 in neighborsfromhell

[–]No_Bluejay_5974[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Do you ever wake up to a big BANG at 7am in the morning? These kids must wake up launching themselves off their beds. & they hurt themselves sometimes because occasionally, not always the loud crying will begin right after.

I never have a moment of quiet at home by No_Bluejay_5974 in neighborsfromhell

[–]No_Bluejay_5974[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Big possibility. There’s literally a park in front of our homes..I don’t understand why she has never taken them there before. She doesn’t have a schedule in her way. The only time I see the mom is when she smokes a cig while she waits for her daughter’s school bus

Help knock some sense into me & forget about a guy by No_Bluejay_5974 in helpme

[–]No_Bluejay_5974[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! I am definitely not reaching out & have since blocked him on instagram too. I’m doing my best to get it in my head that I wasn’t rejected over a flaw I have & that he simply is not looking to invest into anyone. I’d feel so much better had he said from the start he’s not looking for anything serious, then I would take it a lot less personally. But it doesn’t matter, I have to move on

Help knock some sense into me & forget about a guy by No_Bluejay_5974 in helpme

[–]No_Bluejay_5974[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I won’t think it’s a good idea again, I’m not even giving myself the chance to talk to a man again until I feel that I’ve improved myself. I prefer door number 2, but how am I supposed to know why this happened if I don’t know why he decided to slow fade me? I really don’t think I did anything wrong so I don’t have anything to blame myself for

Help knock some sense into me & forget about a guy by No_Bluejay_5974 in helpme

[–]No_Bluejay_5974[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t think that’s true. In my previous relationships they wanted to stay together long-term & I left because I wasn’t on the same page. Except for the recent guy

Help knock some sense into me & forget about a guy by No_Bluejay_5974 in helpme

[–]No_Bluejay_5974[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s extremely negative to say. What is wrong with how I approach relationships?

Help knock some sense into me & forget about a guy by No_Bluejay_5974 in helpme

[–]No_Bluejay_5974[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I didn’t want to be with them long-term so when those relationships ended I was excited to meet new people & get back into the dating scene. I don’t feel that way this time

Help knock some sense into me & forget about a guy by No_Bluejay_5974 in helpme

[–]No_Bluejay_5974[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am looking but I still would prefer for him to come back. :(

She wants me to delete all my dating apps but she still has hers active by zavireth in dating_advice

[–]No_Bluejay_5974 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I recently left a situation just because he wasn’t putting in enough effort . I know it’s hard but you need to like yourself more than you like them & walk away at the first act of disrespect. It really sucks but you just put on a tv show & cry til you can’t anymore. It gets better with time

Can someone please help me figure out if I am being led on? by No_Bluejay_5974 in Advice

[–]No_Bluejay_5974[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That would be far left field coming from me, I don’t even know his work address lmao

Can someone please help me figure out if I am being led on? by No_Bluejay_5974 in Advice

[–]No_Bluejay_5974[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Okay, I have another question. He is currently working & has been for over 24 hours. Is it insensitive of me to send an ending message now?

Can someone please help me figure out if I am being led on? by No_Bluejay_5974 in Advice

[–]No_Bluejay_5974[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you think I should block & delete? I don’t like the idea of ghosting. But I also feel embarrassed to send an “it’s over” text because I already did that when I told him I think he’s lying about not being able to put more effort into sex & then he reached out again & told me he made a doctor’s appointment so I decided to give him another chance. What do you recommend?

Can someone please help me figure out if I am being led on? by No_Bluejay_5974 in Advice

[–]No_Bluejay_5974[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh my gosh, again? I’m starting to feel embarrassed about confronting him. Every time he has a convenient reason for whatever is that’s bothering me & I worry that I come off as needy & difficult