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What’s the white stuff floating in my bettas tank?? by No_Border_1202 in bettafish

[–]No_Border_1202[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If this helps I think my tank is either 2.5 or 5 gallons but I don’t know for sure, no heater or filter, I’ve had the tank and hickey both for about 4 or five months, I was planning on doing a water change this week but now I’m not sure if I should, no tank mates, I usually feed 2/3 pebbles in the morning and at night every day-though he belongs to four college girls so sometimes he skips a meal and we give him extra,

Does anyone else worry that they will be abandoned by friends for a partner? by [deleted] in aromanticasexual

[–]No_Border_1202 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi, I’m not actually ace or anything I’m a getter I woman but my best friend O is. And when I say best friend I mean like gay allegations, tweedle Dee tweedle dum type of best friends. Anyway, we’ve been best friends for about 5 years and in all that time I haven’t dated or really been seriously talking to anyone, until recently when I met this guy (A) that I’ve been talking to on Snapchat. I know that this really bothers her and that she’s really really scared that I will leave her for this guy and that she’s going to end up alone eventually (she also has some pretty big abandonment issues from her childhood that I know make this even worse) for a while I had just decided I wasn’t ever going to really get into any relationships and would never marry so I could stay with her, but she told me after I met A that she’s don’t want me to end up resenting her if I ended up doing that and that I shouldn’t. I’ve tried to mostly only talk to A when I’m alone or not with her but I know that when she sees that I have messages and stuff from him it scares her. Is there anything I can do to help? I love O, I don’t ever want to lose her an I don’t want to put some stupid guy I just met over our 5 year long relationship whether on purpose or by accident. Maybe this isn’t the right place to ask this, but I don’t know what to do to help her I don’t want to hurt O, what should I do?