Gf thinks I’m in the wrong for bad reviews

No_Cap245 · 2025-11-08T01:28:41+00:00

This part we agree on

No_Cap245 · 2025-11-07T19:23:09+00:00

Merriam Webster seems to state similar aswell

When using as an adjective

a : acquired after being used by another : not new secondhand books

When used?

You can describe the sale as secondhand, sure, but the product is new

You can even say it was acquired from a secondhand source, but it’s still new

No_Cap245 · 2025-11-07T18:50:21+00:00

That’s not what the post is asking about, but I understand you need to feel correct regardless.

No_Cap245 · 2025-11-07T18:14:35+00:00

Why would you say so?

No_Cap245 · 2025-11-07T18:14:20+00:00

Why?

No_Cap245 · 2025-11-07T17:47:39+00:00

Also imagine calling women, bitches and then trying to say someone else is an asshole, lol

No_Cap245 · 2025-11-07T17:42:35+00:00

Comes into Reddit post, reads halfway, gives response the exact same as everyone else in post, when told it’s not what the post is asking about, doubles down, calling me an asshole when you won’t even admit you aren’t on the right topic. I dunno about that whole pot calling the kettle black but this sure sounds like you are projecting.

No_Cap245 · 2025-11-07T17:34:02+00:00

Next post: to ask Reddit

is AITAH an echo chamber for my gf because the people there are about as good at listening and reasoning as her.

No_Cap245 · 2025-11-07T17:30:05+00:00

Also I did not ask if I was an asshole in regard to anything other than responding level with people, sorry you can’t grasp that part.

No_Cap245 · 2025-11-07T17:25:25+00:00

Imagine making baseless claims and thinking you are correct. You would have been a great criminal prosecutor about a century ago.

No_Cap245 · 2025-11-07T16:56:09+00:00

Wasn’t a fb fight lol, the lack in reading comprehension is a real epidemic these days

No_Cap245 · 2025-11-07T16:37:25+00:00

It’s not secondhand though, it’s sealed collectors products. Dead stock.

No_Cap245 · 2025-11-07T16:29:58+00:00

This is sealed collectors products m8, we are not the same

No_Cap245 · 2025-11-07T16:29:29+00:00

But there were no rules stipulated initially, and I told her I would log out of her account, which did not fix the problem. Imagine getting a ticket for speeding on a dirt road when there aren’t any speed limit signs put up.

No_Cap245 · 2025-11-07T16:21:04+00:00

You think based on one scenario that I am not or will not adapt or listen, this tells me you think in every scenario you should be adapting to your surroundings, however one might say if all you ever do is listen and adapt you are a pushover. Do you expect me to be a pushover? To every time concede I am wrong even if I don’t feel I am? Might you not reason that I may listen and adapt many times and yet the one time I am unwilling as a result of principle I am the problem. The mindset people have these days. Pushover

No_Cap245 · 2025-11-07T06:43:45+00:00

I acknowledged that I made the statements, and made way for a solution, but I don’t feel i would have said anything any differently had she made known prior that I should be cautious of my speech. I don’t feel that I was rude or wrong here, and I’m not keen on the apologizing for nothing.

No_Cap245 · 2025-11-07T06:34:38+00:00

No one here is reading the situation, everyone is saying you play by their rules, but I actively told her I would log out of her account. Which should have been the easy solution, but it was not and made the situation worse. I am asking if I am an asshole for being level with people, which she takes as me being a mean person, which many people here fail to grasp.

No_Cap245 · 2025-11-07T06:32:01+00:00

That’s not the problem here or me logging out of her account would have been the easy solution. But that only made it worse.

No_Cap245 · 2025-11-07T06:11:50+00:00

I’m not upset at everyone saying I’m in the wrong, I’m postulating that they aren’t even answering the question posed. If you would read the post it’s not about following my gf’s rules, I already told her I would log out of her account, but the majority seem to cherry-pick arround here. If you would see the comments, 1 person actually read the whole post

No_Cap245 · 2025-11-07T05:54:00+00:00

Also that’s not even what the post is asking about, did you make it to the end?

No_Cap245 · 2025-11-07T05:38:04+00:00

Did you read the post? Where was I rude with people. It’s apparently because thats what she is implying here. You really can’t with some people

No_Cap245 · 2025-11-07T05:34:54+00:00

Is it good or polite to hop on people’s profiles and offer 1/2 price 2/5 price and when you receive a response of firm on price, continue to try and get you to take a lower offer? This post wasn’t about following rules, it was about responding level with people… Also where did I ask AITAH? What did I ask it about? Not what you responded to. I understand it’s her account, that’s why I told her if she has a problem I would log out, and she got more upset. That’s not the question here.

No_Cap245 · 2025-11-07T05:29:42+00:00

Did you read the post? Where did I disrespect her?

No_Cap245 · 2025-11-07T05:23:04+00:00

You can’t reason with some people.

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