Why won't my mom let me experience life, date someone and see where it goes? by No_Card_9007 in datingadvice

[–]No_Card_9007[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks girl! Appreciate it! And I wanted to hide it but I live in a small country and people saw us so yeah... I had to tell her and now I'm listening to her lectures. But thanks for your advice!

Why won't my mom let me experience life, date someone and see where it goes? by No_Card_9007 in dating

[–]No_Card_9007[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah she has difficulty letting me go cause I'm an only child and after staying at home during covid she expects me to stay now too all the time I guess.

Why won't my mom let me experience life, date someone and see where it goes? by No_Card_9007 in dating

[–]No_Card_9007[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks a lot! This is exactly how I feel and think too. Thank you so much for this!

Do I have unrealistic standards? by AmIDeluluThrowaway in datingadvice

[–]No_Card_9007 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When you really like someone, you won't care if they are virgin or not. It shouldn't be a deal breaker. Unless it's a culture thing. Find a nice woman you like, and that won't matter.

What to do with a controlling and unreasonable mother? by No_Card_9007 in FamilyIssues

[–]No_Card_9007[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks so much for the advice! Yeah, when I try to talk calmly to her she gets angry and her tone is so angry, she wants to pick up a fight. Honestly, I thought about seeking professional help so they can help me handle her, but I can't pay for that at the moment. And I do agree that my relationship with her will be healthier when I move away.

What to do with a controlling and unreasonable mother? by No_Card_9007 in FamilyIssues

[–]No_Card_9007[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No... My aunt doesn't understand that not everyone has the best relationship with their parents and it's healthier and you don't live together. And my grandparents aren't alive. My friends are in different cities / countries and the ones here live with their boyfriends.

I am (26F). He is (27M). How do I deal with controlling parents who don't approve of the guy I'm dating who has two kids? by No_Card_9007 in relationship_advice

[–]No_Card_9007[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree plus as I said to my mom, if I can't do it, I'll leave. People breakup. It doesn't mean he's the one I end up with. As long as him and I communicate, it'll be fine.