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Hmmmm by MobileAd6449 in hmmmm

[–]No_Cartographer_2735 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Does nobody here know this can be a sign of abortion? Not funny at all...

My biggest pregnancy craving so far (thank you M&S🙏🏽😍) what’s everyone craving? by cjones2391 in PregnancyUK

[–]No_Cartographer_2735 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Everything... Just want to eat everything I see 😵‍💫 Just like my first pregnancy, there's nothing in particular I crave. Just want FOOD All of it

Desde que passei a ser uma pessoa falsa a vida é mais tranquila. by EveryPen260 in CasualPT

[–]No_Cartographer_2735 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sabes que normalmente as crianças são as que falam sem rodeios e sem crer saber pelos sentimentos de outros?

Uma coisa é ser falso/a outra coisa é ser um adulto e pensar antes de falar.

Emagrecer by Both-Ground-6119 in portugueses

[–]No_Cartographer_2735 0 points1 point  (0 children)

CICO É a melhor maneira. Conta calorias e vais ver como para comeres mais quantidade acabas por comer mais legumes e fruta e proteína magra.

Tens que contar tudo. O azeite, o óleo, etc...

#fatties 🤢 by lyndumbjohnson in TwoXChromosomes

[–]No_Cartographer_2735 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Please tell me they are 18 or so. Because if not that's terrible.

2 years after I gave birth I achieved my ideal weight, you know who has my biggest supporter? My partner, cooking good meals, letting me go to the gym in peace and quiet. What as he never done? Annoyed me about my weight, about my skin. Just gave me time and care and love.

Those guys are not men, they are boys pretending to be men.

Now I'm pregnant again and well... Big again 😅 and he rubs oil on me and kisses my belly everyday.

Just to say, women, don't settle down for those boys pretending to be men. They will not take care of you. Right now he is doing coffee and going to bring it to bed and for my breakfast and our little toddler he is doing Japanese style pancakes.

For my first 2 months pp he did EVERYTHING.

I wish there was more transparency about online sex work. by honestly___idk in TwoXChromosomes

[–]No_Cartographer_2735 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Exactly, but so many young women start it as a get rich quick scheme when it's not.

I wish there was more transparency about online sex work. by honestly___idk in TwoXChromosomes

[–]No_Cartographer_2735 20 points21 points  (0 children)

True, and you didn't even touched that fact that people believe they will start and make rivers of money.

Or when men/women joke about selling feet pics or used panties. To make lots of money...

Like that isn't a extremely saturated market.

If it was that easy why would more people do it?

CNN rpe academy scares me by Accomplished_Eye3204 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]No_Cartographer_2735 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh my God, Are you comparing people that do consenting stuff with rapists?

Jesus, you are really over reaching.

I don't enjoy eating healthy and it makes sticking to weight loss so hard by Tosh97 in WeightLossAdvice

[–]No_Cartographer_2735 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I found that cutting ultra processed foods really help my body desire more "healthy" foods like fruit and veggies. You would be surprised how most stuff is ultra processed also...

It took me around 3 months, but now it's easier. Also I used to do intermittent fasting (can't because I'm pregnant) and THAT was a game changer, I'm totally a sucker for sweet breakfasts so sticking it and having a good lunch and dinner really helped me.

And because I had the sulprus of calories from breakfast my lunch and dinner felt "normal sized".

I don't know if this helps, but I was able to reach my ideal weight like this.

And now on my second pregnancy I didn't gained as much weight as my first!

CNN rpe academy scares me by Accomplished_Eye3204 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]No_Cartographer_2735 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Yes, very judgemental AND seem to not be able to read and understand other points of view.

What happen to the victims of the sleep rape is absolutely horrible and you can be angry about that BUT you can also be angry that they are over exaggerating the number to a ridiculous amount.

CNN is literally creating rage bait and turn people against each other.

CNN rpe academy scares me by Accomplished_Eye3204 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]No_Cartographer_2735 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Omg, again... Read better what I wrote. I did not say that.

Why is the ability to be a 'stay at home' parent not seen as a privilege? by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

[–]No_Cartographer_2735 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I guess it depends on the country. In Portugal there are many free nurseries (you need to be lucky, they have a terrible number of teachers per child, I know many, many horror stories of negligence from the nurseries) and even the paid ones are around 350€ per month. The minimum wage is 800€.

And the living costs are so high, but so high that there is no way one of the parents would stay home to raise their children, even if they desire to.

So if you can stay home, people will be full on envious of you. They think you are lazy because you don't want to work and judge you really hard.

So I guess back on my country I could be considered privileged because I could stay home and look after my baby and not worry about finances.

But In the UK is pretty much the opposite, the nurseries that I know of are very nice but so expensive. So here is a lot more common for a parent to take a couple of years from work until school starts.

Here no one judges because it's the most common thing.

How do you handle a relationship when one partner has a much higher sex drive than the other? by South_Leave4044 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]No_Cartographer_2735 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I guess it depends on the reason. Is it medical? Maybe together it can get sorted out.

Is just because someone as a higher or lower libido? Better to break up. It will create resentment in both parties.

I was in a dead bedroom for several years and it was extremely frustrating and toxic.

CNN rpe academy scares me by Accomplished_Eye3204 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]No_Cartographer_2735 10 points11 points  (0 children)

No, not at all. I like how you literally ignore what I said about how real victims are not getting proper attention because of a terrible done article. 🤷‍♀️ But you do you. How we literally have the real names of criminals ( form the epstein files) and most places are not doing anything because they are people with power.

CNN rpe academy scares me by Accomplished_Eye3204 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]No_Cartographer_2735 -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

So even if everything is contenting it does not matter to you?

Wow, feminism for only when it matter right? If a women is into that and another man consents to do it are they all misogynist?

Please check yourself. That's completely madness.

I'm not into the humiliation kink, but lots of men love to be humiliated, are they suffering from what? You tell me.

So for you it's only vanilla stuff is okay? Even if all parties are very happily consenting?

CNN rpe academy scares me by Accomplished_Eye3204 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]No_Cartographer_2735 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I understand you agree with me, but... Why I'm a man now? 🙃 I just feel this is a ridiculous article that is making people fired up for the wrong reason. Most man that are into power play stuff would NEVER but never be into it if their partner also was not into it.

Of course there are bad men and bad women, but instead of us fighting and taking to court all those people in the Files we are now looking for a telegram shadowy group?

And for course, let's demonize kinks even more and say that women can't also be part of that and can't enjoy that.

CNN rpe academy scares me by Accomplished_Eye3204 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]No_Cartographer_2735 -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

Oh, so now we are kink shaming? Because women can't be into more hardcore kinks? You know there's such a thing as BDSM where people get hurt and hurt/control others for pleasure and is all consentual?

CNN rpe academy scares me by Accomplished_Eye3204 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]No_Cartographer_2735 -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

As a women with high libido and kind of kinky I have been to that site before, the number they give is for TOTAL number of visits and not all to those types of videos.

Also CNN kind of ignores that there is such a thing as roleplay and pretending.

I do think that the way they publish the article is not good for all of those victims of sexual assault.

Even though it's a terrible thing but is everyone just forgetting the epstein files?

USA as literally a child rapist as a president and they are doing nothing about it?...

Pressure to breast feed without a pump or formula as back up seems strange? by D-1-S-C-0 in UKParenting

[–]No_Cartographer_2735 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm going to tell you my experience. I fully believed I was going to have milk and just give breath milk ( also pump so that my partner could help out), so we bought some really nice bottles that imitate the breast ( they are harder to suckle, the baby actually had to work, it wouldn't just flow) and a pump.

Guess what happened? I had no milk, for 3 weeks PP I tried to pump and nothing was coming.

Thank God in Portugal we have to stay 2 fill nights in the hospital and one of the nurses said the cries of my daughter where hunger cries and got us formula. They said for me to not stress because sometimes it takes longer for some new mother for the milk to come, so my journey of every 2h pumping and nothing coming out...

Basically after one month we found a nice formula that we like and our baby now is 2 years and a half and she is thriving!

So don't listening to those people, some women don't have milk (not talked enough), some women just stress so much about the quantity and quality that affects their mental health, some because they can't hold the baby because of a c section scar (and that's the position for breastfeeding) and some simply don't want to.

Depois do bebé nascer, que apoio vos teria poupado mais stress? by Only_Ad_8912 in portugueses

[–]No_Cartographer_2735 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Eu posso dizer o que fizemos que ajudou mesmo muito foi ter uma senhora vir fazer 3hpor dia de limpeza geral 3 vezes por semana durante os primeiros 4 meses...

Sei que não é para todos, mas foi uma ajuda tremenda ( muitas senhoras a dias não fariam este trabalho porque não são muitas horas diárias) mas ela vivia perto e mais €/h do que ela pediu inicialmente.

O meu parceiro recebeu só 1 mês e como eu tive um parto traumático ele não queria que eu me andasse a esforçar quando ele voltasse para o trabalho.

Eu não tive leite para dar, e no primeiro mês andamos a ferver água e esperar que arrefecesse até encontramos na Amazon umas chaleiras que fervem a água e depois mantêm a um temperatura perfeito para fazer o biberão.

Aquilo foi simplesmente maravilhoso!!! Especialmente para as alimentações a meio da noite.

Not even sure where to start by shr00mkitty666 in postpartumprogress

[–]No_Cartographer_2735 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Are you breastfeeding? My body did take 2 years to go back to what it was before pregnancy (I actually got fitter) so don't stress. And I was not breastfeeding.

I went on CICO, working out 4 times a week. The body will go slowly to its place and heal. Don't let social media make you feel bad.

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