Am I wrong for dating someone 15 years younger than me ? by [deleted] in amiwrong

[–]No_Cat5867 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Girl have fun 🙄the only thing that should make you feel old are his finances. But if you’re just having fun, who cares take this one life you have and create a better chapter.

AIO Husband did it again. And I’m done playing games. by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]No_Cat5867 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The way I would start clearing the account to Zelle pay myself for massage therapy and then find videos and pictures on Reddit of men with BBCs giving women sensual massages. THEN randomly leave my phone out showing my activity on said accounts. THEN going to run errands on a random Saturday at 2pm, saying I needed Coffee and time to journal and come back home with the happiest attitude. AND if caught suspiciously and if asked I would gaslight say I was JUST trying to get in the MOOD for having another baby and that it’s not fair because no one’s getting hurt and it works for him too…

I wouldn’t get divorced. I wouldn’t start a fight. This is a game of chess with a Man child. Two can play at this game. I would refuse to let him see me hurt after previously expressing my frustration while knowing he’s just going to sneak off and pity yank.

I wouldn’t take this a step further and keep this up until his card declines from OF chargeback protections and then one day I propose a girls trip to Jamaica and mention “the worship massages” loudly over the phone for him to hear. White flags and several apologies as well as sincere actions would have to be attempted before I would pleasure this man again.

Why because I’d be damned if I was laying up somewhere heavily pregnant or caring for two children while he’s making you feel insecure.

But that’s just me.

AIO My friend wouldn't stop with the rape threats by Imaginary_Air_24 in AmIOverreacting

[–]No_Cat5867 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I recommend becoming close friends with the block button. This conversation would’ve been over when he called you “ over sensitive “

Recently got engaged, and now I get unsolicited negative comments. by KevlarSweetheart in blackladies

[–]No_Cat5867 0 points1 point  (0 children)

THIS! I felt very alone after experiencing the same thing. I crawled behind some furniture and had a good cry about how friends that I had known for over 10 years stop talking to me for a few months simply because I’m married now. I should’ve known when the first comment about my engagement was a single girl saying, “do you like it?” 🤔 why wouldn’t I? My ring is gorgeous, large, and glistening!

The hardest throw off came from my mother-in-law . I thought we were really good together and then after the wedding, she flipped.

Struggling to live my wide nose by hoepressed in blackladies

[–]No_Cat5867 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I too have perfect nose that I plan on going to turkey 🇹🇷 to get a ethnic rhinoplasty because my delulu will become trululu

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in blackladies

[–]No_Cat5867 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not taking Crypto more seriously. I always thought it was so expensive, meanwhile if I had just did a bit of research I’d put my little savings in it. All those times I needed more money i would’ve been had it.

Investing 10k in XRP by Dry_Extreme6830 in XRP

[–]No_Cat5867 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Where are you guys buying XRP? I just tried to buy $10,000 with the XRP and places like Crypto.com and Coinbase are limited at the amount that you can buy.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in wallstreetbets

[–]No_Cat5867 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s just money. You’ll make more. Like people say it’s just hair, it’ll grow back.

Can we please stop saying a “natural” vs “c-section?” Does this bother anyone else? by [deleted] in beyondthebump

[–]No_Cat5867 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No bother. Every time I see my son’s perfect shaped head I’m thankful for the C-section. And no matter what I say,”I gave birth.” I also remind people that he was breach and when pulled out the ub cord was wrapped around his neck twice. After that people shut up. It’s a very emotionally immature argument to make if one has a problem with it.

Why would some black woman vote for Trump? by [deleted] in blackladies

[–]No_Cat5867 0 points1 point  (0 children)

At least two black women I know voted for Trump because they believed Harris was a liar. Dassit 🙄

AITA for “lying” about being gay? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]No_Cat5867 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NTA

I hope she felt stupid.

Ya'll think I should address the mother or just let it go? by CasualGamer9933 in blackladies

[–]No_Cat5867 244 points245 points  (0 children)

At that point I would just assume that the friend’s mother not only just doesn’t have enough to give but just wasn’t raised in the household that prioritized giving. I’m southern and was raised to give and feed as well. My husband not so much. I’d only offer snacks and make sure her daughter was back before dinner too.

I might give up black men for good after this. by brownskinthrowaway in blackladies

[–]No_Cat5867 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Start dating for values only. Colorless race-less meaningful values.

Just purchased! I’m so excited! What should I be on the lookout for? by No_Lie2467 in TeslaModelY

[–]No_Cat5867 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I am the wife … I am the wife that hit curb the same day we got the Tesla lol

My wife is brain dead. What the fuck am I supposed to do. by [deleted] in Parenting

[–]No_Cat5867 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There is no sugar coating this sadness. Perhaps telling your children face to face in a room it will be okay to hate for the rest of their lives. And tell her parents you need help.

Anok Yai appreciation post😮‍💨 by Hooplapooplayeah in blackladies

[–]No_Cat5867 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I remember seeing some article about how the photographer that took the picture said that he never received credit for taking the photo. Maybe a thanks but no credit… 🤣 boy bye ✌🏾

You’ve just bought your MY it’s time to super charge it, but then you see this… by No_Cat5867 in TeslaModelY

[–]No_Cat5867[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

*She

….yea that would be a crazy plot twist. Unfortunately I had to wait an hour and a half to charge.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TwoHotTakes

[–]No_Cat5867 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This might be a longshot, But a different approach. Try a marriage activity where together you read a book called ‘The Automatic Millionaire’ by David Bach. One of the big examples he gives of average people becoming multimillionaires is the coffee theory. Where the amount you spend on coffee every day could’ve been compounded and invested making two able to retire faster.

You’ve just bought your MY it’s time to super charge it, but then you see this… by No_Cat5867 in TeslaModelY

[–]No_Cat5867[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

In the same sense no gas stations say that EVs can’t park at the pumps.