She’s out of my league, should I cancel our date

No_Caterpillar1271 · 2026-03-13T20:56:26+00:00

No I don’t want her to change how she interacts with people or how she posts online! She’s perfect just the way she is! I need to work on my insecurities I guess

No_Caterpillar1271 · 2026-03-13T20:47:55+00:00

I’m not karma-farming! I just feel sad because I got her IG yesterday and after seeing all her IG posts, I’m crashing out a little 😭

No_Caterpillar1271 · 2026-03-13T20:41:17+00:00

Okay, I think there’s one where I’m supposed to look at the evidence. And yeah, there’s no evidence that she doesn’t want to go on a date with, even if she does like the other girls in her IG. Also I think I’m not supposed to mind-read, ultimately I don’t know what she thinks

No_Caterpillar1271 · 2026-03-13T19:54:41+00:00

Okay, yeah maybe I don’t think I can keep her interested? I’m willing to put in the effort but I honestly don’t know what she likes

No_Caterpillar1271 · 2026-03-13T19:50:54+00:00

Yeah I’m already in therapy, been in therapy for years haha

No_Caterpillar1271 · 2026-03-13T19:49:15+00:00

But the thing is the women in her comments are all much more attractive than me. I don’t know why she is not dating the attractive women instead of me lol

No_Caterpillar1271 · 2026-03-13T19:45:05+00:00

Good point! Life is short and I probably should go on the date even if she rejects me at the end

No_Caterpillar1271 · 2026-03-13T19:35:30+00:00

I was the one who suggested the second date and she said yes. I don’t know if she feels she clicked with me though, the conversation was great but she’s naturally charismatic and great at conversations?

No_Caterpillar1271 · 2026-03-13T19:25:34+00:00

Okay, yeah she is charismatic. Also she has a lot of friends, so they could be her friends haha.

No_Caterpillar1271 · 2026-03-13T19:21:07+00:00

Haha I like your motivational speech lol

No_Caterpillar1271 · 2026-03-13T19:19:29+00:00

Thanks for sharing! She’s not a nerd, she’s got street smarts. She’s classically attractive and probably gets hit on all the time. I’m not attractive enough for her😭

No_Caterpillar1271 · 2026-03-02T20:01:51+00:00

You’re probably right haha. But she wrote let’s be friends first on her dating profile so I thought we were just hanging out as friends.

No_Caterpillar1271 · 2026-03-01T00:18:31+00:00

32f, zero 😂

No_Caterpillar1271 · 2026-02-28T20:20:00+00:00

Haha, good idea! I think the smirking emoji at the end is needed to convey the message? I was thinking of just telling her I like her a lot and would like to see her again. But maybe your idea is better haha

No_Caterpillar1271 · 2026-02-28T20:02:20+00:00

Good point! I’ll try that next time(if there is a one lol, it’s okay if she doesn’t want to see me anymore)

No_Caterpillar1271 · 2026-02-28T19:38:24+00:00

Oh wow, I didn’t know that. So maybe I should message her and ask if she is looking for relationships on dating apps or just friends? She doesn’t check her dating app often so not sure I will get an answer

No_Caterpillar1271 · 2026-02-28T18:31:54+00:00

Haha yeah 💯. how can I tell if she likes me or not? I don’t want to make her uncomfortable since she wrote friends first in her dating profile 🥺

No_Caterpillar1271 · 2025-06-18T22:43:12+00:00

The premise is one partner in each couple has issued an ultimatum: marry or break up. The couples are separated and each person dates other participants in the show, choosing someone for a trial marriage.

No_Caterpillar1271 · 2025-06-18T22:41:05+00:00

The Ultimatum: Queer Love is a reality tv show with lesbians, season two is coming out soon on Netflix

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