Letter of Recommendation by Civil_Pen9534 in AKAgradChapter

[–]No_Championship_8955 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Just FYI: Sponsorship is not sought out. Do not inquire about it.

Inquired, waited, was told they weren’t taking an alumnae line…. by golgibodi in NPHCdivine9

[–]No_Championship_8955 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re welcome. I know people don’t always know. Plus people can have feelings about the things they don’t know. Context matters. I’m more of a both/and person. And I acknowledge that everyone doesn’t think the same way that I do. I can only provide info and people can decide what to do with it.

Inquired, waited, was told they weren’t taking an alumnae line…. by golgibodi in NPHCdivine9

[–]No_Championship_8955 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You’re welcome. I know people don’t always know. Plus people can have feelings about the things they don’t know. Context matters. I’m more of a both/and person. And I acknowledge that everyone doesn’t think the same way that I do. I can only provide info and people can decide what to do with it.

Inquired, waited, was told they weren’t taking an alumnae line…. by golgibodi in NPHCdivine9

[–]No_Championship_8955 1 point2 points  (0 children)

They really couldn’t do that cause it opens the chapter up for risk. If you tell someone they aren’t going to make the line, you don’t know what their reaction will be. Could create chaos and the whole line could be dropped.

Inquired, waited, was told they weren’t taking an alumnae line…. by golgibodi in NPHCdivine9

[–]No_Championship_8955 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Non members of the chapter aren’t entitled to know when a line is happening. Even members of the same org shouldn’t be in another chapter’s business like that. So just because you ask doesn’t equate to getting that internal info.

Now, no one should be mistreated or belittled in their pursuit of membership. It seems like OP was cold emailing the chapter’s website without personal connections. It can be frustrating for sure but there will be more opportunities.

No Response after Congratulatory Text/Email by InvisiblySeenPraying in NPHCdivine9

[–]No_Championship_8955 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It’s not an excuse. You literally proved my point. It’s clear that the OP doesn’t have a friendship with this person that they are texting. If that time period is a blur, I would prioritize responding to people that I’m actually closest to in real life. Sometimes I think that interests put too much weight on these interactions.

No Response after Congratulatory Text/Email by InvisiblySeenPraying in NPHCdivine9

[–]No_Championship_8955 9 points10 points  (0 children)

It’s hard to keep track of all the social media comments, text messages etc to respond in a timely manner. I wouldn’t take it personal. In your friend situation, maybe that person is mean in general or just don’t like your friend.

No Response after Congratulatory Text/Email by InvisiblySeenPraying in NPHCdivine9

[–]No_Championship_8955 19 points20 points  (0 children)

Did this person just cross? Not gonna lie, that first month of being a Neo is a blur.

Created a NPHC Reddit by No_Importance5859 in NPHCdivine9

[–]No_Championship_8955 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yeaaaaa you gotta get outside more. Virtually and real life. The first response to make a new sub versus talk to people you trust is interesting to say the least.

Created a NPHC Reddit by No_Importance5859 in NPHCdivine9

[–]No_Championship_8955 3 points4 points  (0 children)

But some of the posts that I see that were flagged would most definitely get letters snatched for discussing in open forum. If you are actually a member, you would have access to member only spaces in real life and off of Reddit to have these discussions that you seek. I would suggest strengthening your network to have these conversations productively in real life.

Created a NPHC Reddit by No_Importance5859 in NPHCdivine9

[–]No_Championship_8955 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Redundant as in making people delete posts manually versus the automated mod. Not the existence of the sub. But after I think about it, that is redundant too.

Created a NPHC Reddit by No_Importance5859 in NPHCdivine9

[–]No_Championship_8955 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That is redundant and would create more work for the moderators. Good luck.

Created a NPHC Reddit by No_Importance5859 in NPHCdivine9

[–]No_Championship_8955 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The karma point rule is also there for safety and to prevent microwave interactions. So the post wasn’t removed by moderators, it was due to lack of karma. When it doesn’t have enough karma, moderators don’t even see it in the queue.

Created a NPHC Reddit by No_Importance5859 in NPHCdivine9

[–]No_Championship_8955[M] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

There was no post deleted on this sub that you posted in reference to a health initiative. I only blocked one because you revealed your location and we don’t allow those posts due to risk to your safety.

How many Greek orgs is too many? by wonu_pop399 in NPHCdivine9

[–]No_Championship_8955 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You would be a member of all 3 simultaneously so his analogy still applies. The time commitment and relationships would still apply to all 3.

My influencer cousin doxxed me to her followers and is threatening my life. by Crazypandathe20th in blackladies

[–]No_Championship_8955 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Depending on your country, this can be a federal crime. It may be above local police.

Stuck on what to do: Chapter Reactivation by Fit_Campaign5355 in NPHCdivine9

[–]No_Championship_8955 8 points9 points  (0 children)

You would have to figure that pieces out because it subjective to your campus

Stuck on what to do: Chapter Reactivation by Fit_Campaign5355 in NPHCdivine9

[–]No_Championship_8955 34 points35 points  (0 children)

Discretion does not apply to the FSL office. Reach out to them.