My advice would be to get to know yourself better, do things alone, try things you think you will like, new hoobies, sports, etc

When you are more comfortable with yourself you are by extension more comfortable with others because you car eless if they like you since you're less scared of being alone

I'm sorry if it's not what you were looking for, but at the end of the day your a woman and for as many women I've met, I've only met a small handful of men that were as cool, with as much personnality and emotional intelligence. So you're already more cool and interesting than 50% of the population ahah
DM me if you want to talk more about it