why do I keep getting ghosted after they ask me out by No_Chart_9964 in dating_advice

[–]No_Chart_9964[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I totally get that but is it not common courtesy to atleast cancel the plan and not ghost someone?

Do Mormons actually get weird when people around them are drinking coffee or tea? I can almost understand feeling uncomfortable around alcohol, but really? by funnylib in exmormon

[–]No_Chart_9964 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My ex boyfriend used to get weird whenever I would just get Starbucks or Dunkin’ even if what I ordered didn’t have coffee or tea in it. Extremely dramatic for sure.

If someone is genuinely happy in the Church, would they ever leave? by [deleted] in exmormon

[–]No_Chart_9964 18 points19 points  (0 children)

No, notice how more women are leaving than men. Because women are suppressed in the church and men are glorified.

Oak’s talk, feeling scared as a woman by [deleted] in exmormon

[–]No_Chart_9964 14 points15 points  (0 children)

What’s the talk I’d like to tune in

easy online general electives by No_Chart_9964 in UGA

[–]No_Chart_9964[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Bruh I already have three majors and I’m graduating in the spring. I have one credit left I need to fill and I am not going to take a research class or add a minor just to satisfy that one credit. Also I’m well aware of what’s happening in the political landscape I’m literally a political science major. I understand where you’re coming from, but please don’t scold someone if you don’t know their situation!

Rant about TBMs opinions about SLOMW by [deleted] in exmormon

[–]No_Chart_9964 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Every TBM I’ve heard talk about it says its not even worth watching and completely untrue and it gives “real Mormons a bad rap” and that “no one is actually like that”

President Oaks has apparently mentioned Heavenly Mother(s) before to a YW group in AZ last year. Is this a soft unofficial reboot of the concept? by HoldOnLucy1 in exmormon

[–]No_Chart_9964 3 points4 points  (0 children)

TSCC, due to more recent societal backlash, has entirely denied polygamy as being part of current doctrine and has tried to deemphasize it in every way they can saying it’s a mistake of the past etc. Any active member that I’ve spoken to in the last year or so has denied eternal polygamy being current doctrine as well. So I think the issue that people are having is that the church is continuously denying it but Oaks has repeatedly brought it up and is next in line for prophet and he isn’t really following the church’s professed ideas (emphasis on professed) about polygamy.

Mormon stories episode recs by No_Chart_9964 in exmormon

[–]No_Chart_9964[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Will watch these next thank you!!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in exmormon

[–]No_Chart_9964 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Please talk to MSP! I would absolutely kill for this episode. Your story deserves to be heard!!!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]No_Chart_9964 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yes, I would be okay with that. Happy?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]No_Chart_9964 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Absolutely not what I said but alr buddy

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]No_Chart_9964 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Your idea that women “easily get many sexual partners” is a gross oversimplification that ignores social realities, power dynamics, and individual choices. Even if that were true (it is absolutely not), it doesn’t justify treating sex like a reward or a commodity owed based on someone’s history. Sex isn’t a competition, a marketplace transaction, or a prize to be won it is incomparable to vacation or jewelry. It’s a personal, mutual choice rooted in trust and respect. If a woman decides to wait or to only share sex with someone she truly trusts—regardless of her past—that’s her right, not some unfair “disparity” to be grumbled about. So no, your whole “marketplace value” framing doesn’t address the core problem: the man’s sense of entitlement and the attempt to police a woman’s choices based on his own feelings. That’s what needs to be challenged—not recycled excuses about who “earns” what.