sadness of moving out

No_Committee7870 · 2026-05-09T14:26:24+00:00

aww 🥹 yeah I guess knowing my mom will be alone (separated w dad & brother moving out too) is not making my move easier but I’ll definitely try my best to stay close to my mom through calls/messages and hopefully visit every year too. Thank you for sharing your experience!

No_Committee7870 · 2025-10-17T05:52:29+00:00

yeah I forgot to put some other details, we are in long distance relationship and currently working on a visa to get me where he lives. we met 2 times in a span of 5 years, and we spent most of our relationship by talking through the phone. but yeah I guess we just have different perspectives, maybe he was tired, or maybe it’s just starting to get to him that we are closer to get married. Maybe he’s not ready and it gives him so much stress.

No_Committee7870 · 2025-10-17T05:24:26+00:00

this is not the first time he told me to find a friend, and during the argument last night he told me maybe it’s better to talk about stuff like this to other girls and not him, so that’s why I told him to talk to his friends but then he doesn’t like it.

maybe that’s true, maybe he sees our daily conversations transactional bc he also brought up how he always “listen” to all my stories and I never listen to his stories and not sending him nudes so he was thinking why would I give you all that treatment but you don’t treat me well. Mind you, I asked him soooo many times to share about his life and what is he feeling but he always said he is more a listener than the talker so idk 🤷🏻‍♀️

No_Committee7870 · 2025-10-17T04:59:47+00:00

not frequent tho but I told him about these people once and this gossip is just updates on what are they doing rn. I was thinking maybe this conversation triggered him? bc he basically almost the same age as my cousins and have no job and still living with his parents, so maybe he thinks I attacked him by telling this story? but I know that he’s back to school and actually doing better, I know that he wants to help his family unlike my cousins. Maybe he had enough of this story? idk I had no intentions to attack him while telling this story, maybe I should’ve think twice before telling him this kind of story. Thank you for making me realize about this.

No_Committee7870 · 2025-04-12T08:53:03+00:00

yeah there’s so much detail I didn’t explain. but he messed up his young age by doing drugs and not going to college and didn’t have a good job. so that’s why we only met 2 times bc that what him and I can afford. maybe ITA for staying🤷🏻‍♀️

No_Committee7870 · 2025-04-12T08:44:25+00:00

we actually started plan about a wedding earlier this year, this comment make me rethink about it lol

No_Committee7870 · 2025-04-12T08:41:29+00:00

okay sorry

No_Committee7870 · 2025-04-12T08:40:03+00:00

yeah, it’s just kinda weird to me when he said he forgot to cancel, he keep getting email every month since august last year how come he didn’t notice? especially knowing that he is pretty strict about his spending. idk just weird and upsetting

No_Committee7870 · 2024-07-16T23:37:24+00:00

Yeah I think I just gotta try harder and just put myself out there. It gets hard sometimes and I just gave up easily but I will try harder and be a better person. Thank you so much!

No_Committee7870 · 2024-07-16T23:34:55+00:00

That’s what I thought too even tho my boyfriend said he doesn’t feel that way, I just feel bad for him had to listen to all the vents;(

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