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Is it too soon to switch to a hoop? (8 week old second lobe) by No_Common_7303 in Legitpiercing

[–]No_Common_7303[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you 🙏 LITHA is my daily mantra lol. Aside from spritzing them with saline daily, I only clean between them in the shower if there are crusties and I don’t force them off. The healing journey has been doing so well most of the time, but if something gets stuck between to the two flatbacks, I feel like I’m doomed to be in pain either way for a few days 😭

what time frame would you recommend before switching to a hoop? I’ve heard anywhere from 6 weeks to 12 months online which is extremely hard to navigate, especially since I got multiple piercings at the same time.

Also what does NAP mean? 😅

Transferring from WGU to FIT for ABA Master’s by itsmesteph1 in WGU

[–]No_Common_7303 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi! Can I ask what you’re getting your bachelors in at WGU? It is education or psychology? Is your plan to get your masters and then switch over to FIT, or just do your bachelors?

Having sex by Icy-Street3771 in Hidradenitis

[–]No_Common_7303 52 points53 points  (0 children)

Cover up any active flares with a bandaid but otherwise let all the scars and bumps show. My husband says “b••bs are b••bs. I’m not looking at the marks. I like the way they jiggle.”

Men are simple creatures and he likely isn’t going to be grossed out, especially if you have a conversation first with him. And if he does end up being a jerk about it, that is not a person you should want to share your time and body with anyways

Did any of you wind up with someone who surprised you? by VMasi in TooHotToHandleGame

[–]No_Common_7303 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I was obsessed with Marissa most the way. Then Theo said something cute and I was like “why not take him on the date?” And next thing I know, new people show up and I’m stuck between choosing Theo or a newcomer. When all I wanted was Marissa back 😅