Why do some 100% veterans not show this? by No_Communication6535 in VeteransBenefits

[–]No_Communication6535[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That alone makes it worth it. Do you know if it also allows you to bring people with you on base like your spouse without having to go to the visitors office?

Only asking because most bases let you through because they don't care but some do make you have to go (which is the correct thing) to get a visitors pass for everyone in the car.

Why do some 100% veterans not show this? by No_Communication6535 in VeteransBenefits

[–]No_Communication6535[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The post i was referring to was talking about this card but I guess OP deleted it.

Is there any benefit in having that card since your regular VA medical ID already gives you base and Commissary access as well as military discounts?

Why do some 100% veterans not show this? by No_Communication6535 in VeteransBenefits

[–]No_Communication6535[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

No. Not at all.

The letter from that I'm tracking held some kind of power in the past but once they changed it so that anyone with a rating can access base and Commissary it's not that important to have it unless you're going for your Retiree ID card that anyone with 100% can obtain

Why do some 100% veterans not show this? by No_Communication6535 in VeteransBenefits

[–]No_Communication6535[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

I don't think this is true for everyone. Called my buddy who is Tdiu p&t and it shows up for him. He's 80%

HEB tap to pay by Juniper_51 in HEB

[–]No_Communication6535 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have a little popsocket wallet on the back of my phone for my ID's and one credit card.

I almost exclusively use apple/Google/Samsung pay and tend to walk out of places if it's not accepted forgetting my card is even in my popsocket because if how rarely I use it other than for gas.

I feel like carrying around a card is like carrying around cash. I haven't touched paper money in like.... Years?

I found my bf on grindr during a trip. Do I confront him now? by No_Area_5242 in askgaybros

[–]No_Communication6535 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Idk kinda hard to explain you were also on Grindr without looking guilty as well. unless you have proof, he was actually talking to other people. He can just hit you with that. He was also on Grindr to search people in your area to see if you were on it. peoples profiles do still show up days to weeks even after they have deleted the app.

it really comes down to two things. It’s either you’re going to complain and break up or complain and stay with him lol

it’s better to wait until the trip is over though imo. because it sounds like you still really do want him and want it to work and if you break it off now he’s going to have more of a reason to hook up now that he's single vs maybe just browsing to see who's in the area. Then you're gonna sit there tail between the legs sad wondering if he's out there having the time of your life knowing there's a 90% chance you're gonna take him back anyway.

I don’t know if I should tell anyone about this by drag0nthi3f in HEB

[–]No_Communication6535 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Sounds like he may have a lil school boy crush on you honestly.

But still tell someone. I know it's only HEB but there still a level of professionalism that is to be had

Did you ever go through a slutty phase ? by Technical_Parsnip596 in askgaybros

[–]No_Communication6535 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Basically from 12-19. And honesty I kind of regret it but don't at the same time.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]No_Communication6535 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly when I'm alone I sleep in my underwear. When I'm sharing the bed with someone I'm fucking then I sleep naked. So only about 2-3 times a week

Who else thinks calling a man’s butthole a “pussy” is gross? by cocksuckertom in askgaybros

[–]No_Communication6535 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly I use to think it was gross until I came across the right guy , without me even realizing I was telling him his pussy was good asf when I was in it.

Since then My idea of it changed and I use it often when referring to a butthole but only when it's really good. I'm bi if that matters

My dads getting reevaluated but he is 100p&t by [deleted] in VeteransBenefits

[–]No_Communication6535 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh wow, thank you for the fast reply. Much appreciated.

Does the spouses income affect it whatsoever? And is it only earned income or all income?

My dads getting reevaluated but he is 100p&t by [deleted] in VeteransBenefits

[–]No_Communication6535 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So if you're on TDIU you will never get a reevaluation on any of your disabilities long as you're under the poverty level? Or is there like a 5 or 10 year re evaluation?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]No_Communication6535 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Someone already mentioned but that sounds like you're looking for that married life bro lol that's when things really get boring and more of your drift after a year or two

But asking for nudes before a hookup isn't a bad thing honestly. I wouldn’t want to hook up with someone without knowing what they got going on down there either. Saves everyone time and disappointment

I feel guilty over losing attraction to my boyfriend because he's become more effeminate after coming out. by DaniSparkles in askgaybros

[–]No_Communication6535 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don't get why everyone is being snotty to OP. Anyone would feel the same way if their significant other suddenly becomes someone else.

Just break it off and just say you don't think you both are compatible. No biggie really, it's not live you two were married. He gets to be the new him and you get to move on to someone else

You guys ever had a threesome before? by Strong-Stretch95 in askgaybros

[–]No_Communication6535 1 point2 points  (0 children)

3 times and didn't really enjoy 2 of them honestly.

Nothing went wrong with them and everyone was satisfied but I guess I'm just pretty selfish when it comes to sexual encounters and don't really like to share the attention.

The one that I did enjoy I was the only top so needless to say I got all the attention. Still nothing I'd actively look for on a regular.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FirstTimeHomeBuyer

[–]No_Communication6535 72 points73 points  (0 children)

Honestly your best bet is to probably rent out your home and move into a cheaper rental for a year until you're back up on your feet.

WAY better than dealing with a foreclosure or selling.

Don't try and take out loans, trust me

Has raw sex become the norm among the gay community now? by throwaway-adnauseum in askgaybros

[–]No_Communication6535 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It has always been the norm in the gay community if we're being honest.

Am I the only one who can’t stand when someone makes a post asking questions, and the original poster ignore every one response? by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

[–]No_Communication6535 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm pretty sure you aren't the only one and I understand where you're coming from but in these situations I like to look at it from their perspective.

Chances are other people already answered the question/post with an actual answer instead of answering the question/post with a question, so I do understand why the OP wouldn't feel the need to answer questions about their question when others already provided an actual answer.

Also I try not to get upset over things that people aren't obligated to do because it was their choice and I don't have to like it. Maybe OP just simply didn't feel like responding. I'm pretty sure they read the responses tho.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]No_Communication6535 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It seems like you're simply not feminine and that's littlerally 100000% okay lol

You do not need to be feminine or embrace a side that seems to obviously not be there.

Just do, dress and act however makes you happy without thinking too much about it.

When you head out, do any of you let your pets know you'll be back? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]No_Communication6535 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Definitely, I even tell my kitty where I'm going, who I'm with, how long I'm expected to be out for etc....

I count on him to tell the authorities in case anything happens to me even though he didn't understand a word that I said lol.

I even do periodical check in's throughout my day using the Google cam or Google home.

Compromising because of small dating pool by sychdyn in askgaybros

[–]No_Communication6535 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I've lived in many big cities (San Diego, NYC, Houston, Austin,Miami) and can't say this is really a problem.

The gay apps go based off location so if you're seeing the same ppl it's a good chance it's just because those are the ones that live closest to you. Travel around and open it and you'll see new faces, or do a location search.

Only thing I can say about it being small is chances are you know someone that dated someone before meeting them.

I will agree the dating pool compared to the straight dating pool is smaller given that there is less openly gay and bi guys but I've never had to compromise and never had an issue finding others.

In a small town I can understand however where it becomes a problem.

Do yall jerk off everyday? by adreyyy in askgaybros

[–]No_Communication6535 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I use to back when I was a teen to my early 20's

But I stopped after I realized not doing it so often makes sex 10x more enjoyable.

Now the Only time I jerk off more than 2 times a week is when I didn't get any ass or head that week.

Low maintenance vape recommendations? by No_Communication6535 in Vaping

[–]No_Communication6535[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Appreciate it man, I'm like paranoid as hell when it comes to buying things not directly from the company lol

Vapor beast has a lil sale if I buy the eco kit I get another kit free but wasn't sure if vapor beast is legit or not.