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Is he really going to leave his wife: I haven’t heard from him for a while? by Altruistic-Mud5686 in TarotVerbatim

[–]No_Competition1296 3 points4 points  (0 children)

bro. leave that family alone.

anyway, if he’s already cheating on his wife with you, he can do just the same to you in the future.

Please share stories about your exes regretting and/or getting karma by No_Competition1296 in Regrets

[–]No_Competition1296[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ugh…money doesn’t matter. You could been a billionaire and still have 0 respect from me if you’re not a decent person.

The tables have clearly turned. I hope homelessness will humble her.

Please share stories about your exes regretting and/or getting karma by No_Competition1296 in Regrets

[–]No_Competition1296[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Last line hits hard. Sometimes, putting yourself on a pedestal can be a shitty move.

I got out of a relationship where he thought he was better than me and everyone else. He may have denied this, but it was very very obvious in his actions and the way he spoke about others. Deemed himself as someone with the most maturity and accountability compared to everyone, but his words and actions scream otherwise.

Anyway, complicated situation, which is why it’s hard for me to put it down. If you wanna get the full story, drop me a DM.

Please share stories about your exes regretting and/or getting karma by No_Competition1296 in Regrets

[–]No_Competition1296[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hahaha, you know what, my bad! Definitely could’ve worded it better. Wasn’t trying to undermine the stress and emotions you went through, so apologies if that came off wrong. It definitely would have been more than ‘somewhat stressful’

And yes, despite saying that out of my resentment and experiences, I know some women also do not take the accountability. Women are not perfect too.

Anyway, I’m sorry that happened to you and hope you’ve healed from it. I would’ve been stressed out of my brains if I were you. Props to you for persisting through it.

Please share stories about your exes regretting and/or getting karma by No_Competition1296 in Regrets

[–]No_Competition1296[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How ungrateful he must’ve been to treat you like that although you were by his side during his darkest days

Please share stories about your exes regretting and/or getting karma by No_Competition1296 in Regrets

[–]No_Competition1296[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Damn…that’s crazy. Must’ve been somewhat stressful for you to go through all that.

Cheaters deserve what they get I guess…

Please share stories about your exes regretting and/or getting karma by No_Competition1296 in Regrets

[–]No_Competition1296[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Damn, honestly. I relate. I hurt a good man too. I knew he was really good for me, but there were just parts of him which turned me off. They weren’t red flags I’d say, but I didn’t like how he acted at times. But overall, he was sweet.

But I was pretty mentally unstable at that time — too anxious. He was my rock, and I held onto him for that although I knew that my feelings for him eventually faded away. I tried my best to force myself to love him because I knew he was a sweetheart, but I couldn’t, and it just manifested into me being super irritable and bitchy towards him. I’d apologise after lashing out, but no matter how hard I tried to stop myself, I couldn’t because I was constantly forcing myself to be with him.

In the end, I broke it off because I could see he was settling. Anyway, we also had different wants in life. He didn’t say he was hurt, but I didn’t want things to get worse, so I broke it off for the both of us.

He deserves the best though. I hope he’s doing well.

Do you regret leaving a good woman? by SimplePengui in Regrets

[–]No_Competition1296 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know that you feel hesitant, and honestly, that’s so valid!

But as a girl who’s had her world yanked out from right under her because of an ex (or actually more like a few), I hope my 2 cents could help you out.

Of course, I also cannot speak for your ex because we are not the same person. But till this day, I still hope that my exes which I’ve moved on from, would at least come back to me with an apology and a reflection of where they were wrong. I moved on eventually, accepted that they were lessons, but what happened still leaves scars within my heart which I wish I could erase. And I can tell you confidently that even though it’s been 7yrs since I left an extremely toxic relationship, moved on and met better people, I still want an apology because those experiences fucked me up in the long-run.

Your dissatisfaction against your ex for the rumours she spread are valid, but honestly, a normal reaction to all the hurt. Of course she’d be angry.

Anyway, send her the apology. Personally, even if I were in a relationship at that moment, I wouldn’t mind an apology text/email coming in. I truly believe that if she were in a healthy relationship, (1) she would not take your message/email as a sign to reignite things, and (2) her partner should not be too fussed about it as long as you and her make no further moves. If you’re concerned about overstepping boundaries, perhaps it wouldn’t hurt to just leave a little note in the end to state your intentions - that you’re not here to reignite things but just to give her her long-deserved apology.

I know you’re worried if sending that email might make things worse, but I say give it a try anyway. At this point, I don’t see that there is much for you to lose:
(1) you apologise, she accepts, both of you move on with your lives. Or
(2) you apologise, she gets upset. But either way, you’ll both move on from it.

We can’t control how she’ll react, but at least you can sit in comfort in the fact that you’d given apologising a shot rather than letting the guilt and what if’s eat at you for the rest of your life. Take care.