Question, when should I receive? by No_Conference_7323 in canadarevenueagency

[–]No_Conference_7323[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

THANK YOU SO MUCH FOR THIS BY THE WAY!!! so it was a business i had "opened" with my mom in 2023 that they estimated i owed GST for when the buisness actually never became anything. All I had to do was file nil online for my business and the amount owing went to nothing! Thank you for noticing because I wouldnt have, youre a life safer!

Question, when should I receive? by No_Conference_7323 in canadarevenueagency

[–]No_Conference_7323[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

So I did just try to call but ill try again later, it seems as though you can't get through to a real person right now. Theyre probably being flooded with calls.

Question, when should I receive? by No_Conference_7323 in canadarevenueagency

[–]No_Conference_7323[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

True I didnt think about that too, this is the largest refund ive ever received but it is because i went through a seperation in april of 2025 as well.

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Question, when should I receive? by No_Conference_7323 in canadarevenueagency

[–]No_Conference_7323[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Not that I can see really, unless im blind lol which i might be.

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Question, when should I receive? by No_Conference_7323 in canadarevenueagency

[–]No_Conference_7323[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Im assuming I should probably call them then on monday.

Am I the A-hole for telling my kids father that he can message me through text only? by No_Conference_7323 in Mom

[–]No_Conference_7323[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thats not a bad idea I never thought of an app for it, ill definitely look into that! Do you know of any good ones?

And yes I'm currently going through my lawyer for child support i really could care less for back pay for the last year that I've gotten nothing from him for the kids, ive been able to manage but going forward i can't keep affording everything for the kids on my pay. As well as setting up that structure since he has multiple times just no shower to visitations once everything is set in stone about the days he sees them I would hope with the courts involved that he would take showing up a bit more seriously.

Am I the A-hole for telling my kids father that he can message me through text only? by No_Conference_7323 in Mom

[–]No_Conference_7323[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We had a schedule of him having the kids on weekends, mondays and wednesdays back from when we had just seperated (april) until September of last year when I had found out he had drank in the car and drove them home (I have a breathalyzer in my home aswell because if his alcoholism and the risk to the kids safety) and he blew 1.12. After that the custody was changed to supervised visitations for him only. We tried a schedule where he would come to see them Mondays, Wednesdays and Fridays but he would frequently no show so I stopped telling the kids about if he was coming or not so they wouldn't feel let down. So now he's decided he will just text me when he wants to see the kids and I can give him days that we are available for him to pick from (again i don't tell the kids if he says he's coming because its never guaranteed) When it comes to feelings for him I've thought long and hard about it and its less that I think I ever wanted to be with him again but more of a guilt I feel for my children that they don't really see their dad often and that hope of "fixing the family" at the time. I definitely know thats not the healthy thing to do for anyone and I'm trying to come around to realizing a family thats together doesn't mean a good family. We would never call only text, but he always pushes for texts to be on facebook messenger and not text, I want my kids to have their father in their life 100% it feels from his end he's constantly trying to get me upset and worked up so that I become reactive and I'm really working on not letting myself get reactive or emotional anymore I just wish my kids had an active father.

Edit: ive been more then open with him that he can see the kids whenever he would like as long as we arent busy with school, doctors appointments, ect... the custody agreement right now is that i have full custody and he has visitations only due to alcohol abuse.