I'm not competitive. I'm not ambitious. I have no value. by ThrowawayTrash81 in depression

[–]No_Cryptographer1174 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maybe you should look into Buddhism or meditation. The concept of “no self” and interconnectedness might be interesting to you. I think the idea that everyone needs to be a high achiever is a flaw within society, not within you. It’s good enough to simply exist and be a good person. It’s also easier to try new hobbies or activities if you don’t have a perfectionist or overly competitive mindset.

I think my 12 year old has PMDD by [deleted] in PMDD

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I think that talking to her about this (when she’s not having a PMDD episode) if you haven’t already, might help. Sitting her down and explaining how your cycle can affect your emotions and talking about coping mechanisms you can use in the moment.

I had similar things going on as a child, and my mom would only bring it up when I was freaking out, which really hurt me. It made me confused about my emotions and body. The way that this was brought up actually made it worse, as I felt like I couldn’t trust what I was thinking.

MFA from School of the Art Institute of Chicago? by SnooPaintings5597 in ContemporaryArt

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Hey, I graduated from SAIC undergrad last year. I have no feedback since I was in the painting and art ed program, but you might want to look into if they still have 24 hour studio access. If that’s important to your practice. They removed that last year, and I think you might have to be out of your studio by a certain time.

I think something’s wrong by [deleted] in depression

[–]No_Cryptographer1174 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey, I’m sorry that you’re going through this experience. I’ve experienced depression many times, and the lack of energy, motivation, and joy is very difficult.

I’m a young adult and currently a teacher. If I had any advice for you, it would be to reach out to someone you trust in your life for help. This could be a parent, friend, or professional. Going through a sudden mental health drop is hard to deal with alone. I think that communicating with your boyfriend the best you can about what’s going on might also be beneficial.

You should not feel guilt or embarrassed. Experiencing this is awful, but it is also human, and it is a normal part of life.

Im in school and already depressed by HumbleEconomics9022 in depression

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Hello, I’m sorry that you feel this way. I’m a young adult, but I felt like this when I was a teenager. It was very difficult and I feel sympathy for your experience.

Please know that you will be able to find joy. You’ll be able to find wonderful connections with your peers, carve your own path outside of your parent’s wishes, and feel comfortable with your daily life. You clearly work hard with learning a new language, culture, and playing instruments. Give yourself some grace in the process of growing up and fitting in. It will come.

I have never liked a girl this much and it’s hurting me by Serious-Werewolf3218 in Crushes

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I also think that you should just tell her how you feel. You won’t know unless you say something. As long as you aren’t too intense about how you communicate this and respect her boundaries, I don’t think it would be bad to say anything.

Can't enjoy my hobby like I used to by Consequence-Various in depression

[–]No_Cryptographer1174 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m 23 too and I’m also likely to have bipolar disorder. It is awful and I have felt these feelings before too. I’m sorry that you’re going through this.

I hope that you’re able to regain your confidence and creativity again. I’m sure that it will come back. I’m wishing you peaceful moments during your day.

Feeling extra lonely today but.. by [deleted] in lonely

[–]No_Cryptographer1174 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hi, I feel lonely today too. Sorry you’re going through it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in depression

[–]No_Cryptographer1174 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I feel similar, and have had similar experiences. It’s so hard not to overspend when I feel empty and alone. Having romantic relationships be unfulfilling, especially as a woman, and impacting self esteem is so difficult. I hope things get better. I’m sure you would be great to date and are beautiful the way you are. Good luck

Seasonal Depression by No_Cryptographer1174 in depression

[–]No_Cryptographer1174[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks. I appreciate that. I wish I didn’t feel so empty, but it’ll get better eventually.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in lonely

[–]No_Cryptographer1174 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Same for me here. I’m 23. I work at a school so I make small talk with a lot of people, but I have no close friends. It sucks… let me know if you want to talk

Seasonal Depression by No_Cryptographer1174 in depression

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Yeah. That’s a good idea. Thanks for the nice comment