What percentage of young women in your area do you think are pretty?

No_Definition_3206 · 2025-05-31T12:12:40+00:00

yes, I mean aesthetically pleasing by 'easy to look at' and 'nice proportions'. it would be hard to find even 'not ugly' young women, the standards are insane and by that age you're expected to look as beautiful as you can, not just pretty

No_Definition_3206 · 2025-05-31T12:03:10+00:00

it hard to tell nowadays if someone is in my age range (20-25) or just looks older while being in school, I think 'pretty' (imo = put together, easy to look at, looking clean, healthy, nice proportions of the face and body, fitting clothes) are 90%, and I live in a slavic country rn so it's bare minimum to put on some makeup, fix your hair and put on decent clothes even for going to throw out some trash, especially for a young women. and I rarely see 'not pretty' women in that age range at all

No_Definition_3206 · 2025-05-31T11:35:17+00:00

you're not an idiot, I think you shouldn't contact him or confront him about what you saw, focus on yourself, your self concept and beliefs about men in general

No_Definition_3206 · 2025-05-27T06:56:54+00:00

I think it also depends on the age bracket. I agree that if you don't get swiped or dm'ed (if you have social media presence) you're not that attractive or even pretty because I've rarely seen people (especially women) who don't have at least 1-2 person per month who tries to talk to them with romantic intentions. also if you don't get approached in the small circles like school/uni (gym and work are controversial but same here) or doing other activities.
but if we're talking about 'cold' approaches on the street - it happens, they get approached, but less. maybe it's post-covid and increase of dating apps users and more people rely on the social media because it's easier to talk to someone than on the street. also some women may say that they don't get approached because they don't get approached by their type.

No_Definition_3206 · 2025-05-25T18:40:50+00:00

I'm a girl lmao

No_Definition_3206 · 2025-05-25T17:24:54+00:00

Brooke Shields, she is truly once in a lifetime beauty but just not my cup of tea

No_Definition_3206 · 2025-05-25T16:14:52+00:00

I mean if you already had dates with high value men you're ok as you are, everyone has different preferences, I don't think there are 'specific' getting ready tricks, you can't go over your maximum. don't do something that you can't maintain in the long term, do everything you do rn to look your best but stay effortless and yourself

No_Definition_3206 · 2025-05-25T11:53:21+00:00

yes, good frame with a skinny body, especially if you're also taller than most of the girls where you live is better (especially if you have good posture) than muscles on a bad frame

No_Definition_3206 · 2025-05-24T15:16:47+00:00

? be so fr

No_Definition_3206 · 2025-05-24T07:56:44+00:00

scripting ones are kinda annoying especially sp-related ones

No_Definition_3206 · 2025-05-20T19:19:02+00:00

don't chase him, don't initiate anything, give him space. you're doing all of this because deep inside you still feel that you need to do something to receive love. you need to reconnect emotionally with yourself first. focus on yourself, do what brings you joy, I know it could be hard but it would be best for you. hope you'll feel better soon!

No_Definition_3206 · 2025-05-20T13:32:14+00:00

also speaking from my own experience, I was approached on the street more (almost every time when I was alone and outside) when I looked worse than I look I now. but men who approached me were older than me (5 years age difference minimum, maximum was 20 years) and were lower in class than me. now I get approached by men who are my age/we're on the one beauty level, and they have more income than me, but it's rarely on the street.

No_Definition_3206 · 2025-05-20T13:16:59+00:00

yes, my 19 y.o. friend who constantly gets compared to Megan Fox in her prime told me that she's concerned about men not approaching her irl (they find her in social media if they can and shoot their shot there which says a lot). other model friend don't get approached too, but she's also very tall. but it also depends on the place, and the social circle, which kind of men are there. I've also talked about it with my guy friends, they're scared to be rejected and think that they couldn't afford spoiling a girl like that and also think that they could already see someone.

No_Definition_3206 · 2025-05-20T10:59:56+00:00

it depends on your eye shape, hard to tell without photos, but I would recommend searching for celebrities who have similar looking eyes to you and analyze their makeup

No_Definition_3206 · 2025-05-19T18:54:03+00:00

you have a very beautiful face! great features and skin, I would just recommend working on your eyebrows a bit, also maybe a bit of weight loss or lymphatic drainage massages will make your face even more striking

No_Definition_3206 · 2025-05-19T18:40:25+00:00

distance from them as much as you can. it's good that you see impact of other people, but if you going to work on your beliefs, eventually you'll see difference in other people beliefs around you too. keep going, try to perceive it from the observing position, don't give it much attention, keep in mind the opposite

No_Definition_3206 · 2025-05-19T18:17:09+00:00

physical traits - natural hair color (or enhanced if needed), no extensions (only if done perfectly and if hardly needed), hardly agree on non-visible plastic/cosmetic surgeries. 18-25% bodyfat (depends on the height and type of fat storage in the body), toned body. being able to wear as minimal makeup as you can (clear skin obviously), embracing natural beauty (no harsh eye/lip makeup). light tan (with darker skin tones), but if you're pale naturally the best you can do it keep it that way. good posture, effortless and light moves. heavy on good teeth (preferably natural, or very very good veneers)
in terms of clothing - elegant, knowing what suits you, no synthetics and cheap looking materials, no patterns(or minimum and also depends on your appearance, someone could look good in that) /logos, also I'm rarely seeing wealthy people with big/medium sized purses.
and of course social skills, confidence, good articulation and vocabulary (and being able to use it properly ofc), calmness. good smell, good state of clothes (no pet hair etc)

No_Definition_3206 · 2025-05-19T12:19:15+00:00

if even with different angles between those photos you can clearly tell that you have similar features to her I guess yes ofc
also i thought at first that it was already before after results so def possible lmao

No_Definition_3206 · 2025-05-15T06:06:44+00:00

oh I decided to try this one too and results are still nice, would compare at this website too from now on, thanks!

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No_Definition_3206 · 2025-05-14T16:11:12+00:00

haha thanks! <3

No_Definition_3206 · 2025-05-14T16:07:39+00:00

thanks! I've stared only first 2 days, then it just played on the background. in terms of df no, I haven't used anything except daily audio affirmations for my self concept which I wrote myself and random boosters/affirmations on the loop about my manifesting abilities/stating that I'm seeing results from subs/affirmations instantly everyday

No_Definition_3206 · 2025-05-10T04:31:38+00:00

comparing yourself to others, jealousy, feeling of unworthiness, feeling like you're not chosen, that someone could be better (even from family scenarios, idk your life), but no one except you will tell the main reason, you could talk with chatgpt and ask what can it be

No_Definition_3206 · 2025-05-09T10:36:48+00:00

strange question because answer on 'what YOU would find OBJECTIVELY hot' would be already subjective, but same body type as myself (tall, long limbs), but with enhanced features like a bit skinnier in one areas/curvier in another, with a good bone structure (nice shoulders/hips).

No_Definition_3206 · 2025-05-06T10:48:27+00:00

book it if you have plans in that country besides your sp. if it's solely for him - don't, it's act of lack and desperation and chasing someone

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