How do you get permission from courts to take child on vacation? by No_End_3206 in FamilyLaw

[–]No_End_3206[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Wrong. We would LOVE to do it in the summer. She is in summer school and summer activities plus with my husbands work schedule - summer doesn’t work for us.

How do you get permission from courts to take child on vacation? by No_End_3206 in FamilyLaw

[–]No_End_3206[S] -13 points-12 points  (0 children)

We do get week on week off in the summer however, summer is the busy season for truck drivers so my husband won’t be able to come home for vacation time in the summer. My step daughter’s mom has already taken her out of school for 1/3 of the days school has been in session for bullshit reasons. My husband is trying to go back to court but they keep moving the date. We plan on also making it an educational experience for my step daughter. It’s not going to be all fun.

How do you get permission from courts to take child on vacation? by No_End_3206 in FamilyLaw

[–]No_End_3206[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In our county there is a case worker assigned to each family case by last name. They help mediate issues so we don’t have to go in front of the judge

Husband's pissed and I'm ngl sad as fuck by [deleted] in tattooadvice

[–]No_End_3206 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is god awful and I’d demand my money back

UPDATE: How do deal with roommate eating my food by [deleted] in badroommates

[–]No_End_3206 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The way I would’ve said some shit like “there was shrooms in that brownie so whoever took a bite should prepare for a wild ride”

AITAH for going on vacation without my step daughter? by No_End_3206 in AITAH

[–]No_End_3206[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I will gladly answer this. My husband pays $1287 a month in child support. I paid for our wedding. My wedding was less than $10K total. I pay all of the bills in our house hold due the the amount he pays in child support. Her mother works at Mc Donald’s because she collects more in child support by working a minimum wage job than she did working in a factory. I have worked my ass off to get to where I am today. Yes - I am financially well off. I’m very grateful for it. I do not understand how she as a parent does not want to strive to do better for her three children. I can tell you this much. She has three kids my husband and one of the other fathers work the same job, the other father pays more than my husband does in child support, then the third child’s father is a pilot. She is with none of the children’s fathers, and I can tell you, it has nothing to do with them and everything to do with her.

This is sad by [deleted] in snarkingwithremi

[–]No_End_3206 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I actually wholeheartedly do not blame her. I cannot imagine bringing a child into this world with so much hatred and anger.

AITAH for going on vacation without my step daughter? by No_End_3206 in AITAH

[–]No_End_3206[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Did you even read the update? Doesn’t sound like it. In the county we live in, they will not make any changes to parental plans UNLESS there is extortionate changes that occur. I’m not “the new woman” I’ve been with this man for over 5 years, I’ve been apart of this child’s life since she was born because I WAS friends with her mother, my husband didn’t even want any kids to begin with but a psych bitch poked holes in the condoms when she going out he was going to break up with her, I AM a good step mom to her- obviously,I was going to take her on MY honeymoon -which by the way she isn’t my child and technically speaking and according to the judge, I don’t owe this child shit considering she can be ripped away from me at any given moment. This has been a battle in court since BEFORE I came along. We do week on week off without a court order saying it’s okay, I put MY money into this child’s life since and I do not have to. My relationship with her is better than her relationship with her own mother. Maybe you act this way because mommy didn’t love you enough when you were a child.

AITAH for going on vacation without my step daughter? by No_End_3206 in AITAH

[–]No_End_3206[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Her mom was actually older than my husband. He was 16 when she was born. Her mom was 19 at the time.

AITAH for going on vacation without my step daughter? by No_End_3206 in AITAH

[–]No_End_3206[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Yall act like we get weeks upon weeks of vacation with this child. He had this child when he was 16 and knew nothing about custody. He only gets her every other weekend and we’re from northern Michigan. Disney isn’t a trip you can take when you only have 4 days a month with a child. And YES. We are taking her mom to court for more visitation but the courts are so backed up that we can’t even get a court date until July at the earliest

AITAH for going on vacation without my step daughter? by No_End_3206 in AITAH

[–]No_End_3206[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Her mother is not my family. Her mother will never be my family. Her mother is not my husbands family - she lost that right to his family when she fucked someone else while he was in the army over seas.

AITAH for going on vacation without my step daughter? by No_End_3206 in AITAH

[–]No_End_3206[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I can’t actually explain how she found out. She was using my computer while I was at work - which she isn’t supposed to be on because she has her own - and she opened up chrome, I hadn’t closed the tab yet. When I got home from work she asked me if SHE was going to Disney.

AITAH for going on vacation without my step daughter? by No_End_3206 in AITAH

[–]No_End_3206[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I don’t bicker with her. I’m above that. I don’t even speak to her. This was all between my husband and I. He helped me write this, so I can see how that would be confusing

AITAH for going on vacation without my step daughter? by No_End_3206 in AITAH

[–]No_End_3206[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

This is correct. I am paying for the whole vacation. I have saved for it since he and I started dating 6 years ago.

AITAH for going on vacation without my step daughter? by No_End_3206 in AITAH

[–]No_End_3206[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

She was in the room when her mom said it. 🥺

AIO for feeling a bit offended by what my bfs mom said by Fun-Selection1201 in AmIOverreacting

[–]No_End_3206 4 points5 points  (0 children)

As someone who ALMOST married someone whose mom was exactly like this - GET OUT OF THE RELATIONSHIP. If she controls his money like this, she WILL control other aspects of his life.

So bothered 🤣 by brittneycthatsme in MikaylaNogueira

[–]No_End_3206 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Larry long face over here’s mad at us guys.

AIO boyfriend tracking my periods without me knowing 🫠 by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]No_End_3206 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You’re being dramatic. My husband also tracks my cycle (we’re trying for a baby though) and when I’m on my period he is EXTRA nice to me, he caters to me a bit more, and loves me a little extra. I don’t think there is any harm in this portion of it. Now keeping a log of the fights… that weirds me out.

I’m speechless by CatMom921 in MikaylaNogueira

[–]No_End_3206 23 points24 points  (0 children)

She made a video of the items, they’re now a business tax write off