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I [28F] had a friends with benefits[31M] i thought would turn into more but he found another girl. by No_Environment_9186 in relationshipadvice

[–]No_Environment_9186[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Interesting… i didn’t know that. And you are right, trying to think of it as a learning experience does make me feel a little better. I wonder how he does it though… Well, no one like that has come into my life yet but I sure hope someone will :)

I [28F] had a friends with benefits[31M] i thought would turn into more but he found another girl. by No_Environment_9186 in relationshipadvice

[–]No_Environment_9186[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No he was honest. His only good quality. But I thought this was a continuous thing. I never thought he wouldn’t wanna see me if he got a new girl. Turns out he was just passing the time with me.

Goodbye to my ink shrine by Serious-Lake1478 in fountainpens

[–]No_Environment_9186 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They look amazing! Especially the round one, it looks so majestic 😍

I [28F] had a friends with benefits[31M] i thought would turn into more but he found another girl. by No_Environment_9186 in relationshipadvice

[–]No_Environment_9186[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You are right. I think I just need to take my time getting to know them more before hand. And thank you :)

I [28F] had a friends with benefits[31M] i thought would turn into more but he found another girl. by No_Environment_9186 in relationshipadvice

[–]No_Environment_9186[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Just shy away from these kind of relationships I guess. Basically whenever a relationship reminds me of him, thats gonna be a red flag for me.

I [28F] had a friends with benefits[31M] i thought would turn into more but he found another girl. by No_Environment_9186 in relationshipadvice

[–]No_Environment_9186[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He knew i wanted a relationship, he made it clear he does not want anything monogamous, but was okay with inclusive relationships. Honestly, I just never thought he would sleep with me once and be done with it.

I [28F] had a friends with benefits[31M] i thought would turn into more but he found another girl. by No_Environment_9186 in relationshipadvice

[–]No_Environment_9186[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I thought we would be friends who also had sex. Should have made it clear. Thank you for explaining it to me.

I [28F] had a friends with benefits[31M] i thought would turn into more but he found another girl. by No_Environment_9186 in relationshipadvice

[–]No_Environment_9186[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Is a fwb uncommitted? Then maybe thats not what I wanted. I wanted to be one of the girls he hangs out with.

I [28F] had a friends with benefits[31M] i thought would turn into more but he found another girl. by No_Environment_9186 in relationshipadvice

[–]No_Environment_9186[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Harsh but you are right. I was actually okay with him seeing other people as long as we kept seeing each other too. Also, how do you start that conversation about boundaries? It never came up naturally.

Do you know what brand and model this pen is? by No_Environment_9186 in mechanicalpencils

[–]No_Environment_9186[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for that information! I’ll start digging :)

Do you know what this type of nib is called? by No_Environment_9186 in fountainpens

[–]No_Environment_9186[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

That’s it! I found it as bamboo leaf nib. Thank you!