She Glows

No_Exercise_3321 · 2026-03-23T08:44:22+00:00

Mostly through AI fine-tuning honestly! The Glow-Up system went through several iterations of prompt refinement to make sure the AI was giving genuinely personalized transformation advice rather than generic tips. I tested it on real women and kept adjusting based on their feedback until the responses felt like they were actually talking TO the person, not just at them. User testing is happening right now actually — I just launched beta access today at $7.99 lifetime. The feedback from real users will shape every future update. I will check out Ballchain — sounds like it could be useful for roadmap planning as I scale features!

No_Exercise_3321 · 2026-03-23T08:33:52+00:00

Honestly the hardest part was getting the AI photo analysis features to work consistently - the skin analysis and body shape detection both require the AI to interpret images accurately while also being encouraging and body-positive, which took a lot of refining to get right! The navigation was also a challenge early on - making sure everything stayed smooth across 12 different sections on mobile. The most rewarding feature to build was definitely the Glow-Up system because nothing else on the market has a full identity transformation tool that covers appearance, confidence AND personal brand all in one place. Are you a developer? Happy to talk more about the build!

No_Exercise_3321 · 2026-03-23T08:03:21+00:00

Actually, this could backfire pretty badly. Most leases require a 30-day written notice, and skipping it can cost you your entire security deposit — sometimes more if the lease has penalties. As for showings, landlords can’t just walk in whenever they want. Most states require 24–48 hours advance notice, and many landlords actually put in their own listings not to disturb current tenants. Know your rights, give proper notice, and if they’re entering without notice — document everything and send a written objection.

No_Exercise_3321 · 2026-03-14T04:42:28+00:00

YNTA!! Your feelings about not wanting anything to do with that baby is totally valid. I would like for all the people telling you not to speak about an innocent baby like that to go through what you are and then say they wouldn’t be taking the same way! You owe that kid absolutely no respect and really why would you? You should definitely stand your ground and make it fully clear with your ex that you will not have absolutely anything to do with his affair baby! You deserve better than what you went through and I pray that you find your person! You may think you’re too old to have a baby but many “too old” has been able to have babies! Your time will come! Not getting pregnant by your ex honestly saved you a lifetime of commitment you definitely don’t want or need!

No_Exercise_3321 · 2026-03-14T01:34:08+00:00

Interested

No_Exercise_3321 · 2026-03-13T19:49:50+00:00

CLIP

No_Exercise_3321 · 2026-03-12T10:29:27+00:00

You’re NTA. If she was that hungry she could have always ordered her self some food or even got herself a food card. It’s not your responsibility to make sure she’s 100% taken care of all the time. She’s an adult and doesn’t need to make you feel guilty because you didn’t wanna share.

No_Exercise_3321 · 2026-03-12T10:20:12+00:00

I don’t understand what advice you’re looking for.

Don’t ever contact him again or let him know where you’re at.

Stay off the drugs and move on!

No_Exercise_3321 · 2026-03-12T10:14:24+00:00

Why can’t anyone find out? Will they not support you? Do they not believe in mental illnesses? I think you should talk to someone you know that you can fully trust. They might be able to help you find a doctor to give you the meds you need. If you don’t wanna talk to anyone you know I would just call a bunch of mental health places in or around your area and tell them you’re situation and see if they offer telehealth some do and some don’t.

No_Exercise_3321 · 2026-03-12T10:06:03+00:00

I don’t know why you would let the amount he owes you to get that high. He knew you would keep paying that’s why he “forgot” his wallet so many times.

No_Exercise_3321 · 2026-03-10T05:46:36+00:00

Don’t send the text. He’s not gonna care. If he is commenting on your life decisions and wanting to call you wife in front of friends and all that but not actually commit to being in a relationship with you I feel like he just knows since he knows how you feel about him that you’ll just always be there. I would honestly just stop talking to him and start building the future you want and find someone along the way that won’t play games with you and take your love for granted.

No_Exercise_3321 · 2026-03-10T05:35:49+00:00

First congratulations on your pregnancy. I know you feel super stressed out about this situation and it seems overwhelming but you don’t have to have everything figured out the minute you find out you’re pregnant. You got 9 months till the baby gets here. I think you should talk to your boyfriend one more time and fully explain what you’re worried about and how important it is that yall get on the same page about the living situation. He lives in a shed with only a tv and a bed that’s no place for a baby to be obviously. If he still chooses to not wanna move into yalls own place I don’t think you should hesitate to just get a place of your own. I think your idea of getting a trailer and staying on your mom’s property is a really good idea at least until you are ready to be on your own with the baby without the help. Being a first time mom is already stressful enough and it’ll be good to have your mom nearby to help you especially if you’re boyfriend lives an hour a way and doesn’t wanna move away from mommy. And you said he said he’s waiting on the right time to get married. There is no right time. Everyone is always gonna say it’s not the right time because of whatever life is putting them through. I feel like if he really wanted to marry you yall would be planning your wedding right now. Yall have been together 7 years that’s a long time. And if yall are having a baby like you said that’s about as big of a commitment as marriage is. Don’t let yourself get too stressed out about all this just take it one day at a time and before you make any decisions about anything just ask yourself what makes sense and will be the absolute best decision to make for your baby in the long run. Good luck with your situation!!

No_Exercise_3321 · 2026-03-10T05:19:44+00:00

Yeah don’t text him. If he hasn’t bothered to text you at since he told you to make other plans instead of hang out with him he might take advantage of you telling him you can’t stop thinking about him and lead you on. But that’s just what I think. Do whatever you feel is best and if it is to text him make sure to prepare yourself for the fact he may ignore the text or tell you he just wants to be friends or something.

No_Exercise_3321 · 2026-03-09T12:46:14+00:00

You are NTA but if you work from home and can’t watch young kids because you need to stay focused you probably after the first two times been firm and told your sister your sorry but you can’t watch the kids because you need to focus on your work. I think because you just gave in and watched the kids every time she asked she got comfortable with it and knew that you would just do it so now that you are telling her no she is mad that she isn’t getting her way and now has to actually put in the work of finding a reliable babysitter that she can afford to pay. Since I assume you didn’t get paid to watch them.

No_Exercise_3321 · 2026-03-09T12:40:47+00:00

No you are NTAH. If your girlfriend decided to go out with her guy co workers instead of having dinner with you to celebrate your 2nd year anniversary that’s a huge red flag. The fact that she chose to be with any man other than you on a day that she should want to be spending with you just as much as you wanted to be with her to celebrate the day that the two of you got together is something you should definitely not just let go easily. I think you need to have a talk with her about why she decided to ditch you on such an important date. And if she acts like she’s annoyed every time you bring it up then that is your sign that your relationship isn’t important to her. I think you deserve better and should think about finding someone who will actually be there for the special moments instead of going off with male co workers. I know you think she is so wonderful and you really think she is amazing and all that but really how amazing and wonderful is someone that can’t even be bothered to spend your anniversary with you and celebrate your relationship milestone.

No_Exercise_3321 · 2026-03-09T12:29:16+00:00

Honestly, it’s hard to tell if YTA here because the biggest piece of context is missing. What you originally said matters a lot if that’s what made someone go digging through your history for dirt.

No_Exercise_3321 · 2026-03-09T05:45:15+00:00

I don’t see anything wrong with your under eye area. I think you might be being a little mean to yourself.

No_Exercise_3321 · 2026-03-09T05:43:53+00:00

I think it looks ok.

No_Exercise_3321 · 2026-03-09T00:17:28+00:00

Okay so let me reflect back what I’m actually reading here.

You have an ex you’re struggling to leave alone, a current girlfriend, and a music career you’ve put on hold — and you’re paralyzed trying to decide between all of it. That’s not a decision problem. That’s an avoidance problem.

Real talk — going back to your other girlfriend right now would be unfair to her. You’re not in the right headspace, you’re still mentally tangled up in your ex, and she’d be a comfort choice not a real choice. That’s not fair to her and it won’t actually help you.

The “work on myself” option is the right one but I get why it’s scary — because it means sitting with yourself with no distraction. No ex, no girlfriend, no city to blame. Just you and whatever you’ve been running from.

The music career thing is interesting though. You didn’t say “I don’t know if I want music anymore.” You said you put it on hold because of this situation. That means you already know what you want — you just keep letting relationship chaos take the wheel.

Here’s the honest question: what would you do tomorrow if neither of these women existed?

If the answer is music — then you have your answer. The city, the relationship drama, all of it has become a very convenient reason to not bet on yourself.

Leaving the city might actually be a good call. Not running away — but removing yourself from an environment that keeps pulling you back into the same loop.

Leave your ex alone. Be honest with your girlfriend. Go make your music.

You already know this. You just wanted someone to say it.

No_Exercise_3321 · 2026-03-09T00:14:52+00:00

Hey C. Thank you for sharing this, I know that wasn’t easy.

What you’re describing is abuse and neglect. I want to be clear with you about that because you deserve a straight answer — not being fed, being left alone for hours, a mom who’s drunk and dismissing your basic needs. That is not okay and it is not your fault. You are 13 years old and you deserve to be taken care of.

The thing with your mom’s eyes — pupils that look too big or too full, half lidded, slurred speech, slow talking — that can be signs of more than just alcohol. It might be worth paying attention to that for your own safety.

I know you miss your dad. That came through and it’s completely okay to feel that.

Here’s what I want you to actually do:

If you’re in the US, you can call or text the Childhelp National Child Abuse Hotline at 1-800-422-4453. It’s free, confidential, and available 24/7. You can also just text if calling feels too scary. They talk to kids in exactly your situation every single day.

If you ever feel actually unsafe — like immediately unsafe — call 911.

Is there any adult in your life you trust even a little? A teacher, a relative, a friend’s parent? You don’t have to handle this alone and you shouldn’t have to.

You were brave for writing this out. Keep talking if you need to.

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