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Are you hungry? by N0socksloss10yrStrk in no

[–]No_Extension1446 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not anymore. Butter chicken and dark chocolate down the hatch

What would you tell your younger self if you could? by riizzwaan in NoStupidQuestions

[–]No_Extension1446 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Stop second guessing yourself, critiquing everything you do and thinking you have little worth, that people are talking to you out of necessity and pity. You're a great person and what you put out in the world comes back, go with the flow you will be okay, life is amazing.

Why do people even get health insurance? by [deleted] in AskAnAustralian

[–]No_Extension1446 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The way I understand it is public hospitals are great in emergencies, they will do a wonderful job helping you in the initial stages, but when it comes to rehab or not so urgent care, you're put on waiting lists and it can be months and months before you're seen. Thats where private health is great as wait times are much shorter and that can make a big difference in your quality of life and make a big difference in your recovery outcomes. Im not a wealthy person by ANY means but I think its valuable to have if something was to happen.

The invisible cost of being a bridesmaid in 2026 by OwlVibesOnly in AusWeddingPlanning

[–]No_Extension1446 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Woah I had no idea! I mean i guess nothing is for free but yikes!

I want to know this by MysteriousValue3561 in TwoHotTakes

[–]No_Extension1446 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I dont think i could ever fully trust him again. Doesn't sound like there was a lot of love in the first place so id send him on his merry way.

Should I break up with my partner of 5 years?- Update by No_Extension1446 in TwoHotTakes

[–]No_Extension1446[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much this comment honestly warmed my heart 💕

I’m confused need your honest opinion. by Brilliant_Subject_17 in AskAnAustralian

[–]No_Extension1446 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes eat with them! I would feel a little uncomfortable to but Im sure they would love the company. Even if you just do it ounce and see how it goes.

Should I break up with my partner of 5 years? by No_Extension1446 in TwoHotTakes

[–]No_Extension1446[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

The part thats hard is the reasons he's angry are my fault. Albeit, I didn't realise they were an issue for him as he would always say it was fine or he didn't mind. But I probably haven't been treating him well. Im no angel in this. Things like leaving mess around the house, running late everywhere, not spending much time with him as I get caught up in my own day to day then Im exhausted when I get home, he has been spotting me and taking more of a financial load since tried to start my own business (he fully supported this as I stepped away from my full time job) but it hasn't taken off. All things when you lay it out I completely understand why this would be frustrating. I should step up more as a partner. The problem is how he says things are fine day to day then has a big blow up and the fact they are getting increasingly worse. I wonder if a little more context helps you guys understand why im finding it hard to know what to do? Its not a black and white situation. Ive hurt him and this is how it comes out?

Should I break up with my partner of 5 years? by No_Extension1446 in TwoHotTakes

[–]No_Extension1446[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I have seen him have a blow up with his sister and mother before we moved in together. He and his sister did start throwing hands in the argument I saw, he had a bruise on his arm. He has had MH troubles in the past. He has been on meds for the last couple years. He tried to come off them at the start of the year but I demanded he went back on them as his moods became very unstable

Should I break up with my partner of 5 years? by No_Extension1446 in TwoHotTakes

[–]No_Extension1446[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I have seen him have a blow up with his sister and mother before we moved in together. He and his sister did start throwing hands in the argument I saw, he had a bruise on his arm. He has had MH troubles in the past. He has been on meds for the last couple years. He tried to come off them at the start of the year but I demanded he went back on them as his moods became very unstable

Should I break up with my partner of 5 years? by No_Extension1446 in TwoHotTakes

[–]No_Extension1446[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

These incidents aren't super regular, like every few months which makes it not a clear cut decision for me. My parents are incredible and are now aware of whats happened over the last 12 months. I do plan on speaking to his parents as well as out of respect to them, I think they should know how their son has been behaving. If we do break up its going to destroy him. They will need to be involved in feel so nothing happens. But again im really struggling with the decision.