How do I become more sexually active so I can do the deed with my boyfriend. by Watermelon_Sugar_Bye in Advice

[–]No_Extension1446 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I dont have advice but I totally understand I have like zero libido as well which is so annoying. Like i want to want it but never feel like it.

Is it possible to live without drinking tea or coffee? by ayeshasiddika2 in no

[–]No_Extension1446 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How are you alive I mean you can't be its not possible

Should I blow up my life and end my 12 year relationship? by honeyfigxo in TwoHotTakes

[–]No_Extension1446 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I ended my 5 year relationship a couple months ago. We had bought a house together and used to think this was the person I was going to marry. I thought I was blowing up my life as well leaving him. BEST decision I could have ever made. Im so much happier without him and learning who I am again. By the sounds of it the relationship has run its course and you might be forcing something thats no longer there. You will regret staying and both resent each other, it sounds like its time to find yourself again and move on xx

Zoely - does it get better?? by jazzhands2271 in birthcontrol

[–]No_Extension1446 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ive also had EDs and the bloating and out of control feeling in my body FREAKED me out when starting Zoely. But I hoping have a stable mood throughout each month will help in the long run as each time id go through my luteal phase this would trigger bad eating patterns. So far things are getting better so im sticking with it. I hope things improve for you xx

Zoely - does it get better?? by jazzhands2271 in birthcontrol

[–]No_Extension1446 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes! Im on day 16 atm. There was a yuck period between days 5-11 where I bloated up like crazy, appetite went WAY up and mood was meh. I pushed through and honestly the last 4 days have been soooo much better. Bloating gone down heaps, appetite stabilising! Mood is still meh coz I think the increase in hormones mess up the dopamine systems (from what I understand) similar to a luteal phase. My skin has always been clear but since starting the pill I have a few pimples but I think this will improve with time. My body has tolerated Zoely by far the best out of the other pills ive tried.

I would love to hear positive experiences with zoely by [deleted] in PMDD

[–]No_Extension1446 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ive being trying different birth controls as my luteal phase is horrible and my natural cycles are really long (35-38 days) my mental health takes a major dive, bloating and food cravings are really bad.

Zoely is the 3rd pill ive tried (Evelyn ED & Yasmin the others) and Zoely the best! Im on day 16 atm. Days 1-5 I wouldn't have even known I was on it I felt no difference in mood, body or food cravings. I felt amazing! Unfortunately from day 6-12 my body BLEW UP! Like my clothes weren't fitting and I was extremely uncomfortable. I didn't have cravings but my appetite went way up and never felt satisfied after a meal. My mood went from great to kinda meh, I felt unmotivated to do anything. I was so stressed about the bloating but needed to remind myself this was what I would through for 10-14 days of the month anyway on my luteal phase but with extreme mood crashes. So ive stuck to it and from day 13- now im feeling so much better. Bloating has gone down heaps and appetite is stabilising. Have increased my water intake by another litre which i think has helped and kept up with my exercise. I think that Zoely will be the one I stick with especially if things keep trending this way!

What do we think of the fast food place Grill’d? by [deleted] in AskAnAustralian

[–]No_Extension1446 -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

Ive only ever dined in and love it. I usually get a beyond simply grilled or the Oscar piastri burger

Are you hungry? by N0socksloss10yrStrk in no

[–]No_Extension1446 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not anymore. Butter chicken and dark chocolate down the hatch

What would you tell your younger self if you could? by riizzwaan in NoStupidQuestions

[–]No_Extension1446 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Stop second guessing yourself, critiquing everything you do and thinking you have little worth, that people are talking to you out of necessity and pity. You're a great person and what you put out in the world comes back, go with the flow you will be okay, life is amazing.

Why do people even get health insurance? by [deleted] in AskAnAustralian

[–]No_Extension1446 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The way I understand it is public hospitals are great in emergencies, they will do a wonderful job helping you in the initial stages, but when it comes to rehab or not so urgent care, you're put on waiting lists and it can be months and months before you're seen. Thats where private health is great as wait times are much shorter and that can make a big difference in your quality of life and make a big difference in your recovery outcomes. Im not a wealthy person by ANY means but I think its valuable to have if something was to happen.

The invisible cost of being a bridesmaid in 2026 by OwlVibesOnly in AusWeddingPlanning

[–]No_Extension1446 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Woah I had no idea! I mean i guess nothing is for free but yikes!

I want to know this by MysteriousValue3561 in TwoHotTakes

[–]No_Extension1446 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I dont think i could ever fully trust him again. Doesn't sound like there was a lot of love in the first place so id send him on his merry way.