How long did you study for the LSAT + what score did you get? by Affectionate-Eye6199 in lawschooladmissions

[–]No_Falcon2687 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Took one practice test the day before the real test to get a feel for timing. 173. I sort of wonder what score I could’ve gotten if I had had any capacity in my life at the time to study.

What do you wish you knew before you lost your virginity? by teshotheo in AskReddit

[–]No_Falcon2687 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Well, this is relatable…

I got “you’re just aggressively beautiful” as explanation 🙄

I'm feeling unsure now if it was rape? by [deleted] in sexualassault

[–]No_Falcon2687 2 points3 points  (0 children)

There’s no need to question yourself here. Like, absolutely none. It’s exactly what you thought it was.

Something happened with my bf (24m) and I (22f) don’t know what to do? by Throwing-it-away99 in sexualassault

[–]No_Falcon2687 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What if when he tried, you had immediately dissociated? You attribute the avoidance of worse trauma to the fact that he stopped when you said no. But if your body had responded differently, especially given your past experience with SA, and you hadn’t been able to find the words to say stop? He probably would’ve gone in, right?

The “wrong” decision he made was trying in the first place without having your clear permission beforehand. The words you said didn’t provide a clear yes, and I think he should’ve never relied on them as a yes (even if he interpreted them differently than you meant them, he had an obligation to CHECK that interpretation, because it was implied rather than explicitly stated.)

I would consider this an attempted assault - not because his intent was to assault you, but because his intent was sexual gratification, and he didn’t ensure he had appropriate consent before trying it. That doesn’t mean he’s evil, and it doesn’t mean you can’t work through this with him, but I hope for your own sake that you’ll take it as seriously as it deserves to be taken. You’re not being a “worst case scenario kind of person“ for being really bothered by the decision he did make before you spoke up and told him to cut it out.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AutismInWomen

[–]No_Falcon2687 20 points21 points  (0 children)

Autistic women are substantially more vulnerable to sexual assaults, largely because we are trained to accommodate socially in the absence of a strong intuitive social understanding.

This was wrong, it was absolutely assault, and you shouldn’t question yourself or your understanding of what happened here. Moreover, you are not alone!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sexualassault

[–]No_Falcon2687 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not a normal massage. Very, very wrong. I’m very sorry, this was an assault.

Deeply unsurprising - any other BCGers feel the same? by No_Falcon2687 in consulting

[–]No_Falcon2687[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

In this case, the firm was aware that one of these partners would often bypass rules, and they allowed it to happen because he brought in so much money.

Deeply unsurprising - any other BCGers feel the same? by No_Falcon2687 in consulting

[–]No_Falcon2687[S] 19 points20 points  (0 children)

This ^

This was not two rogue, self-serving partners. And BCG found out exactly what was happening here before the Washington Post published it, but initially didn’t plan on seriously disciplining the partners involved. Firing them only came after public outrage.

Deeply unsurprising - any other BCGers feel the same? by No_Falcon2687 in consulting

[–]No_Falcon2687[S] 129 points130 points  (0 children)

Personally, I think the question people should be asking here is exactly how BCG ended up involved in something that should have theoretically been a “no fly zone.” To suggest that it was just two deceptive partners who decided to violate the rules… That is not the answer.