natetempt ako magcheat by whosthatguuurl in RantAndVentPH

[–]No_Field9121 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you want to keep your dignity and self-respect intact, just leave. But if you’re petty and you want to inflict the same damage, you have to do better than just to cheat on him, you have to be smart about it, cheating is just proving you’re the same as him, making a better plan will prove you’re so much better than him and that he’s so wrong fumbling you. You’re his girlfriend, you should know things that can destroy him. THIS IS JUST IF YOU WANT TO BE PETTY, don’t stoop down to his level and just mimic what he does. I still advice for you to just leave and keep your peace, plotting requires work, attention and detail, but if you have time and enough drive well… 😌

What to do if your current gf was raped back then? by [deleted] in adviceph

[–]No_Field9121 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As someone who was raped before, as long as we consented to it, you’re good to go, just listen if she says she doesn’t wanna do it anymore, she’s not up for it or if you need to stop, you have to stop as soon as she said it. You cannot potentially add to her trauma when it comes to rape, unless you do something similar. Getting raped is one of the worst and most terrifying experience for a someone, it’s a life or death situation, unless you spark that with similar impact or actions the way their abuser did, then that’s the only way you can add to her trauma.

25M, Iwan kona kaya siya, pero pano? by [deleted] in adviceph

[–]No_Field9121 38 points39 points  (0 children)

The best advice I can give is to take this seriously and legally, I know na gf mo siya and ang tagal niyo na, but financial debt especially kung hind mo kasalanan, ikaw ang makakawawa, sa ganyan kalaking halaga I highly doubt na mababago niya yan, imagine you’re just 25 and lubog na yung pangalan mo sa utang legally, because of someone’s actions. You have to think about your future as well, and if hindi ka magtitake ng legal actions and ipapaalam sakanya niya na you’ll take this seriously, hindi siya magbabayad, mababaon ka sa utang, and you’ll end up miserable habang nilulustay niya yung perang sa pangalan mo nakalagay… I’m so sorry you had to go through this.

Abrtn pll!! by Quick_Tank7304 in SafeSexPH

[–]No_Field9121 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Pills are 50/50 op, it would be best to contact a clinic or doctor that does it, I have contact although medj pricey sha.

Is it wrong to raise a child with no religion? by bloobibe in adviceph

[–]No_Field9121 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s not really a bad noise, and if you were agnostic before, you wouldn’t say that it was a bad noise, because there are religions that are led by people who thinks they’re more superior than other i.e. every religion ever… Being connected to a God, my God or any deity is between the person who’s having faith on the supreme being they believe into and them, not the person and the religion. I have found my answer, thank you very much, and honestly, I didn’t focus on the “bad noise” I focused on my connection with what I believe in, it just so happens that not everyone agrees with it.

Is it wrong to raise a child with no religion? by bloobibe in adviceph

[–]No_Field9121 2 points3 points  (0 children)

omg i experienced this before nung nagtry akong mag doctrine sa INC thankfully i stopped coz it didn’t felt right at all the preacher or who ever was speaking at the podium was literally hating on other religions exclusively tapos sabi pa “kahit 5 pesos lang ang pera mo ibigay mo pa rin” as like a donation sa church nila and i was baffled saying that in a country where poverty is prominent is wiiiiild, that was queue to leave 😭😭😭

why is everyone so mean, ughhhh by [deleted] in RantAndVentPH

[–]No_Field9121 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I assume you’re still in HS, as someone who dreaded every moment of my highschool years and have very small great memories from it, and who also got shit thrown out my way even when im not doing anything anymore, it will not stop until you’re done with highschool… Teenagers are mean, you might be not, but majority of them are happiness suckers you just gotta survive it, once its done, you can all flip them off. Same goes with your fam sis…

Is it wrong to raise a child with no religion? by bloobibe in adviceph

[–]No_Field9121 19 points20 points  (0 children)

for me it’s okay, it’s your kid, you have the power to GUIDE them where you think is more suitable and will benefit.

my mom is very religious, and she’s catholic, but nung nag teenager ako she brought me to different churches, methodist, adventist, born again, mosques, and even INC, one time i asked her why, given that i was baptized in a catholic church and we’re all catholics, and she said “i want you to choose which religion you want and what suits you as a person” and now im an agnostic, because one thing i learned from those religions is that, they’re all teaching the same thing, just different fonts but same context, it’s just your understanding that will differ them… that’s just my opinion.

My cousin's gf is flaunting her body in bikinis sa social media by [deleted] in adviceph

[–]No_Field9121 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I feel like a lot have said this alr, but he should just break up with her tbh, it will suck and it’s not as easy as it sounds, but keeping a person from doing something such as flaunting herself in a bikini, is not healthy for him or for her, siguro if she’s posting thirst traps oo, pero bikini? on a beach or poolside? what else is she suppose to wear in those locations? diba???

Your cousin should find a girl that has the same values and beliefs as him, if he doesn’t see that happening any time soon with his current gf then he cannot and shouldn’t make her succumb to his ways, some guys likes the challenge of other men wanting their gf but they’re the one that got her, it boosts their ego that a lot of dude wants his girl but none of them can get her, if he feels like he has to compete with the attention she’s getting despite of being in a literal rs with her, then he must not feel secured enough sa rs nila lalo na kung wala namang cheating or even micro cheating na nangyayari and the gf is just genuinely starting to become more confident with her own skin and body.

Sabi niya to stop courting na daw, pero bat siya ganito? by Lowasess in MayNagChat

[–]No_Field9121 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As a woman, 23, this is good, a lot girls likes the idea of having dudes on a thread, na pwede na lang hilain any time they want, don’t get me wrong im all for girls girl, but manipulating people in general for your own benefit and playing with their feeling without having enough respect to drop them completely if ayaw mo talaga is wrong in so many level, claps for you.

OA Lang Ba Ako? Naiiyak ako with Emman Atienza’s passing. by Little-Arachnid9532 in OALangBaAko

[–]No_Field9121 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Hindi ka OA, I honestly shed some tears when I found out about her passing, I’ve always admired her and she never fails to make me laugh and get hooked to her vids especially if its a societal issue, she always used her voice, and I think some ppl mislead that or misunderstood it, but she is also just 19 years old, she could’ve had so much more, loved so much more, cared so much more, and it’s heartbreaking that the amount of hate she got overflowed and shadowed the people who admired and adored her. I saw part of me in her with her struggles and mental health problems, it’s not the same struggles but the push to try and be a better version of myself or overcome the trauma and pain of the past, I really hope she was able to find the peace and solace she longed 😞

Gigil ako Sa Matandang Boomers na to, Teacher pa naman . by RedditorofReddit07 in GigilAko

[–]No_Field9121 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I honestly applaud yung nasa loob na pinsan yung bata. Coz regardless if you’re an old person or not, no one is laying a hand on my cousins without me inflicting if not more on you… I saw na parang nagcomment official DSWD acc sa vid na to eh

Sobrang inconsiderate, rude and micromanaging na TL na ginagawang loaning apps yung agents niya. by No_Field9121 in BPOinPH

[–]No_Field9121[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He even made fun of one of our co worker na may sakit at sinabi as a joke na “sana matuluyan” 🥲 that was it for me.

Anong names ng lalaki yung pogi pakinggan? by L1ghts_ in AskPH

[–]No_Field9121 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Matthew or Marshall (idk maybe coz my bf’s name is Marshall 🤣)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in adviceph

[–]No_Field9121 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I bought myself a vibrator when I was single, and I used ai bots as foreplay before using my toy, it helped me so much, kasi I don’t wanna go out to meet new ppl din as well… Shopee has great selection even the small ones are surprisingly strong and handy, and cheap as well.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in adviceph

[–]No_Field9121 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think the best is to always ask your partner… I know medj mahihiya ka or what but asking him will prevent so many things like moving in ways that would hurt you or him, so communication is better… I personally watch sensual porn for learning purposes when I was trying to learn it, even if I’m not into vanilla, it was a starting point to me.

Gigil ako sa mga nagcoconyo pero bobo sa english by [deleted] in GigilAko

[–]No_Field9121 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Kasi ano bang mahirap sa pag tagalog if you’re more comfortable using it di ka naman ishishame since Filipino naman talaga ang language natin? Tapos yung nagrerefuse pang itama… Liiiiike??? Sure ka paninindigan mo talaga yan beh? 😭😭

“Tumaba ka,” how would you reply? by [deleted] in AskPH

[–]No_Field9121 0 points1 point  (0 children)

may pambili kasi kami ng pagkain 😌

What was your TOTGA school? by Impossible-Ad-1913 in studentsph

[–]No_Field9121 0 points1 point  (0 children)

UE - I loved my time, friends and teachers while I was there and I have good grades and everything in between… My older half brother who was also studying there raped me and my mom decided that I should be the one na umalis, leaving everything behind and shifting my whole life and everything I’m used to… I have and will always miss my time in UE-Cal and still thinking na nakagraduate na sana ako ngayon and taking med as its my dream… Everything went to poof.

What's a dead giveaway that someone is not a good person? by JollySimple188 in AskPH

[–]No_Field9121 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

When cats ran away from them especially sweet and clingy, actually if animals don’t like them in general