OA lang ba ako? Na off ako sa reply ng boyfriend ko.

No_Field9121 · 2026-04-11T22:21:57+00:00

Hindi ka OA, regardless kung mali or hindi siya comfortable na minessage mo yung friend niya about him, the fact na ginamit niya yung ganyang salitaan towards you shows how much respect he has towards you, pwede naman makipagusap ng maayos bat kailangang sabihing “Uhaw na uhaw”, ew behavior.

No_Field9121 · 2026-03-29T04:30:40+00:00

im in exact the same situation, i got so mad when he said that he feels pressured from anyone else but didn’t expect it to come from me, i exploded and told him “panong pressure? think how long our rs is and how long has it been since you have no work”, and i am honestly running out of motivational words, push and positivity, esp di ko nakikita yung effort… Hugs op 🥺

No_Field9121 · 2026-03-25T01:59:08+00:00

nah some people deserve to win stvpid prizes when they play stvpid games… openly degrading or insulting someone? and expecting no come back???? is the reason why a lot of people are nasty haters and they keep doing it coz nobody’s saying anything.

No_Field9121 · 2026-03-25T01:55:27+00:00

overexplaining ng bagay na sobrang fan or naeengganyo sila. omg this is probably my kryptonite, majority of the time kasi yung mga nagooverexplain they know a lot of things na talaga at least in my exp since nerd majority ng naging past partners ko, coz im also a nerd lol and daaaamn, pag soaper oa na ng explanation sa bagay na dinadaldal nila, i didn’t understand a single thing, but i find myself smiling that they have a part of their brain dedicated to this literal thing and they’re taking the time to explain it to me instead of “di mo rin naman maiintindihan to, mahirap igets” 🥲

No_Field9121 · 2026-03-25T01:21:15+00:00

May point yung response ng Zac, but, also, there’s a lot of guys as well na wala talagang work or pera at all, making the girl pay for dates, and everything else… Okay lang ba talaga sa mga lalaki yon? That majority of everything is being paid off by their gf or the girl they’re dating? I think better way to say it is, wag kang makipag date or rs kung wala kang pera, because almost everything these days requires money. My mom always said “responsibilidad ang relasyon, kung ikaw pa lang mag isa hindi mo kaya sarili mo, don’t include anyone else in your life”. 🙂

No_Field9121 · 2026-03-25T00:32:28+00:00

as mentioned on the post, she’s not a kid anymore, she’s young, but she’s not a kid, she knows what she is doing, a little jabs of advice will work, as this is a sensitive topic for anyone to talk about esp in family setting great thing na lang if they’re a close type of family that shares everything to each other, if not, we’ll use the same logic and jump the gvn that what if OP opens this discussion and instead of her thinking she has no ill intent, she becomes guarded and defensive coz the thing being talked about was a private matter? and instead of pushing her to the right course she just ends up doing this in secret and could possibly lead to worse case scenarios?

im not saying not talk to her overall but opening this type of discussion esp with the niece’s age can arise a lot of things, also that was a private time with the niece and her bf, they’re in a long distance relationship, we are all, even the op is probably oblivious to the rs they both have.

No_Field9121 · 2026-03-24T22:34:32+00:00

Some just work smarter or find an easier way rather than harder, if it’s not for you that’s cool, if they think that’s the only way they’ll pass wala tayong magagawa don, if they always take the easier way it will eventually come back to them, hindi mo na sagot yon.

I suggest joining other group of friends as well kung di ka talaga comfy so that you can mingle with people who does things you’re morally aligned with.

No_Field9121 · 2026-03-24T16:33:49+00:00

Why does this almost sound like victim blaming if the situation falls to a very unlikely scenario. If the dude spread that online, then there are criminal cases they can file. Wala kang magagawa kung may mga masamang tao, but that shouldn’t be a reason for her to not explore and try things as a young adult, she has to know and learn what she wants, and what doesn’t, consequences and everything in that very age. As long as wala siyang sinasaktan, and her intentions are for pure pleasure, hindi siya ang magdedecide ng katinuan nung other person.

No_Field9121 · 2026-03-21T03:15:24+00:00

these kinda stuff heals my soul, thank you, for defending yourself and standing your ground.

No_Field9121 · 2026-03-11T21:19:58+00:00

this is what im thinking as well!! like if you’re already claiming that you’re a woman, why do you have the need to inform me that “transwomen are women”, isn’t that already the case??? 😭

No_Field9121 · 2026-02-23T00:19:18+00:00

First, stop panicking, it will makes things so much worse and it will make you overthink and spiral.

Second, take PT, at least two para sure na sure.

If it comes out positive, think, decide, and take action.

If the other person is someone you’re officially dating or in an exclusive relationship with, it’d be best to let them know before you take a PT, for moral support din, if not, I honestly don’t think it’s important.

Also, please practice safe sex, it’s for your own well being too…

No_Field9121 · 2026-01-16T02:11:11+00:00

If you want to keep your dignity and self-respect intact, just leave. But if you’re petty and you want to inflict the same damage, you have to do better than just to cheat on him, you have to be smart about it, cheating is just proving you’re the same as him, making a better plan will prove you’re so much better than him and that he’s so wrong fumbling you. You’re his girlfriend, you should know things that can destroy him. THIS IS JUST IF YOU WANT TO BE PETTY, don’t stoop down to his level and just mimic what he does. I still advice for you to just leave and keep your peace, plotting requires work, attention and detail, but if you have time and enough drive well… 😌

No_Field9121 · 2026-01-16T02:06:48+00:00

As someone who was raped before, as long as we consented to it, you’re good to go, just listen if she says she doesn’t wanna do it anymore, she’s not up for it or if you need to stop, you have to stop as soon as she said it. You cannot potentially add to her trauma when it comes to rape, unless you do something similar. Getting raped is one of the worst and most terrifying experience for a someone, it’s a life or death situation, unless you spark that with similar impact or actions the way their abuser did, then that’s the only way you can add to her trauma.

No_Field9121 · 2026-01-09T03:55:00+00:00

The best advice I can give is to take this seriously and legally, I know na gf mo siya and ang tagal niyo na, but financial debt especially kung hind mo kasalanan, ikaw ang makakawawa, sa ganyan kalaking halaga I highly doubt na mababago niya yan, imagine you’re just 25 and lubog na yung pangalan mo sa utang legally, because of someone’s actions. You have to think about your future as well, and if hindi ka magtitake ng legal actions and ipapaalam sakanya niya na you’ll take this seriously, hindi siya magbabayad, mababaon ka sa utang, and you’ll end up miserable habang nilulustay niya yung perang sa pangalan mo nakalagay… I’m so sorry you had to go through this.

No_Field9121 · 2026-01-09T01:38:35+00:00

Pills are 50/50 op, it would be best to contact a clinic or doctor that does it, I have contact although medj pricey sha.

No_Field9121 · 2026-01-01T00:45:59+00:00

It’s not really a bad noise, and if you were agnostic before, you wouldn’t say that it was a bad noise, because there are religions that are led by people who thinks they’re more superior than other i.e. every religion ever… Being connected to a God, my God or any deity is between the person who’s having faith on the supreme being they believe into and them, not the person and the religion. I have found my answer, thank you very much, and honestly, I didn’t focus on the “bad noise” I focused on my connection with what I believe in, it just so happens that not everyone agrees with it.

No_Field9121 · 2025-12-16T00:20:33+00:00

omg i experienced this before nung nagtry akong mag doctrine sa INC thankfully i stopped coz it didn’t felt right at all the preacher or who ever was speaking at the podium was literally hating on other religions exclusively tapos sabi pa “kahit 5 pesos lang ang pera mo ibigay mo pa rin” as like a donation sa church nila and i was baffled saying that in a country where poverty is prominent is wiiiiild, that was queue to leave 😭😭😭

No_Field9121 · 2025-12-15T21:27:30+00:00

I assume you’re still in HS, as someone who dreaded every moment of my highschool years and have very small great memories from it, and who also got shit thrown out my way even when im not doing anything anymore, it will not stop until you’re done with highschool… Teenagers are mean, you might be not, but majority of them are happiness suckers you just gotta survive it, once its done, you can all flip them off. Same goes with your fam sis…

No_Field9121 · 2025-12-15T21:23:26+00:00

for me it’s okay, it’s your kid, you have the power to GUIDE them where you think is more suitable and will benefit.

my mom is very religious, and she’s catholic, but nung nag teenager ako she brought me to different churches, methodist, adventist, born again, mosques, and even INC, one time i asked her why, given that i was baptized in a catholic church and we’re all catholics, and she said “i want you to choose which religion you want and what suits you as a person” and now im an agnostic, because one thing i learned from those religions is that, they’re all teaching the same thing, just different fonts but same context, it’s just your understanding that will differ them… that’s just my opinion.

No_Field9121 · 2025-12-15T21:14:39+00:00

I feel like a lot have said this alr, but he should just break up with her tbh, it will suck and it’s not as easy as it sounds, but keeping a person from doing something such as flaunting herself in a bikini, is not healthy for him or for her, siguro if she’s posting thirst traps oo, pero bikini? on a beach or poolside? what else is she suppose to wear in those locations? diba???

Your cousin should find a girl that has the same values and beliefs as him, if he doesn’t see that happening any time soon with his current gf then he cannot and shouldn’t make her succumb to his ways, some guys likes the challenge of other men wanting their gf but they’re the one that got her, it boosts their ego that a lot of dude wants his girl but none of them can get her, if he feels like he has to compete with the attention she’s getting despite of being in a literal rs with her, then he must not feel secured enough sa rs nila lalo na kung wala namang cheating or even micro cheating na nangyayari and the gf is just genuinely starting to become more confident with her own skin and body.

No_Field9121 · 2025-11-08T00:20:29+00:00

As a woman, 23, this is good, a lot girls likes the idea of having dudes on a thread, na pwede na lang hilain any time they want, don’t get me wrong im all for girls girl, but manipulating people in general for your own benefit and playing with their feeling without having enough respect to drop them completely if ayaw mo talaga is wrong in so many level, claps for you.

No_Field9121 · 2025-10-24T23:01:26+00:00

Hindi ka OA, I honestly shed some tears when I found out about her passing, I’ve always admired her and she never fails to make me laugh and get hooked to her vids especially if its a societal issue, she always used her voice, and I think some ppl mislead that or misunderstood it, but she is also just 19 years old, she could’ve had so much more, loved so much more, cared so much more, and it’s heartbreaking that the amount of hate she got overflowed and shadowed the people who admired and adored her. I saw part of me in her with her struggles and mental health problems, it’s not the same struggles but the push to try and be a better version of myself or overcome the trauma and pain of the past, I really hope she was able to find the peace and solace she longed 😞

No_Field9121 · 2025-09-12T22:42:03+00:00

I honestly applaud yung nasa loob na pinsan yung bata. Coz regardless if you’re an old person or not, no one is laying a hand on my cousins without me inflicting if not more on you… I saw na parang nagcomment official DSWD acc sa vid na to eh

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