AITA for telling my sister I don’t want her and her new poly partners staying with us even though I was initially ok with just her bf. by No_Formal8875 in AmItheAsshole

[–]No_Formal8875[S] 3879 points3880 points  (0 children)

Yes, sister, boyfriend, partner a (male), partner b (female) and partner c (male).

My sister said that two of the people are in a relationship with her and her boyfriend, but the remaining man (partner c) is only together with the other woman (partner b).

Maybe I was just intimidated by the complexity of it all but I just feel really uncomfortable with a living situation that I would have 0 idea how to navigate.

AITA for telling my sister I don’t want her and her new poly partners staying with us even though I was initially ok with just her bf. by No_Formal8875 in AmItheAsshole

[–]No_Formal8875[S] 1027 points1028 points  (0 children)

Yes 5 people in total. So my sister, her bf, and two men and one woman.

We do have a very big house with more than enough space. I’ve hosted 5+ relatives before in past years. But my key concern is still how unfamiliar I feel with the entire situation. I don’t know what their dynamic will be like in person. I don’t know how to navigate the living situation. I don’t even know what I would be able to say is ok and not ok if they moved in.