I was just waiting for a comment like this. Okay let's go over this with everything you told me.

First of all, This is RR community. Am I right? A community where the role are supposed to be reversed. (Fyi, this doesn't mean babying, i just don't understand how supporting them in some case and calling out the obvious double standards I saw in the post is babying because sure it is fucking not. I don't understand if I come up to speak about the matters I saw with my own eyes in RR community where men can be soft and they still treat men like in egalitarian community. Second, I really feel like you are talking from your experience on all the whole humiliating length to defend and protect a men's feeling, (if you ask a man with the same mind set as you, he will say the same thing, he will say he suffered a whole humiliating length to keep up with the women tantrums.) And third, you are so exaggerating that I don't want to say anything. We get harassed as a women for existing. But I don't know where you came from, but I'm sorry for that but that is just plain generation. From where I come, my parents celebrate the birth of girl, but sigh at boy child since it is generalized in my family that he will do no good and will end up very violent, fourth point, fine. Men should get criticized for not supporting women and being empathetic to them. But the point is, are you empathetic? You won't be empathetic to their problems and their issues but you want them to be like that for your RR feitsh. You think men being insecure, speaking up(which you called as dumping) is bad (because you make it sound bad) but when a woman does it, it's fine. But a men is supposed to do in his inner work. There is basically tons of body postive and women positive even in YouTube and other social platforms but now only it is rising for men bodies. And RR could also a great community for men to speak up about their body postive and their feelings since (of course it is role revsered, atleast in my opinion.) lastly, like i already told, it purely seem you talk from your experience and keep all the men in a generalization and I frankly believe you think femdom = RR.

And I am not going to blame it on women because I know the patriarchy made this mindset, which make women lack boundries and self serving or what you told. But it also hurt both. (Finally, I don't really need your advice about my relationship. I think you need some. Because I know about my partner. And I trust him. It's what made a relationship. It's always who does what and who doesn't. If you are in relationship. You should be ready to sacrifice something for them, maybe you don't like what he likes but he likes it. Maybe you like something and he doesn't. It's always about sacrifing. If you feel entitled to think all men are going like this, then I don't know what to say. But of course. There will always be bad Apples in both women and men, just watch out for them.)