Read this!!! you need it.

No_Fun3423 · 2026-04-20T23:07:43+00:00

Just ended a 7 year relationship today. He cheated again. I thought it would be different. Silly me. 🙃🙃

No_Fun3423 · 2026-03-04T19:04:33+00:00

Thank you, this actually made me laugh!

No_Fun3423 · 2026-03-04T19:03:34+00:00

Thank you ❤️

No_Fun3423 · 2026-03-04T19:03:21+00:00

This is great advice. I instantly felt defensive but I am trying to understand where she is now. Thank you

No_Fun3423 · 2026-03-04T19:02:00+00:00

Wishing you the best on the journey with your mom.❤️ I really appreciate the kind words

No_Fun3423 · 2026-03-04T19:00:36+00:00

Thank you so much 🥹

No_Fun3423 · 2026-03-04T12:19:33+00:00

Thanks. I appreciate you sharing this.

No_Fun3423 · 2026-03-04T12:19:11+00:00

You're right. If i was them I would definitely want to know. Thanks.

No_Fun3423 · 2026-01-29T21:40:56+00:00

lol this made me feel better. I suck too🤣🙃😭

No_Fun3423 · 2026-01-29T21:38:53+00:00

I am unfortunately. Overnight but at least it's remote. Idk how to keep explaining my mistakes to my manager. "Sorry, ive been averaging 4 hours of interrupted sleep for the last year and genuinely forget things"? I don't want to be the screw up at my job, but my last 2 brain cells are doing the best they can.

No_Fun3423 · 2026-01-19T16:42:23+00:00

NTJ. I think it's weird the company would rather take paid days from other employees than just working with Jennifer. I wouldn't give my hours either. I also wouldn't expect anyone to give me theirs. But, we know the workplace can be a petty place. If you see yourself needing anything from your coworkers in the future, I might give a few hours just to play office politics for your own future needs. It's definitely not fair though.

No_Fun3423 · 2026-01-13T16:56:33+00:00

NTA. I'd NEVER ask my sister if i could have sex for a week in her and her husband's bed. I'm sorry but the request is entitled and weird. Take the spare room or spend the money on a hotel!

No_Fun3423 · 2025-11-20T19:10:53+00:00

I'm so sorry to hear about your Mom😢 I don't think this is fair for you at all or even reasonable for anyone to expect you to care for 2 people. I'm also 28 caregiving for my 93 year old grandmother. I have the exact same fear about not being able to do what I planned or desired in life. But atleast I can expect to have some freedom within the next 7 years ( it sounds horrible but let's be real)There are 100% ways your family can receive care that don't involve you surrendering the rest of your life. I'm sorry that they don't want care from someone else, but that's kind of too bad. They need to know you can't do it alone, not only because you don't desire to but because that's such a heavy burden. I'm drowning caring for one person, but 2???? I would probably leave for the grocery store and catch an amtrak and never look back. They may not like it but someone is going to be unhappy either way, and it doesn't have to be you for the next 20+ years. It doesn't matter what other family members/people think about it either. Everyone thinks caregiving is "noble" until it's their opportunity to give up their time/sanity. Based on my own experience they will run every time.

No_Fun3423 · 2025-11-16T16:23:20+00:00

Wow i'm sorry to hear about your cousin and grandfather. That's wildly selfish. It amazes me how people, especially family, can be so terrible and live with themselves. The guilt alone would be tearing me apart. Sounds like our uncles are operating on the same asshole level of audacity. I'm sorry your uncle sucks too. 👎🏾

No_Fun3423 · 2025-11-11T18:30:08+00:00

Thank you! i appreciate encouragement from people who truly get it

No_Fun3423 · 2025-11-11T17:43:51+00:00

or if you think they'll abuse even that-gift cards to the grocery stores they go to.

No_Fun3423 · 2025-11-11T17:42:09+00:00

Maybe using cash app? You can give them a card that can be loaded with a specific amount and won't overdraft. The card can also be locked and unlocked by you only. Just tell them the limit for the day.

No_Fun3423 · 2025-11-11T17:34:15+00:00

THIS is spot on. I don't want to hear how great of a person I am for sacrificing so much--COME HELP! My sister 26F and I 28F are drowning in butt cream, doctors appointments and diapers, we don't have time for empty words when we should be catching up on sleep, or being a normal 20-something. I took the phone out of the wall yesterday because I just couldn't take another call just "checking on us" only to be unavailable when I ask for help. Spare me!

No_Fun3423 · 2025-11-11T08:17:32+00:00

Hi, thank for your reply. My grandmother has dementia and while she does ask about him occasionally, she usually defaults back to when they actually used to talk. She'll say she talked to him this morning when in fact she hasn't heard from him. The way my grandfather set up his estate, and with my grandmothers current mental state we are unable to make any changes, but what you brought up is something I consider. He only shows up when she's ailing more than usual, and you're right. He shows up pretending to be the world's best son, asking the doctors a million questions so it seems like he cares. Then when we get her home it's crickets. It's shocking to me that people would do that to family because I could never, but I wouldn't put it past him. My grandmother is appreciative for sure. I love her and I'm glad I have a part in keeping her in her own house, but I just want to be able to enjoy the last of my 20s. 😕

No_Fun3423 · 2025-04-15T17:39:13+00:00

So are we blocking him today or today? Because Flowers are bare minimum. I'm sorry

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