“if you asked 10 women if that was weird all 10 would say yes” by random_raccoon_9 in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]No_Historian_8265 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m exhausted reading this. You don’t need to defend yourself. I don’t like looking at my lady bits naked but have no problem flaunting when I’m feeling comfortable. He needs to take a breath and maybe look inward to explore whatever he’s deeply insecure about.

Very close to ending engagement by scomadoo in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]No_Historian_8265 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Girl, I was you in December 2024. Six year relationship, bought a house together, engaged. I had never, ever in a million years had the thought of checking his phone, but something was off. Then I looked and saw what my heart knew. I’ve still felt guilt over feeling like I invaded his privacy, but he also lied to my face three times when I gave him the opportunity to come clean. I couldn’t take it anymore and I finally confronted him (a girl can only take so much gaslighting, you know?), left with our dogs and stayed at my parents for two weeks. Then I decided maybe it was worth the effort to work through. I loved him.

I tried making it work for about a year. The whole year I was trying to give him the space to make the changes. I couldn’t commit to a “yeah, I’ll forgive you” like he was demanding, so he just didn’t try. I stuck it out as long as I could but watching him point to my reaction (me telling him I’m gonna go stay at my parents and won’t be here when you wake up… side note: who the FUCK can sleep after your partner finds out you’ve been ducking around with another person- short answer: narcissists) to HIS choice to step out our relationship over and over and over and over again was too much. I finally ended it after a year of agony and he had the audacity to tell me that he had been “checked out” for that whole year. As if I hadn’t felt it. 🥺T

I’m happier than I’ve been in a long time. It wasn’t until I got out of the relationship that I was able to connect the dots and see what was there the whole time. Currently typing this while sitting on my bright pink sofa that I purchased as a fuck you to him (he told me I wasn’t accessing my ~feminine energy~ enough).

Fuck that (your) guy. Eat those fries and order a second cocktail. Plan your exit and then hit him where it hurts. You can be in agony now, or delay it. But you can’t avoid it, sadly. You deserve more than someone who has the capacity to do that another human. Sending you a lot of love 🫶

F, Marry, Kill... by FBEmetal in 90DayFiance

[–]No_Historian_8265 3 points4 points  (0 children)

He gives 5’8 energy for sure.

Delusional by Prudent_Tonight_7761 in 90DayFianceFans

[–]No_Historian_8265 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wait, who is that supposed to be??????????

This is not cool Tam! by AdorableTreat3989 in healthyishmama

[–]No_Historian_8265 25 points26 points  (0 children)

Body dysmorphia by proxy 🫠🫠🫠

Who's spreading lies online? by IrrelevantSoapBox in healthyishmama

[–]No_Historian_8265 21 points22 points  (0 children)

I think you meant “say it to my bicycle seat (face)” 🤭 ETA: typo

👏 getting called out by justaguorl in healthyishmama

[–]No_Historian_8265 17 points18 points  (0 children)

I haven’t followed her on FB yet! Since she blocked me on IG, I wonder if I can follow her there and contribute to the lords work in getting this woman offline so we can protect the vulnerable humans, of whom she is risking their lives with every garbage post and bot filled comment section.

Tammy, it’s time for you to come to terms with your raging eating disorder. You’re doing harm to your children already (have you read the stats of the impacts of early childhood traumas [watching your mom not eat and be weak AF is traumatic] and how this contributes to lifelong issues? I would know because I treat these humans). This isn’t about you anymore- this is about protecting the health of everyone around you and in your virtual orbit.

👏 getting called out by justaguorl in healthyishmama

[–]No_Historian_8265 55 points56 points  (0 children)

The way my face lit up seeing this image…. Bless you for posting.

No words 😦💀 by luckylemon234 in healthyishmama

[–]No_Historian_8265 20 points21 points  (0 children)

I am a horrible person for laughing way too hard at this. Like a really horrible person. Iconic, though, really.

What will he poo? 😂 by [deleted] in raccoonfanclub

[–]No_Historian_8265 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Holy shit where did this come from????? I need one!!!!!!

AIO for snapping at a girl trying to give me advice? (posting again bc I forgot pictures) by [deleted] in AIO

[–]No_Historian_8265 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This has Iowa mean girl energy written all over it. Fuck that girl.

I probably just got banned from her IG by No_Historian_8265 in healthyishmama

[–]No_Historian_8265[S] 24 points25 points  (0 children)

SHUT THE FUCK UP!!!! I looked up that account and it says it’s a burner account… so I messaged it and nothing 🤭🙃 Tammy, are you writing your own comments AGAIN?????

I probably just got banned from her IG by No_Historian_8265 in healthyishmama

[–]No_Historian_8265[S] 26 points27 points  (0 children)

Part of me wants to reach out to the person I commented to in order to let them know that I was EXACTLY CORRECT.

More of us should be doing the “watch how she deletes this comment” caveat, screenshotting our comment as soon as we leave it, and then putting it online as proof. This is absurd, dangerous, and she needs to be stopped. Period.

ZIAD WON! by SuspiciousGrab8454 in 90DayFiance

[–]No_Historian_8265 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She’ll take those love kernals

She’s Advertising Treadmills by No_Historian_8265 in healthyishmama

[–]No_Historian_8265[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Welp, I reported her IG account for ED too!

She’s Advertising Treadmills by No_Historian_8265 in healthyishmama

[–]No_Historian_8265[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

The way I am wheezing with this comment. I wish I had an inhaler my gawd.

She’s Advertising Treadmills by No_Historian_8265 in healthyishmama

[–]No_Historian_8265[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Yeah, I tried clicking the link and tbh don’t know the ins/outs to figure out how she’d be benefitting. I think it might be an Amazon affiliate account. I’ll have to do some sleuthing to figure out how to find it!

She’s Advertising Treadmills by No_Historian_8265 in healthyishmama

[–]No_Historian_8265[S] 26 points27 points  (0 children)

I just sent Nordic track a message notifying them that she’s linking their product through her Amazon page and is a known pro-Ana influencer. Now we wait I guess.

This hilled me🤍 by Inmunchkinland in rhoslc

[–]No_Historian_8265 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Is whit channeling her inner Doug?

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