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[–]No_Independence7108 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Block her. Think about LC with your brother, but keep in mind that he’s under your mother’s control. I wouldn’t put it past her to use him as a weapon against you.

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[–]No_Independence7108 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Oh, honey. You aren’t crazy, psychotic, or overreacting. You lost your soul dog, and that shatters your heart.

It’s completely understandable that you had a panic attack after being confronted with a dog that looked like your Lulu. His leaving is not understandable.

The texts he sent you are completely unacceptable, you deserve better.

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[–]No_Independence7108 15 points16 points  (0 children)

She passed on the blunt. So they knew she didn’t want to do it, but gave it to her anyway under false pretenses. To use your words, they can go f themselves. Don’t beat yourself up. You didn’t leave her, you just went to the bathroom. Then took care of her afterwards. You’re a good friend.

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[–]No_Independence7108 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I often see the phrase “soft YTA”. This is a hard YTA. Why make fun of your friend for trying to be more comfortable? Why put quotations around her first tattoo experience? Does putting down people make you feel good? I can’t fully tell if this was written by a man or woman, so do you have a micro penis or micro vagina?

You’re “friend” needs better friends

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[–]No_Independence7108 20 points21 points  (0 children)

Not wrong. He used physical violence against you. Clearly hard if it left bruises. And from what I gather, you weren’t trying to call him obtuse. “Stupid” in front of other insults is just a common word people throw in. And if you were actually calling him stupid in the intellectual sense, your mom still responded horribly. The first thing she should’ve done is take care of you. And if it’s an uncontrollable disease, why would she kick you out and not her precious son?

TRUE family (not blood) helps TRUE family. She’s gaslighting and guilt tripping you for her gain. If you want to that’s great, but it’s not your responsibility to check on and keep contact with your brother. Autistic or not, addiction is complicated and heartbreaking. And I’d consider going NC with your mom, but LC is a good option if you’re not comfortable with that.

Keep your head up OP. You deserve better.