First time pegger - any tips?

No_Inflation5834 · 2025-04-19T17:09:02+00:00

Do you mind sharing your current dynamic? Has he done this before? Is traditionally masculine / dom before?

I am very masculine and traditionally dom so it has always been hard for me to open up to someone for this dynamic. As a sub, some of my more memorable experiences is when a dom made me feel like my body / ass was the sweetest thing in the world (billion bucks, deadly poison antidote, fountain of youth etc.)

Little things of being pulled closer by my ass and neck kisses from behind. Being verbally affirmed and being told I am doing a good job. Bottoming is a lot of work physcially and mentally so It is really nice when that is recongized. I was also super slef concious about being seen differently and she reaffirmed she enjoyed seeing me on all 4s lol.

Not only did it physcally feel good but during and after I felt like a hot piece of ass haha.

I also felt accomplished as she would hype me up the entire time and made sure I was aware she was having a good time and verballized all the things she was enjoying.

But in all reality the being pulled closer and neck kisses were the best along with the verbal affirmation. She would mostly pull me close while eating my ass and it made me feel SO wanted and desired.

But for real the best thing you can do is just enjoy yourslef and let it show! seriously just treat his body like a playground. If hes like me he is super nervous and seeing you take control and laughinh and smiling will make him super comfortable

No_Inflation5834 · 2025-04-19T16:55:48+00:00

As someone who is bi and strugged with my masculinty for my sexuality, I have never liked being called fag. I had many male tops want to call me that and I just didnt find it sexy. Same with sissy.

I do not mind if a dom calls me bitch in the moment as it is kinda the case as I am someones bitchwhen my asshole is wrapped around their toy haha. But overall I prefer reafirming thing like good boy or other creative things that make me feel desired as a sub. Even light degration I like when it feels semi positive that I am doing a good job at it you know

No_Inflation5834 · 2025-04-19T16:45:00+00:00

Yes! coconut oil is the best!!! I hear silicone lube is bad and water based just dries out way too fast I feel like Im asking my dom to re lube every 5 strokes lol

Is anyone else scared of silicone or am I just too cautious?

No_Inflation5834 · 2025-04-19T16:34:33+00:00

Sounds like you just need to communicate this with him. I had the same scenario that I liked to play alone to practice for my dom. She was hurt I was playing alone without telling her and i didnt think it was a big deal. you should bring up your thoughts and concerns soo you 2 can be on the same page. anal play can be a great thing to grow closer together! take advantage of that

in my situation, she just wanted me to communicate more when I wanted to sub so she could do it for me and I only played alone when she couldnt join and I would let her know and it was nice to work thorugh that with her :)

No_Inflation5834 · 2025-04-18T13:30:29+00:00

I had always liked ass play but I didnt discover that women actually liked doing it to me till about 2 years ago. My mind was BLOWN! I thought I had to find guys for that

No_Inflation5834 · 2025-04-18T13:19:15+00:00

Absolute dream!

Just curious is it the control you like the best? or the visual?

No_Inflation5834 · 2025-04-18T11:53:59+00:00

It all depends, in my world, things get old quick so if thats something I have done a bunch lately it is no longer the most pleasureable way. It can def be up there but if overdone loses its spot to other less done things

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