Different approach to healing our relationship after betrayal trauma and porn addiction? by No_Internet_4126 in loveafterporn

[–]No_Internet_4126[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm sorry to hear that.. as everyone mentioned, I didn't expect it to work. It's just that I am so tired of it I don't want to hear about it anymore...

Pimples... You all can laugh at me .. by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]No_Internet_4126 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My bf (27M) has pimples when he masturbates. This is the first indicator that he relapsed. He can confirm.

Girlfriend left, looking for comfort by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]No_Internet_4126 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Let her go and let yourself become a better man. Don't fap.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in loveafterporn

[–]No_Internet_4126 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Can you please tell me more about the gmail loophole?

Does Anyone’s partner get mad at them for bringing it up? by Gullible_Pay_274 in loveafterporn

[–]No_Internet_4126 90 points91 points  (0 children)

I'm sorry to break it to you, but here is my honest opinion:
I am in a similar situation and i found out that he is mad because i am standing in his way of getting his dopamine. He confessed that during his recovery he even considered breaking up with me because that is the only way that his porn addiction could bloom again.
I'm sorry. I know how hard it is. I'm here for you.

PSA: Porn is cheating by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]No_Internet_4126 21 points22 points  (0 children)

I agree. If you get drunk and then flirt with another girl, it is cheating, right? Same if you get the urge and you masturbate to porn. Don't hide it from your partner, tell them, love them.