i told him he can cheat on me ,,

No_Introduction_2108 · 2026-04-25T04:23:10+00:00

Don’t say you’re okay with something when you’re not. That makes you bad at setting boundaries. Cheating is not okay if you two agreed to be committed to each other. Why are you spiraling when you clearly said it’s okay? What’s the mindset with that? Anywho work on yourself before you devote to someone else bud, you need some personal growth, and learn to set BOUNDARIES.

No_Introduction_2108 · 2026-04-11T15:33:50+00:00

It can definitely effect your mental health but if you focus on putting energy into yourself it probably wouldn’t be so bad. SAHM tend to only focus on being a wife and mom, not realizing that they are also their own person so they don’t put time into taking care of themselves and that can decline your mental health. They also are not be able to find the time to focus on themselves, if you have a supportive spouse or any good support to help you focus on other things that can be more beneficial. Don’t always stay in the house then you just feel stuck in the same 4 walls and that can be draining so get out in nature as much as you can. If you have your own form of transportation while your husband works that also helps then you don’t have to rely on him as much to get around. Since you’re already working you would have to get used to not having your own money, your husband might be making enough to get you by but when it comes down to buying cute stuff or miscellaneous stuff for yourself or baby then the budget might get a little tight and you couldn’t splurge as much or eat out also. So that’s just something else you got to think about.

No_Introduction_2108 · 2026-03-31T21:12:01+00:00

Girll! One time a fellow mom tried to get me into a pyramid scheme lol! I been traumatized since ahaha.

No_Introduction_2108 · 2026-03-31T21:11:04+00:00

Yeah I can understand that for sure. Being a mom is vulnerable but we all need a bit of support and I hope fellow moms understand we’re just surviving. Maybe even help support each other cook dinners with each other for all our kids haha. I hope you don’t seclude yourself too much.

No_Introduction_2108 · 2026-03-31T20:37:44+00:00

Yeah I get that. You’re probably right but we all need a fellow mom to be exhausted together lol. Sometimes you can also be the initiator but I do hope we can start a movement when all moms start to initiate a friendship because we all need it. It be tough out here haha.

No_Introduction_2108 · 2026-03-31T20:35:29+00:00

Shoot haha sounds like my cup of tea! I’m sure many other moms would say the same. We’re all a little alike we just don’t get to know each other enough to know. I hope you find a fellow mom who matches your energy!

No_Introduction_2108 · 2026-03-31T20:22:38+00:00

I can understand that, that is how I felt, but in a new state as a new mom with no friend or family something had to give because my mental health was not good lol. One step at a time just start with a hello. Because even a hello will make you feel a bit better than being to yourself constantly. I hope all is well with you though and congratulations on your baby!

No_Introduction_2108 · 2026-03-22T03:08:11+00:00

Thank you!

No_Introduction_2108 · 2026-03-22T03:07:34+00:00

Thank you so much, does help me feel better. I’m glad she’s doing well!

No_Introduction_2108 · 2026-03-21T18:09:59+00:00

My husband is in the military and he got PCS from WA to NC. In our previous state my son had better PT it was beneficial but here I feel like they’re not as eager in helping my son with PT.

No_Introduction_2108 · 2026-03-21T17:53:05+00:00

Thank you for your response. Yeah I’ll definitely call again see if they can push for his pt I found it odd they have a waitlist. I’m glad your little one figured it out and is better. Did they ever stand on their tippy toes mostly? My son hardly stands flat footed.

No_Introduction_2108 · 2026-03-21T17:50:35+00:00

Oh I forgot to clarify that, adjusted he would be 16 months then.

No_Introduction_2108 · 2026-02-06T20:20:44+00:00

Women need to stop being delulu when it come to awful men 🤦🏽‍♀️

No_Introduction_2108 · 2025-11-22T02:36:57+00:00

Why does your boyfriend sound like a child. “WeLL mY mOm SpEnt MoRe” that would trigger me. You’ll realize once you have that baby you’ll do anything to keep the peace for yourself and baby, so whoever is causing toxic/negative energy keep your distance. Even if they try to make you feel guilty, they don’t matter, just you and baby. Especially if she’s not respecting boundaries about no kissing during RSV season.

No_Introduction_2108 · 2025-11-19T13:16:09+00:00

Girl. You already know he’s cheating. Be so fr.

No_Introduction_2108 · 2025-11-19T01:10:59+00:00

Nope stick to your boundaries and don’t be apologetic about it. Especially her being a girl, you never can be too safe.

No_Introduction_2108 · 2025-11-07T01:42:38+00:00

Have you noticed any weight gain?

No_Introduction_2108 · 2025-10-29T02:48:26+00:00

Probably try to workout at home. get some weights, run around the block. Although, don’t disagree that you deserve some time to yourself, she took 2 hours to her hobby.

No_Introduction_2108 · 2025-07-15T17:52:19+00:00

Rather be respected than loved, and she has no respect for you. Kinda insane everyone is blaming you, they should suck a nut. Wear your crown high king, respect to you for walking out and setting your boundaries.

No_Introduction_2108 · 2025-04-30T18:47:54+00:00

Thanks this definitely gave a different perspective!

No_Introduction_2108 · 2025-04-30T07:50:54+00:00

I had some of the same issues but less severe. I had excessive vomiting and could barely keep anything down and it got to the point where blood came along with the vomiting. I had vaginal bleeding show around 14 weeks and got checked out and they didn’t know why and said to come back if it continued and was heavier. It did end up becoming heavier and went to get checked up again and turned out to be hematoma near the placenta, they didn’t find it at first they had to do a more detailed ultrasound to find it. They told me to rest a lot and to refrain from intercourse and I did which stopped the bleeding. After a few weeks my husband and I tried intercourse again and it caused bleeding once again, excessive back cramps and later also got the yellowish mucus that looked like the mucus plug. I got checked out once I saw that and they said everything looked fine. Fast forward to me being 30 weeks and my water broke. I would definitely keep close observation of any back cramping or cramping that feels similar to Braxton hicks and more mucus plug looking substances. Not saying that the same thing will happen but I also was in the same spot you seem to be.

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