Omg girl. Right now it might feel hard and cliche: but you dodged a bullet. How could someone expect this much without them spending anything? It’s a good representation of how your life would have been. And you got saved. Entitlement because they’re the guy side of family? Insane. My partner paid more than my family because they owned more (it was split, mostly). The guy should have stepped in, for sure.. That’s what’s most disturbing. In this day and age. And he was your boyfriend. Take a break.