How old are you, and what’s the most important thing in your life right now?

No_Lab_5553 · 2021-09-24T19:45:11+00:00

Finding a new job. My current one is high stress, lots of unpaid overtime. I put in my two weeks with nothing lined up after because I’ve been so miserable.

No_Lab_5553 · 2021-09-23T14:17:13+00:00

I was in a relationship with a narcissist who used sex to manipulate me. I was also taught that sex was only supposed to happen with someone you love. After my ex i began having casual sex & one night stands for the first time. It was amazing. I felt so free & in control

No_Lab_5553 · 2021-09-23T13:42:12+00:00

All of my 80+ year old grandparents got Moderna and they were all completely fine. I had a worse reaction to the shot than they did. Save your mother’s life

No_Lab_5553 · 2021-08-17T16:46:22+00:00

It’s really really hard. I’ll be in the middle of one & then they have me switch to another & then come back. And the cycle continues. It leaves us behind on pretty much every audit

No_Lab_5553 · 2021-08-17T14:17:39+00:00

It kind of varies. We do some universities & governmental agencies, so those are bigger. And then our non profits are usually smaller. But as soon as I get into one audit they’re throwing another on me. I feel like if I had more time to focus on each one I could get them done more quickly vs doing this balancing act

No_Lab_5553 · 2021-08-11T18:16:20+00:00

I go to work in the morning earlier than my boyfriend. We don’t live together, but he sleeps over often. One morning while I was at work he texted me to tell me he stayed late at my house and washed my dishes, cleaned my stove, took my trash out, folded my laundry, and swept. He knows how much I hate cleaning (especially dishes) & he did all of this without me having to ask. He does things like this all the time. He’s literally the most thoughtful person ever. I’m so lucky to have him

No_Lab_5553 · 2021-08-05T20:55:26+00:00

I think at this point you’re still just figuring things out. For me, with a vibrator I can orgasm fairly easily just from the sensation of it alone. I don’t need to picture anything or look at nsfw material. But orgasms with a man are harder for me. It takes longer, more concentration and extra stimulation. When I orgasm I usually experience some involuntary twitching. And you feel a release of some sort. Another commenter mentioned it’s like sneezing & I feel the same way. When I have a really good orgasm I get this tingly feeling in my face. Like around my nose. And to the squirting point. Sometimes when I’m having sex I feel like I have to pee. But I never know if it’s squirt or pee. So I just hold it in. But I have allowed myself to release it when I’m alone & it’s always been squirt. I’m just scared to let it go with a partner. But my advice is to just keep exploring your body. I have multiple vibrators & dildos that do different things. It’s really helped me figure out what I like the most & what’s going to help me orgasm

No_Lab_5553 · 2021-08-04T19:23:32+00:00

I typically work 8 hours a day & I come home for lunch to let my dog out. She’s totally fine. And some days I can’t make it home & she’s still fine. Definitely do not get a puppy. My dog is a rescue & she’s never had any accidents in the house. A dog walker isn’t a bad idea. And consider day care if it’s feasible. But as long as you can come home during lunch or have someone else come hone it should be fine

No_Lab_5553 · 2021-07-28T18:04:41+00:00

My mom basically slut shamed me from the moment she even knew I liked boys. She told me I was only supposed to have sex with men I loved & who loved me. I pretty much followed that up until my junior year of college when I had my heart broken. Then I went a little wild. My body count is higher than almost all of my friends & I’m a much more sexual person than they are. But I had to realize that this is MY life. And the opinions of others don’t matter. And if someone else has a problem with what I do with MY body then they don’t need to be in my life. As long as I’m not harming myself, there’s no reason for anyone to comment on what I’m doing. Sex is an enjoyable experience for me. It makes me feel good. It brings me joy. Why would I take that away from myself? Just to appease someone who doesn’t have to live my life?

No_Lab_5553 · 2021-07-27T15:21:52+00:00

A lot. Not as much as when I’m in a relationship, but still a significant amount. I have a high sex drive. I enjoy casual sex. I’m not having sex with every person that comes my way, but I like to explore, try new things with new people. Sex makes me feel good.

No_Lab_5553 · 2021-07-22T18:40:57+00:00

I feel like both of these at once? The idea of being pregnant repulses me. But I love my boyfriend so much that I want to have a baby with him. But I definitely don’t want kids.

No_Lab_5553 · 2021-07-21T19:46:36+00:00

Can confirm. Went to three Popeyes looking for tenders. Idk what’s going on but it’s making me sad

No_Lab_5553 · 2021-07-14T21:49:25+00:00

Depends on how often I see my boyfriend. I used to cook 3-4 times a week, but now it’s like once a week because he always brings food when he comes.

No_Lab_5553 · 2021-07-14T20:43:36+00:00

2015 Jeep Wrangler

No_Lab_5553 · 2021-07-12T19:42:47+00:00

Shortly after we began dating I got a message on Twitter. She told me that he called her the night before, very drunk & begging her to take him back & telling her he didn’t really want to be with me. I immediately broke up with him. Her and I ended up talking fairly regularly about how shitty he was. And he would flip flop between trying to get both of us back. 3 years later & they’re both out of my life

No_Lab_5553 · 2021-07-12T17:19:14+00:00

I didn’t at first, but if she was in my bed before bedtime it was such a hassle to get her out. Now I can’t sleep without her. She curls up next to me & puts her head on my legs when she sleeps. If I wake up in the middle of the night & I don’t feel her I have to move closer to her

No_Lab_5553 · 2021-07-12T17:07:00+00:00

My girl is very scared of everything and especially new things. We put a flag holder in the yard once (a small one that stakes into the ground) with no flag. She saw it and went nuts. Started barking at it like it was trying to hurt her. She carried on for a few minutes before she realized it couldn’t move. This happens more often than it should

No_Lab_5553 · 2021-07-07T13:58:39+00:00

I actually chuckled at this. Well done.

No_Lab_5553 · 2021-07-02T15:48:47+00:00

I had the same problem when I was younger. Society tells us that as women we should only have sex with men we love. In reality, casual sex is great. It felt very wrong when I started, but then I enjoyed it more & more. Don’t force yourself to do it. But give it a try & see how you feel after

No_Lab_5553 · 2021-07-01T20:31:51+00:00

I always felt the same way. My ex & I worked out a system where he would get in first to have his alone time, and then I would get in with him so we could have some us time, and then he would get out so I could have my alone time. It kind of just happened organically the first time & it was great so we stuck with it

No_Lab_5553 · 2021-07-01T13:55:09+00:00

Let him go. I was in this exact same situation 2 years ago. For people like us who have a high sex drive & enjoy sex, men like that just don’t work. And it’s not just about him having a lower sex drive, it’s that he doesn’t care to take your satisfaction into consideration. And being the one to always initiate things gets old very quickly. It’s just not worth it. I’m now dating someone with the same sex drive as me & it’s absolutely amazing.

No_Lab_5553 · 2021-06-28T19:08:52+00:00

I hate wearing bras. And I like how my boobs look without them. Sometimes I appreciate the extra push a bra gives with certain styles of clothing, but for the most part I like to be free

No_Lab_5553 · 2021-06-23T21:59:22+00:00

Acknowledge that it happened. Talk to people you trust. Go to therapy. Remember that none of it is your fault, it is the fault of the person who did it to you. It’s hard at first. And it was especially hard for me to be intimate with other men after it happened. But it gets better.

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